BradyWolf

Honestly? For me, what it means is that the provider and I can both just shake hands — and thereafter, each of us simply go on about the rest of our day/night, separately, whatever that might entail! 😁

"Happy Start" — wow, so wonderful to learn that there's actually a name for the thing I tend to prefer during a session! You see, when my provider first arrives, I'm pretty much hungry/horny and boner-driven, so I'm basically in "feeding mode" -- in the sense of satisfying carnal appetite, if that makes any sense? However, I also tend to experience "post-nut dissolution" where I am happy and satisfied, yet also exhausted and limp (both dick and everything else) -- LOL! 😆 In which case, lying facedown and passively receiving a pleasurable and therapeutic back-rub is JUST what "the doctor ordered" as they say... 💯 The reason I "strikethrough" that last part is a very personal and idiosyncratic thing, in that I am very much a "one nut and done" kinda guy -- early 40s here with an age-typical refractory period, so don't judge, haha! 😜 As far as gay men's desire go, apparently I am an extremely rare duck because I have no interest/desire around the other guy "shooting" -- neither on my body, nor in my mouth, nor otherwise! As I always like to tell my providers, "feel free to save your load for the next guy!" 🤩

Ahhh, why do I suspect this is now one of those JK Rowling situations? In the sense that someone's, like totally, an "awful and terrible person" if they have the audacity to separate the person from the content, that is... 😕 On the other hand, maybe it's finally time for the anti-AI crowd to STFU permanently because, with AI-generated content, there are no actual human beings involved in the "creative" process; additionally, if you find some content you really loved, then you never have to worry that sometimes in the future the AI will be revealed as some immoral and unethical person who's done terrible things! 😵‍💫👀😵

Right?! 😮💦🥵 I'm sure that, according to some religion's holy book, it's gotta be a grievous sin to share a hot photo like that, yet not tell people anything about its origins... LOL!

Yes, indeed, but with ONE crucial alteration in my case -- replace "sucking" with "rimming" 😍 He can just strip buck-ass naked (or at least half-naked below waist) and spread those cheeks, sitting right down on my face to relax and enjoy his video games! Especially if he's a chubby + hairy "bear" type, not to mention all nice and sweaty after some strenuous physical activity -- ready to get my face right in there, sniff and lick, savor his taste and scent 🥵 I will even bring him a chair to sit on: 728×750 jpg 65.2 kB However, please do not forget to bring him a cold beer to guzzle while watching the game, and perhaps a fine cigar to puff on, too! (Weed, snacks, porno, etc....?) If you have a friend with similiar inclinations, then you could even suggest that the guy also invite his best buddy to join in? Two cocky and smug "dudebro" friends casually enjoying the big game together, while two submissive gays orally service and worship them, slavishly and obediently -- merely grateful for the opportunity! 🔥❤️🔥💦💦💦🥵

Oh, myyyyyy! I simply must find out his workout schedule, just so I can help him to skip those wasteful post-workout showers; after all, that is so unfriendly to the planet by depleting our already scarce freshwater reserves, right? 💦💦💦 No matter how sweaty his hairy ass crack gets, it's nothing my trusty tongue cannot handle! Mmmmm, slobber slobber, lick lick.... 🔥❤️🔥

Mmmmm, yummy! 🔥❤️🔥 Verily, you sound like a man after my own heart....

Okay, admittedly, this may be a dumb question that I should be able to figure out, entirely on my own, but prithee be gracious and bear with me? I know this forum is for "discussion about masseurs," but then I look over at the subforum above, "The Deli," and I see that it's for "discussion about providers" 🧐 To me, of course, the distinction's a bit fuzzy because I'm thinking to myself, "But, aren't masseurs a type of 'provider'?" That is, in the sense that they are providers of massage, haha... 😜 My best guess, if I had to venture one, is as below: "Masseur" is used here in reference to the service of massage specifically, however broadly defined, in and of itself -- that is, separate from all the other "fringe benefits" and "side dishes" that may accompany it? Like a "therapeutic" massage could be ONLY therapeutic and nothing else, emphatically platonic and G-rated, but it could also -- depending on the specific masseur/provider pairing -- delve into more intimate and sensual territory, if only hypothetically(?) In contrast, I suppose "provider" could be a broader term, encompassing "Massage+" perhaps? Certainly with massage being part of the offerings, but also other stuff like the following: "full service," "happy ending," BFE, various "Tantric" stuff, custom videos, etc. Otherwise, if I'm completely incorrect because I'm such a big silly doodoo-head 🤣 then I welcome clarification -- thank you, in advance! 🙏💯

Well, considering I self-identify as a side myself, then a fellow side would surely be my ideal provider! 😍 But I'm biased, naturally...

(NOTE: I am not really referring here to preference or characteristic types of "into" choices, but rather those pertaining to distinctive, defined activities – usually involving various specific kinks/fetishes, some of which require various preparations and experiences in order to correctly and successfully execute! That is to say, "execute" in a manner that satisfies a client...) For example, if you are "Into" some things like "Groups," "Jocks," "Body Hair" and the like — then sure, no harm no foul, don't worry yourself over-thinking it! 👎 However, returning to this post's topic, let's consider options that do merit some "over-thinking" to a degree: Fisting — It's one thing for a top to "prepare" a bottom to take a dick, for example by rimming and/or fingering, but it's another thing entirely getting one (two?! 😱) hand(s) + forearm(s) up a guy's ass, no? Not only is more extensive and thorough preparation required of the bottom in terms of "cleaning out," but the actual penetrative process is far more gradual and methodical! Did someone remember to pick up the Crisco??? 🤜🤜🤜 W.S. — short for "water sports," also called "piss play" and/or "golden showers," etc. Assuming you're the "supply" side of the exchange, you will need to be "sufficiently hydrated" so as to have a "full tank" for hosing down your piss-ee, not to mention passable aim + reasonable "flow control" 💯 Besides the material practicalities, some degree of acting skill is helpful for adding some "verbal domination" to the mix....? Spanking — sorry but there's soooo much more to it than the haphazard, random striking of bare ass-flesh -- which is "no fun" at best, yet "unbearably interminable" at worst! The spanking recipient (or "spankee") then must either "grin and bear it" while desperately waiting for it's end, or actively speak up and call things off, neither of which is pleasant to have to do... 🙏🏓🍑 With rules/guidelines like the following: Technique, technique, technique! Practice, practice, practice! Pursuant to Items #1 and #2, there are even classes and other "training" modalities for spanking/impact play; for example, at populous BDSM events and gatherings. Aiming true as you "target" different parts of the mapped territory, often adjusting in accordance with visual observation of the "smacked" flesh and the receiver's reactions! Calibration and tweaking: That is, with respect to force, frequency, timing, tempo, etc. Escalation and crescendo: Spankings and other impactive activities often start out with a preparatory "warm-up" phase to set things in motion, then building higher and higher in the intensity, at steady and/or varying rates of increase, usually so as to reach some "apex" and/or "crescendo" 🌋💥 From a more objective and "fiscal" perspective, I do understand why providers might feel they should be "into," well...anything and everything! But from a client's standpoint, it's merely an all-but-guaranteed recipe for disappointment, over not getting the satisfaction they had been "promised," or considered implied; more importantly, however, there is the annoyance or even anger at feeling misled, deceived, "sold a bill of goods," or...whatever. Speaking for myself, I'd much rather link up with "accurately self-presented" provider who is into merely a handful of "my favorite things," rather than someone who (if only by implication and results) basically "tells me what I want to hear" in hopes of my genero$ity! (If that makes any sense...? <-shrug->)

And sooooo deliciously hot and sexy, right? 🤩 Such thick n' beefy mouthwatering goodness, ohhhhhhh... 🤤 🔥😍

Ummm, let me think about that for a sec...NO!!! 😉 Far far to the contrary, my dream masseur/provider would be a mature, hairy, chubby "Daddy bear" type in his mid-50s or (preferably) even older, perhaps up to ~70 yrs. 🔥 Hot photo references for "Daddy Bear" types: https://x.com/MusclebearDILF/status/1578559761137926146https://x.com/MusclebearDILF/status/1578559761137926146 https://bearmythology.blog/2009/07/25/shirtless-saturday-summer-big-bears-daddies-chubbies-speedos-oh-my/ https://bearmythology.blog/2008/11/29/shirtless-saturday-unknown-daddy-bear-at-a-turkish-bath/ https://bearmythology.blog/2011/02/19/super-shirtless-saturday-unknown-pro-wrestler-pharaoh/ https://bearmythology.blog/2009/10/17/shirtless-saturday-jay-hughes/ https://maturemenoftvandfilms.tumblr.com/tagged/lance barber

I'm curious, so would you be willing to share a bit more about yourself? Only what you're comfortable and willing, of course! 💯

Just for the sake of being "fair and balanced" here, I wanted to offer my own polar-opposite general impression and personal experience with HUNKYITALIAN as his client! 😁 The short and concise version: Soooooo wonderfully satisfying, experiencing such intense "release" from all my tensions and troubles, not to mention left positively glowing afterward! But to elaborate, please allow me to "self-plagiarize" from my personal written review of him on another site, first just to emphasize that he indeed lived up to the "Hunky Italian" screen-name, and particularly impressed me with his generous "Italian sausage" offering, plentiful in both length AND thickness, very satisfying to my personal craving for such! As for the pictures themselves, regardless of date taken were quite enticing, and once I met him in person, I had a "gut feeling" I had chosen quite wisely! 🔥🍆🫢 Even more to Mr. HunkyItalian's credit, I found him so much the considerate and likeable house-guest, exactly the kind I'd want to invite back; conversely, being the courteous and gentlemanly host that I am, I made sure to offer the perfect chair to sit down and relax -- for which he expressed his warm appreciation for my admittedly ravenous enthusiasm down underneath -- although, admittedly, I occasionally had to stop and catch my breath for a bit... 290×322 jpg 31 kB 290×322 jpg 31 kB Being also quite warm and personal, once the session really got underway, I found his encouragement and positivity very exciting and motivating -- especially flattering comments that boosted my own excitement, plus stimulating the hell outta one specific part of me and making it really "swell up" 🤩 I'm talking about my ego, of course, can't imagine what YOU were thinking! However, perhaps the very best of all, he was actually my very first masseur ever, and I remain grateful to him for making it such a spectacularly, explosively pleasurable experience 💯🔥💦 Cannot WAIT to have him back again, ooooooh.... (Well, that's MY two cents on the matter, at any rate!)

Haha, I am fully in favor of this -- specifically, I am: A client, not a provider... Who emphatically loves to DO the rimming, no recip desired! To elaborate, I have what some have called an "oral fixation," in that I am ever so fond of putting my face, mouth, and tongue pretty much anywhere and everywhere on a man's body that I can put it, LOL! 🤣 As a matter of fact, when I procure the services of a provider, it's likely to be the easiest payment he's ever earned; he can pretty much lie back and relax, while I do all the work, and then receive both payment and a tip afterwards... 💸 💲💰 ....though he's also more than welcome to "enhance" my experience by behaving towards me in a more verbal, aggressive, and even controlling manner! 🤩 He can even be my "Daddy" or "Master," if he wants to...? 😉