Vegas_Millennial

I'm only looking to be a "Splenda Daddy". I'll support a young cute guy a little, but not as sweet as a Sugar Daddy

It's also discussed (or rather, complained about) here: I guess this person was expecting a non-humorous live documentary on Lincoln.

This sounds like the frustration everyone but bisexuals face. Bisexuals are open to everyone, but most people only want either the oppositte sex or the same sex.

This person has shown in one instance that he understands "you're" when he stated "You're a good person". Therefore, we must understand what he means when he signed off with "Your very rude" instead of the more traditional "Yours truly" or "Affectively Yours". He basically ended the conversation with "I am very rudely yours", admitting his own rudeness. 😊

Wow. so..NOT true in MY case. Same here, not true in my case either. My boyfriends have been a mix of ethnicities, body types (Twink, Club, Daddy), national origin, age (ranging from 5 years younger to 20 years older), education (some master's degrees, some high school GED), and sexual positions. Yes, I've even had boyfriends who preferred different sexual positions then what I typically enjoy. In some relationships, I was strictly the top. In others, I was strictly the bottom. Sure, I have a general preference. But sex is just one small part of the entire package and if I really care for someone I'm going to make him feel good and enjoy all of his body, which means sex will likely be different than with hookups or escorts.

I was always told the White Queen makes the first move. Or was that chess? Either way, it could apply in this situation also 😊

I will hire him! Woof!

The topic of suspected law enforcement showing up pretending to be a client or an escort has been discussed here dozens of times (that I can remember) in various threads. I don't remember who shared it, but the best advice I heard was: When you or he shows up for the appointment, immediately start with a long passionate kiss when the door is first opened. That SHOULD be enough to guarantee that the other person is not an undercover cop.

I hope it says I don't put much stock in numbers (except for notches on my bed post 😈)

I do the same. I'm 6'3" but say 6'1”, and my younger brother is 6'4" but says he's 6'5". When we are together and I tell people I am 6"1' and he tells them he is 6'5", they always look at him and know he is lying to inflate his ego.

Agree!

I once hooked up with a guy who afterwards asked me if I worked for the government. It turns out he was a firefighter and he recognized me from a committee meeting we were both in.

The only times I pay "before" are at a vending machine, ticket booth, or travel agent.

The non-binary transvestite cousin of They 😆

I've experienced that too, but only south of the USA and in Europe. The escorts I hired there told me they would bareback for extra money because they don't have access to the same level of STI prevention and treatment, and it would cost them money to treat an STI. In the USA, I've never been quoted a hire price to forgo a condom. To be fair, I've only hired a few dozen men outside of the USA so my sample size is small. But I've hired hundreds of men in the USA and have never been quoted different prices with condoms or without

No, there is already an accurate option to describe HIV+ and undetectable due to treatment. It's listed as Positive, undetectable on ART. But, it's so rarely used and the few times it is members on this forum freak out and post warnings about the provider rather than giving him a kudos for being honest and protecting himself and others by remaining undetectable. If I was a provider, I would not complete that section of my profile (I speak from practice, as I don't complete that section of my profile on hookup or dating apps). When I am a customer, I assume everyone could have become positive an hour before he met me and protect myself accordingly.

Right, like how truthfully precise they are with their age on RentMen. That kind of truthfulness.

Always assume the other person cought HIV from the person he hooked up with just before you and doesn't know. Then, protect yourself accordingly. Alternatively: hire a well reviewed escort who claims he's a virgin. Then, still protect yourself as if he caught HIV from a blood transfusion and doesn't know.

And yet the lab results for both men will simply show HIV- 😊

That’s simply not true for everyone. Some of the most positive people in the world get shit on by other people constantly. Misused. Abused. They may have a positive attitude but they still have a terrible life. Thinking you can just mind-power your way to a life free or largely devoid of interpersonal problems, both close and professional, is pretty narrow and, again, privileged. This is the perfect example of victim language of which I was speaking.

Aww, thank you 🥰. Attitude is everything. The older and fatter and balder I get, the more I find I have to rely on my personality when trying to flirt with someone. 😆 I was taught as a young man that "Attitude is Everything" and "If someone thinks he is a victim, he will stay a victim." It takes a lot of mental work and meditation and spiritual guidance to stay positive, but what in life is worth something that doesn't take work?

This 👆 is what I have learned from this thread and will be certain to do before I hire anyone. I would have not known what it meant, however, without the detailed description provided to us by @pubic_assistance. For that, I am grateful. I think many men reading this thread dodged a bullet of hiring someone with body parts not advertised and thereby wasting money and both people's time. I know the popular trend now is to sleep with everybody and give every body a chance. But I'm of the mentality that I was born gay and don't need to try a vagina to prove to others that I don't like it. We gays fought hard for others to understand our sexual attraction is nature and not a choice, and I don't want to be pressured into something which does not arouse me.

Happy United States Flag Day! 🇺🇸

Thank you so much for sharing. As a Platinum Star Gay *️⃣🦄 who has never been near a vagina, I truly had no interest on ever getting close to one for the first time to learn about it. Without your sharing on this forum, I would not have known about what's involved in the "conversation" surgery below the waist. Thank you! The thought of a hanging piece of flesh next to a 🤢🤮... Sorry, I couldn't even finish that thought. Since a penis that ejaculates 🍆 💦 is very important to me when I hire, I will make sure that's what I look for in a guy when I hire him.

At least we can agree then that tattoos can be called gross, as they are not parts of one's body. Oh, and earlobe hair 😜