Vegas_Millennial

It's okay to say "No". 😉 Before the sexual revolution, that was usually the girl's role. But in today's world it's okay for a man to so "No" too 😉. Phrases like "the 3 date rule" are lost on younger millennials who use hookup app. It used to be the social norm to never even mention sex until the end of the 3rd date. Ah, I'm getting sentimental for the olden days.

You may want to try hiring an escort to just go on a date, with absolutely no sex. Once you learn to enjoy the human connection in public without nudity, sex, cuddling, etc., then dating and making friends with men you don't pay should be easier. But remember, learn to be invested in the other person and make him feel good first, even when his story is not that interesting to you. That's what the paid escort is doing with you when you talk with each other.

This sounds amazing! 😍. Imagine getting to know someone through a series of dates, before having sex! This is what heterosexual couples had been doing for millennia before the sexual revolution, so it must work for some people. I've had a few boyfriends like this. We dated and enjoyed each other's company for months, and never did have sex. We called each other every day, and looked forward to dates with anticipation. Imagine the thrill of holding your boyfriend's hand in the movie theater! Imagine talking and listening and loving someone and being intimate in ways that does not involve a penis or asshole. I'm not going to suggest every relationship should be this way and wait for marriage to have sex. But I do enjoy the rare relationship like this when it comes along. 💕

When I was a tyke, my parents had a bread machine that made cylindrical loaves. I used to love making bread with the machine (it was the easiest "cooking" I did). We experimented with dozens of recipes, but landed on the same 3 favorite that I made repeatedly: lemon bread, chocolate chip bread (I was a kid), and pumpkin bread (for the fall 🍂)

I doubt it. Sometimes I just need my prostate pounded to oblivion. 😁

Please be careful about reporting activities in the private booths. They are private for a reason (The first rule about fight club, and all that). Don't risk jeopardizing a club's operating license by admitting to activity against the posted rules of the club.

Hopefully yes, if you can afford it! The paid interaction felt more "real" because you were in control: you controlled the time, the place, the duration. One gets the impression you like to be in control but also like to be pursued, which is a difficult combination. As for paying for intimacy forever, that's like asking if you'll be masturbating solo forever. You probably will, but at different amounts throughout your life. As a fellow single millennial, my sex diet includes random hookups, regular friends with benefits, dates, masseurs, escorts, solo masturbation, and even a relationship every few years. A healthy sex diet, like a food diet, is variety and moderation. When I am in a relationship, I'll tend to have more sex with that person and less sex via hookups or escorts, because I'm too worn out from sex with my boyfriend. But I'll still budget time and money for high quality escort sessions with my regulars.

Take up knitting. Get a cat. Eliminate world hunger. The possibilities are endless. If you're not happy with yourself being single, you won't be happy with a partner either.

This is very common. There is a reason suicide is the number one killer of men in their 30s. Know that you're not alone... Everyone feels the ticking time click. A man who is single at this age feels he should be partnered by now, and a man with a partner wishes he could be enjoying this awesome decade as a single person.

This is deep

that only happens in Las Vegas and occasionally in Miami. You'll be safe in NYC, just hire someone with multiple reviews. Getting scammed can happen anywhere. Never pay up front (not even at the beginning of the session), and only see men with established profiles, longevity, and good reviews written with good grammar. Don't carry any extra money on you in addition to the price you confirmed via written message.

The NYSE just experienced the best May on record dating back to 1990, and the quickest return to normal after a correction since 1998. In 1998, the worry then was that the Internet was going to disrupt everything, and we had the dot.com bust in March 2000. Today, there is a similar sentiment with AI going to disrupt everything. U.S. stocks are still flat for the year, having underperformed international stocks. I always keep 1/3 of my stocks in foreign companies, so I'm up for year. Everything looks expensive if trying to time the exact moment to buy. For those trying to time the market, think about 1998 in hindsight and diversify.

Sounds like the latter. I schedule most of my meetings within 2 text messages, using text message in the U.S. or WhatsApp outside the U.S. It should take minutes, not weeks, to set up a meeting.

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I spent one day in Newport as a stop on a cruise. I toured one mansion and it was beautiful. Later that afternoon I had some of the best sex of my life, but it was with a crew member aboard the ship I was on so I can't really consider it a local Newport experience. 😊 I went in June and it was cool (jacket needed during the day). It truly was built as a place for millionaires to escape the summer heat of Manhattan in the century before air conditioning.

Get that work visa and pay those income taxes!

Not everywhere. In Nevada where I live, prostitution is only illegal in 2 of its 16 counties. Prostitution criminalization is a state issue, not a national one. The feds get involved when it comes to immigrants working without the proper paperwork. Just like the issue at Paragonya Sauna Zurich, it seems to be one of breaking immigration law and not local prostitution laws. Get that work visa and pay those income taxes!

Of the hundreds of men I've hired over the decades, about 9 out of 10 were and are leading exceptional lives. I won't name them by name here, but you can find them by searching for men I've recommended over the years. Most are still in business and still doing great for themselves. I'm often envious. This has never been my experience at all. Sounds like it's time to evaluate the circle of men one hires. If one repeatedly hires men that he treats with no respect or dignity, and those men spiral into drugs and alcohol, then one may wish to reconsider his own choices and with whom one associates. Exactly! It's the perfect title. I'm sorry the men you choose to hire are often abused and addicted. We're men... We're horny... And some of us use our sexiness to bring in a little (or a lot) of income doing something we already enjoy. Cheers to all the escorts out there! 🥂

This was my prediction 6 months ago when asked on a different thread what the affects of immigration enforcement was going to have on our hobby. I predicted more raids like these 2 in NYC to target immigrants who are being pimped in massage parlors, not on individual escorts who self promote:

I interpret this to mean Kevin has lots of potential, and life on the streets hasn't made him rough and dirty yet. It should be easy for him to clean up and get his act together now assuming he's not an addict and is willing to work and learn. Never mind his past stories about what led him to the street, he is a young clean cut guy with men offering to help him get on his feet. Let's hope self pity doesn't keep him from saying no to help forever, before he's no longer clean cut and the offers to help stop coming.

Some get "worse", most get "better", others stay the same. But, our needs change as time rolls on as well. In the case of a massuer, I night originally hire a guy who does wonders working out knots in my shoulders. After months of visits, he has worked out all the knots and therefore the massage no longer feels as amazing as it did the first few times. That's caused by my perception, not his performance.

I've been to West Hollywood...15% being escorts does sound a little low 😆

I grew up with a very atheist mother, who insisted that adults who do not partner and produce offspring are a drain on species. Thankfully my father found Christianity and brought me to the church and I was finally able to see that I was created in the image of God and that Jesus was probably homosexual, so now I am out. My father and I have a great relationship while my mother cut all ties from us, calling homosexuality unnatural.

Instead of setting up a bank account with your bank (and assuming in your name), why not just make monthly deposits into his existing bank account? This way you don't have deal with inevitable overdraws, lost debit cards, or suspicious activity. The account only belongs to him.