Vegas_Millennial

If the man's rates are reasonable and offers massage, my desired session length is 2 hours to include massage then play. For strictly sex sessions, I typically just hire for 1 hour but recently hired a man for 90 minutes and it started with talking/drinking/making out, then fucking, then a cuddle/kiss/talk, then a "now time for Round 2" of fucking.

He was very good... And shirtless for most of the first half of the play! 😉

Well, I mentioned race, as the topic is race. I can see how one could read the original post that way. The original post used color as a descriptor, but one could also focus the question on primarily being turned on by men who perform only the traditionally masculine role in sex, but losing interest if one learns the masculine persona hides a man who has performed the traditionally feminine role. Whether the race assigned at birth or the race one identifies as (if different than the race assigned at birth) compliments the traditionally masculine or feminine sexual role all plays a part. Just look at all the posts in the Deli or Spa sking for recommendations specifically for asian feminine twinks or latin day-laborer-type masculine hunks. In my experience, I find that a cis man who has previously taken a dick up the ass makes a better top than one who hasn't.

Yes, or sex or gender

Having lost my virginity in college, I constantly had sexual encounters that were focused on lust and raunchy sex. Once I started hiring, it was nice to be appreciated for something more than just my body... My wallet 💰

This is why my "box" mattress sits directly on the floor and not on a bedframe. The standard bedframe is not equipped to hold a King size mattress with a half-dozen men thrusting at once.

The prices I encountered in NYC ($135-$400) did not include condoms. Some included lube.

It is customary to tip at a massage parlor or brothel or strip club where you pay at the rate the house/madam/pimp charges; but, it is not customary to tip an independent masseur or escort who sets his own rates. Offering extra to compensate when time goes over is polite, but also not expected.

To be fair, it was a 9-night trip, not a week. The 9-nights included 8 hired sessions, 6 lap dances at Spunk and BuffDaddys, and 3 free hookups. There was to be a 9th hired session and a few more hookups, but I had to cancel...I was just too tired some nights. I also squeezed in 5 Broadway shows and 1 Off-Broadway show, and sightseeing from the Bronx to the Battery. Every week is not like this. I usually only hire daily or every other day when I travel. At home in Las Vegas I rely on a group of regular friends with benefits, and only hire once every few weeks (prices are cheaper than NYC prices, especially for massage).

They've always had the large buckets on the bar for tips during the shower shows, which I regularly used. But most other customers didn't use them. Most dancers in the shower watched me tip into the buckets and therefore never solicited additional tips from me afterwards while they made their rounds. Glad to hear that management is addressing the tipping dynamic, as it was overwhelming especially to new strip club patrons.

I can't speak for apartments, but dogs are much worse than neighbor's children for detached housing in the suburbs. I plan on moving to Florida next and getting a house on the water, because I'd rather deal with a crocodile 🐊 than a neighbor's barking dog (which the crocodile 🐊 will take care of 😊)

Are you looking for a masseur or an escort? Depending on what you want, you can Search 🔎 (using the 🔎 icon above) either the "Spa" or "Deli" page with the keyword "Brooklyn".

I had the pleasure of hiring Volodymyr on my trip to NYC last week. His rates are fantastic ($135/hr), and he came directly to my hotel in Chelsea after his day job as a trainer in a nearby gym. He's completely nude during the massage and looks amazing, the massage was good as usual, and the massage progresses each additional time I see him 😊

I saw Jose_Ok last week in NYC. He hosted at his place in Chelsea (ground floor apartment) on a professional table. The massage was great and the play was great. He looks exactly like his photos. If I didn't know that he had been advertising a while, I would guess he was late 20s based on his appearance. I highly recommend.

I hired ClassicColt again last week when I was in NYC. I asked if he could host since he previously mentioned he had a wide assortment of toys available for play together. His apartment in Chelsea was very neat and clean and the playtime was better than I could have anticipated! He does have 2 cats which he didn't mention in advance, and despite his claims of anti-allergin and anti-dander medicines my eyes were beginning to water as I left his apartment after our session (I am extremely allergic to pussy 😺). So, while I will continue to eagerly hire ClassicColt every trip to NYC, I will choose to host going forward. But anyone without a cat allergy will find his apartment clean and tidy, perfectly setup for kink play. https://rentmen.eu/ClassicColt

I suppose he turned 18 three years ago when you took him to The Happiest Place on Earth. Now that he's 21, you should bring him there again this summer to celebrate his college graduation! 🤣 It may have been his 50th birthday. I don't know if it was any "milestone" birthday, but we've been seeing each other regularly for decades and he had never been to Disneyland so I offered for his birthday.

Last week in NYC I hired several well-reviewed escorts and masseurs and paid: $525 90 minute ($350/hr) escort, outcall $400 escort, hosted $350 escort, outcall $300 massage & escort, hosted $200 massage & escort, hosted (regular rate is $300, but he had unexpected errands and had to reschedule on me so gave me a discount at the end when it was time to pay him) $270 90 minute massage & escort, hosted $240 90 minute massage, hosted $135 massage, outcall Plus there was one other escort, at $300 outcall, that I had to cancel on, but who I look forward to seeing on future NYC trips.

Yikes! Life happens and I've had guys cancel on me at the last minute before. I've never thought to verbalize frustration about prepping, as it seems so trivial compared to what the other person must be going through to cause him to cancel (flat tire, car accident, locked out of apartment, emergency doctor visit, parent in the hospital, etc., I've experienced it all). I find that responding with "No problem, you take care of whatever you need to. Life happens. I'll look forward to another time with you, sexy" not only makes the provider feel better about needing to cancel, but gets me "brownie points" for perhaps a longer or even better session next time.

I took my most frequent provider to Disneyland for his birthday 3 years ago.

Jimmy has the hardest washboard abs and glutes I've ever felt. He's definitely the guy if one likes a hard body.

Every time I see him is for 90 minutes, and he doesn't short me on time. He's a gem.

I visited Spunk at Monster on both Saturday and Thursday nights this week. Thursday was much more enjoyable due to smaller crowds and fewer drag performances. I had a great time during a private dance with no interruptions.

I had the pleasure of hiring HenryAtwood for a combination massage/escort session. It was amazing. Next time, I must see him for longer than an hour.

I had the pleasure of hiring SamGL this week for a deep 90 minute massage in Manhattan. He's even more muscled and defined 💪 than my previous visits to him, and his massage was as deep and relaxing and stimulating as ever. Wish he lived in my city.

I had the pleasure of hiring JacobNYC this week while in NYC. He is truly a gentleman on the streets and a pig in the sheets! 🐷 😈 He was proactive in accommodating some fetishes I mentioned prior to meeting, and he was a pleasure to talk with. He has a classically handsome face and a tongue 👅 like velvet.