Vegas_Millennial

Well said

Allow me to introduce myself, and my friends my age, who graduated State college and paid as we went with hourly internships and waiting tables. I only wish I had been lucky enough to know about escorting in my 20s as a way to make money then as well! Congratulations 🎉 on having achieved your American Dream! I thought that was the American Dream... You had to be hard working I certainly have the attitude of being lucky to be able to study hard and get into a State college, and lucky that I had great mentors in my teens and 20s. A pessimist or SJW might find a few unlucky things about me: broken home, minority racial background, minority sexual orientation, uneducated parents, religious minority, unconventional height/weight, etc. But call me Pollyanna or just an optimist, but I am very lucky my grandparents immigrated to America. Each generation of my family has achieved the American Dream ... But it has always been a different Dream for each of us. My grandparents left socialism to come to America. That was enough for them. They didn't have high school education, own more than one car, or live in a fancy house. (One might call their house a "shack" by today's standards) But they were happy they achieved the Dream. The American Dream doesn't have to mean middle class or upper class income. Many are grateful to raise happy families in the Lower class and have the personal Liberty to be able to do it on their own, homeschool, and achieve the Dream that looks different than those of us who hire Men regularly.

Yes, I have done that.

He's back! Albeit north of my price range (asking $500), I'm sure he commands it

150 years ago, people carried "calling cards" (similar to business cards). When you showed up at someone's door, you asked the servants (middle class had servants until electricity did away with them in the 1920s) if the lady or man of the house was available. If not, you left your calling card in a silver tray in the front entrance. You may have written what the call was regarding on the back of the card. When the lady or man of the house or returned, she or he would look through the tray and see who came calling and decide whose calls to return by visiting them or waiting for them to call again. Sometimes, the caller would write the time they expect to return on the back of the calling card, so the lady or man of the house could have the option to stay and wait if they wanted to speak to the caller when he or she returned.

Thanks!

This is why it's useless to give women drivers a map.

Thanks! It looks like he is based out of New York City now.

I have been on several Bears cruises: Adventure Bears River Cruise (charter) Arno's Bear Cruise (group) Cruise4Bears with Spartacus (charter) Plus a handful of other gay group and gay chartered sailing (Vacaya, RSVP, OUTbound travel, Pied Piper Travel). I have also been on a dozen cruises that didn't have a gay group on board when I was traveling with family and friends. I absolutely always look for gay groups or gay chartered sailings for my future travels. I have not been on Virgin ships, because they look a little too Ikea for my tastes, and I look forward to conversation in the main dining room each night with others in the gay group. Because Virgin has so many restaurants, the Bears group fine print says they only meet together the first evening for dinner.... Then after that everyone is on his own for the remainder of the evenings to find a location and dining partner each night. That's just not appealing to me. For my personal preference, I look for cruises with traditional dining, but also for men's only sauna and steam rooms on board to suit my desires for leisure "cruising" activities

#MeToo. I have also, but I don't post those locations lest local Business License inspectors get tipped off and shut the place down. First rule about Fight Club...

You had me at ✊ 🍆 ⏰ ✊ 😍

When I hire for a college rape fantasy experience, I message the provider in advance to let him know that he has my consent, even if I verbally say "no" or "slow down" to have his way with me. The best providers are good at talking up what they want to do with me, so by action time I'm mentally turned on and ready for it. Edit: This is true for men of various ethnicities I hire. But I don't hire the "Toxic" ones... And I don't pay in advance.

Despite the effort of one person to make the topic of Toxic Providers about color, I stand by the group consensus that offers recommendations to not set oneself to be a vulnerable victim: 1. Don't pay in advance, unless you've hired the gentlemen before. 2. If one wants "comfort", rent a hotel room bed not a bathhouse bench. 3. Cash is king. No record of transaction. Communicate via various messenger apps that protect one's identity. 4. Block anyone who begins threats. Don't feed the troll. These tips should work with hired gentlemen of all colors. Edit: Kudos to the original poster for not mentioning the providers color in the original post. Several recommendations were made how to handle the situation, prior to knowing what the escort looked like. Those recommendations should still be valid.

I've contacted some in Europe, when I was in Europe.

There's an old saying "You can't rape the willing". When I meet a cute college frat-type guy at a bar or swimming pool, I jokingly tell him up front, "There's no need to roofie me: I'm a sure thing." 😉 🎉 😈 My first time at a bathhouse was suggested by a masseur I hired. It was no spa, but I got my sensual massage nonetheless. The masseur had his own room with a table. Rather, I see the client as playing the party of the victim every step of the way. He didn't want to go to a bathhouse, yet he went. He didn't want to get undressed. He didn't want to pay up front, yet he did. Act like a victim, and one will become a victim. A better title for this thread would be: What not to do as a Client.

It's probably okay to begin by deleting the telephone numbers that use exchange names: KLondike 5-1234, for example

I'm anxiously awaiting announcements for 2027 cruises. I've had my 2026 cruises booked since late 2024.

That's EVERY room at a bathhouse. I haven't seen a AAA rating giving any bathhouse room a 5 Diamond review. If one wants comfort, go to a Hilton

The guy above is probably a masseur, not a masseuse. If looking for a masseuse (female), you won't find many recommendations on Company of Men.

I am so sorry this has happened to you

I stopped reading after this. Never pay in advance. That stops most problems.

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I will 💯 attend. I already booked that weekend at El Mirosal gay hotel nearby the INNdulge, as I've done the last 2 years.