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Nope, the dance was over and I have never seen him since. Except in my dreams:)

In your case, it seems like the awkward part is already behind you. You know he advertises massages, and he knows you've seen those ads. You really can't put that genie back in the bottle at this point. If you are both comfortable with it, I'd say go for it. Otherwise, you'll probably spend time wondering what it would have been like than regretting giving it at try. One time I was at the Gay 90's downtown in the Men's Room the men-only bar inside the club, where the strippers came in between sets. One of them turned out to be a former employee of mine. He had worked part-time for me while he was in high school. Now he was in his 20's and honestly couldn't believe it--it was the last place I expected to run into him. I had always assumed he was straight. As it turned out, he was. He was dancing and stripping because the money was good. I tried to slip away before he noticed me, but it was too late. He walked right up with a big smile and asked how I'd been. We chatted for a couple of minutes. I had always assumed he was straight. As it turned out, he was. He was dancing and stripping because the money was good. I told him I was going to walk around the rest of the bar--really, I was just trying to get out of there because the whole situation felt awkward. Instead, he smiled and said, "Wouldn't you like to stay and get a lap dance?" I laughed and told him it would be weird. He grinned and said, "You know you want to." He was right. I caved. The lap dance itself was fine, but that wasn't really the point. My heart was pounding the entire time. It was equal parts exciting and surreal because I had known him years earlier in such a completely different context. I'm so glad I agreed to the lap dance. I still remember his smile (and his incredible body) to this day. So again, go for it if you are both comfortable and it won't be weird when you bump into each other in the future. Enjoy!

Not much more to the story. We were young and everything happens a lot faster back then 😉. I do remember after fooling around we went back into the club so he could get his bag. Lights were full on and he was still beautiful. We exchanged numbers, but never saw each other again. But I'll never forget it. There were other nights I went to this club when they had dancers. I remember the lady who checked id's just knew I was underaged and would always say "be careful in there. Don't let anyone buy you a drink". Good advice. Most guys in there were in their 30's and I was fresh meet. There was one dancer who would come and he was super straight. But I managed to talk him up and he invited me to an after bars party. He was there to pick up girls, but he needed to bring beer to the party. He was 19 or 20. Well, I told him I'd buy a 6pack for him if he let me blow him. He agreed, but he said he didn't want to cum since he wanted to score that night with the ladies. So outside of this house, we went against the back wall and I went at it. He kept saying, "ok, ok, that's enough, you are going to make me ... aw, fuck it" and shot his load. Totally worth a six pack of bud light.

I would have to say my first experience. I was 20 years old and went to the only gay bar in town . They had a lit up martini glass on the outside to let you know this is the place. No windows (this was the 80's). Went there with my fake id and they had a couple of strippers for the night. Locked eyes with one of them right away. He came up to me after their show and we left the bar to make out in his car. So hot. He was a couple years older than me and a Pizza Hut assistant manager. He was such a good kisser and so good with his hands.

I did use Chat GPT to help me write my post. I was running on with train of thoughts and I just had Chat GPT create a better version. Then I cut and pasted the post. This could be the culprit.

Thanks for everyone's advice. I'll stop by this weekend and see where the conversation goes.

It’s been quite a few years since I’d been to the Gay 90’s, but about a year ago I went back and immediately developed a crush on one of the bartenders. He looks a lot like someone I used to be attracted to. I’m pretty convinced he’s straight, but he definitely knows how to work a crowd and get tips. He’ll wear very revealing outfits, short shorts, briefs, etc. The first time I met him, I tipped well and gave him my phone number. Nothing came of it, which I expected. A year later I went back and was shocked that he remembered both my name and my drink (Jack and Coke). Later I found out he had actually kept the note with my name and number by his station so he could remember customers. I assume he does that with other people too. Since then, I’ve stopped in every few weeks. He always has my drink ready, remembers my name, and is very friendly. I tip well—usually $20 for a couple drinks, and sometimes another $20 on the way out. Not outrageous, but definitely above average. Today something happened that completely caught me off guard. I was walking around Uptown and suddenly heard someone call my name. It was him on a scooter. He stopped, got off, gave me a big hug, and we chatted for a few minutes. He asked if I lived nearby, told me he was on his way to get a tan, and when we were done talking he said, “I hope to see you this weekend.” Now I’m on cloud nine, but I’m also trying to stay realistic. He’s a very attractive guy in his 20s. I’m a guy in my 50s. I’m 99% sure he’s not romantically interested in me and that he’s simply friendly and appreciates a good customer. What I’m struggling with is figuring out how to interpret the off-the-clock interaction. Bartenders remember regulars, but stopping, getting off the scooter, giving me a hug, and chatting felt different than normal customer service. For those of you who have worked in bars or have been regulars at bars, how would you read this? Friendly bartender who recognizes a good customer? Something else? Also, separate question: Is it inappropriate to ask a bartender whether he does any kind of private entertainment, appearances, or paid work outside the bar? I’ve had no problem asking dancers or strippers that question, but asking a bartender feels very different.

Des Moines is a nice place to visit. They actually have a good food scene and brew pubs. It's family oriented city and you need to drive everywhere. West Des Moines is the best part of the city, but there are a few restaurants downtown. I haven't been to the gay bars there, but I'm sure they are your average midwestern gay bar. It's not a typical small Iowa town. I grew up in Iowa and I'm amazed how much it has grown over the years since I've lived there. That said, if I was a straight family man, I would LOVE to live there--but I'm not. Thats why I left. Not a great singles scene, but if you are only there for a week, make the most of it. And the cost of living is incredible. You will get a lot of bang for your buck there.

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OK, much better night tonight. This is my last night in Puerto Vallarta and I’m feeling better than I was previously. I didn’t have high expectations for tonight, but I was pleasantly surprised of how great it was. I only went to one strip club tonight. That was wet dreams. somewhat quiet. There was a group that had done bottle service, and so some of the dancers were specifically for them. All the guys were hot and it was fun to watch the shower dances. Then I came across Jorge. He’s one of the most beautiful men I’ve ever seen— perfect bright, white smile, and a clone of Justin baldoni. I gave the traditional tips for shower dance and he asked if I wanted to do a private I agreed and it was wonderful. I won’t go into great detail. He made my last night in Mexico special.

So I’m in Puerto Vallarta right now. I spent the first week with some friends at an all inclusive. I was able to break away a couple nights first went to Antropology. There was a muscular dancer from Mexico City. I think Richard was his name. He has a small tweak friend who is From Colombia both were straight had fun with some couch dances and they offered me a private. I held off because it was too early in the trip went to wet dreams and stood at the bar by the shower and others have mentioned. This is a great spot you can tell other dancers that you’re only tipping shower dances. Make sure you bring enough 20s to tip others that you talk to for a couple of minutes. I didn’t have a private there but the dancers working pace went to club 69 much more muscular guys at this location. It was dead quiet I came. I was the only customer in the place. I didn’t stay long because it was awkward again beautiful man checked out. Be mine actually a lot of fun some really good looking dancers at this bar as well. What I’ve noticed is all the dancers I’ve spoken with, and the people giving massages too only offer to have you sucked their dick, but no one will reciprocate. No matter how much you offer. Any guidance in this area would be appreciated. You can PV me if you like. i’ve been a little under the weather the last few days so I can only stay out for a little bit. I hope to feel better by tonight since this is my last night in Puerto Vallarta this is a beautiful city with great food and beautiful men. I have some pesos to blow so I will report back tomorrow.

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I did the same thing when I was there a couple of years ago. Perfect spot to watch the shower dance, tip the dancer and avoid the hustle of other strippers. Best seat in the house! Looking forward to going back in a couple of weeks.

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