Vegas_Millennial

I notice that my younger friends and colleagues who are happiest, whether single or married and with kids or without, gave one thing in common: No social media presence and aren't on any meetup/hookup apps. It can still be done today. One just needs the willpower to stop using them and go out and live in the real world again.

I make sure my doctor always adds the STI tests to my next blood work order. Most insurances won't pay for it unless a doctor orders it.

Regardless if she chose to be called a sex worker or stripper, the author wouldn't be my first choice to hire if I was looking to employ a cotillion instructor and she listed either term to describe her background in dance.

Walk up and ask HIM. Even if 99 say No, 1 will say Yes. Don't wait to be pursued. The Constitution guarantees every citizen the right to Pursuit of Happiness, but you must do the pursuing! This used to happen to me, too. Men on apps would be begging to come over and have sex with me. I finally decided to make my standard reply: "I'll be at XX bar tomorrow night at 10pm, if you want to meet me there". 9 out of 10 flaked. But 1 showed up... And that's a date. Have the will power to keep your legs closed until after meeting him in public first. The 1 out of 10, or 1 out of 100, who show up is what is it is. In the meantime, you're out of the house and off your telephone enjoying the wonderful city in which you live.

I just returned from a round-trip Las Vegas to London Heathrow on British Airways Business Class (Club World), and 2 flights within Europe in Business Class (Club Europe). BA service was fantastic on every flight segment, and every flight had at least one good looking steward for my eyes to enjoy as in-flight entertainment between complimentary drinks 🍷.

I also like tops who offer to take off the condom.

Not in my experience. The men I hire usually cum in my arse. But as in all situations, it varies. It depends on both the escort and the arse. 😊

I certainly wish it success, but I won't hold my breath. If it opens in Las Vegas with full nudity, expect it to allow no alcohol and no gambling (laws prohibit full nudity in establishments that allow either). I don't see how it can make money without those things in the era of free online porn and hookup apps.

Go on a date! Find a guy in person, wearing clothes, and ask him to join your for a movie, or a ball game, or a drink at a comedy club, or visit an art museum, or whatever it is you like to do. And promise yourself you won't kiss or get naked or talk about dick sizes or sexual positions. Do this with several men. After a half dozen, you may find someone who you look forward to seeing repeatedly. Stop using apps to meet men. Stop only screening for tops/bottoms. Stop referencing your dick size as an opening line (which is what happens when men find you on an app). Keep doing the above 3 things, and you'll getting the same results you have been getting.

You have the privilege to move. You have the freedom to make a choice and move to Mexico or Turkey or Alabama if your heart desires. Just apply for the necessary work visas, book an apartment and plane ticket and go! You are very privileged to a be person with education and resources to be able to move almost anywhere in the world you want. Millions are desperate to leave those places and head to NYC, but you're privileged enough to be able to move the other direction and still be better off than 90% of the people there g that's what you want. But instead of making a decision to act and move, please don't throw another Pitty Party of "woe is me I live in NYC, my fate is sealed". Don't invite me to that party, I figuratively won't attend.

No. It means they come from mixed ethnicities.

Origin shouldn't matter, as long as all the employees have the authorization to work and report the income. 🤑 Those working on tourist visas definitely risk deportation, and eventually denied citizenship for breaking the rules. Gotta think long term and get the proper visas and file correct income taxes. A similar warning was posted in the thread of the men's sauna in Zurich. Get the proper work visa.

They do, but those stories are of no interest to us gay men, and therefore do not get shared on forums such as this.

I can't understand how that could be. Here's an instructional video that could help. It's okay the change the genders: the rules of thinking about what someone else would like to do and giving them a choice and being respectful are still relevant tips for today:

It's okay to say "No". 😉 Before the sexual revolution, that was usually the girl's role. But in today's world it's okay for a man to so "No" too 😉. Phrases like "the 3 date rule" are lost on younger millennials who use hookup app. It used to be the social norm to never even mention sex until the end of the 3rd date. Ah, I'm getting sentimental for the olden days.

You may want to try hiring an escort to just go on a date, with absolutely no sex. Once you learn to enjoy the human connection in public without nudity, sex, cuddling, etc., then dating and making friends with men you don't pay should be easier. But remember, learn to be invested in the other person and make him feel good first, even when his story is not that interesting to you. That's what the paid escort is doing with you when you talk with each other.

This sounds amazing! 😍. Imagine getting to know someone through a series of dates, before having sex! This is what heterosexual couples had been doing for millennia before the sexual revolution, so it must work for some people. I've had a few boyfriends like this. We dated and enjoyed each other's company for months, and never did have sex. We called each other every day, and looked forward to dates with anticipation. Imagine the thrill of holding your boyfriend's hand in the movie theater! Imagine talking and listening and loving someone and being intimate in ways that does not involve a penis or asshole. I'm not going to suggest every relationship should be this way and wait for marriage to have sex. But I do enjoy the rare relationship like this when it comes along. 💕

When I was a tyke, my parents had a bread machine that made cylindrical loaves. I used to love making bread with the machine (it was the easiest "cooking" I did). We experimented with dozens of recipes, but landed on the same 3 favorite that I made repeatedly: lemon bread, chocolate chip bread (I was a kid), and pumpkin bread (for the fall 🍂)

I doubt it. Sometimes I just need my prostate pounded to oblivion. 😁

Please be careful about reporting activities in the private booths. They are private for a reason (The first rule about fight club, and all that). Don't risk jeopardizing a club's operating license by admitting to activity against the posted rules of the club.

Hopefully yes, if you can afford it! The paid interaction felt more "real" because you were in control: you controlled the time, the place, the duration. One gets the impression you like to be in control but also like to be pursued, which is a difficult combination. As for paying for intimacy forever, that's like asking if you'll be masturbating solo forever. You probably will, but at different amounts throughout your life. As a fellow single millennial, my sex diet includes random hookups, regular friends with benefits, dates, masseurs, escorts, solo masturbation, and even a relationship every few years. A healthy sex diet, like a food diet, is variety and moderation. When I am in a relationship, I'll tend to have more sex with that person and less sex via hookups or escorts, because I'm too worn out from sex with my boyfriend. But I'll still budget time and money for high quality escort sessions with my regulars.

Take up knitting. Get a cat. Eliminate world hunger. The possibilities are endless. If you're not happy with yourself being single, you won't be happy with a partner either.

This is very common. There is a reason suicide is the number one killer of men in their 30s. Know that you're not alone... Everyone feels the ticking time click. A man who is single at this age feels he should be partnered by now, and a man with a partner wishes he could be enjoying this awesome decade as a single person.

This is deep