Wings246

Luckily, I still have not experienced this myself. I'd be pissed if this happens to me too.

Correct me if I'm wrong, it seems like expired profiles have limited/restricted picture & video posting capabilities. So the users are not able to advertise as effectively. There needs to be some significant disadvantages to discourage people from letting their profiles expire.

Really? What if that person is impeccably hot, reasonably priced, and checks all your boxes except for English fluency? I agree that if he can't even carry out basic dialogues and has to rely on translation apps, then it will be a major turnoff for me too. But what if the English is comprehensible with basic vocabulary and perhaps just some broken grammatical structures here and there? Is that still unacceptable to you? Oddly enough, on a separate note, I find certain foreign accents very erotic and arousing, especially when the accented and/or foreign words are uttered uncontrollably at the peak of activities. That actually somewhat incentivizes me to learn his language to understand what he just says to me...... 😉

OMFG. I cannot agree more, so much so that I wouldn't mind if they can set up the answers to these CRUCIAL questions as an autoreply. In fact, a handful of the providers I've met did exactly that during my first-time inquiries (i.e. all these info were given to me without me asking). I'm not kidding when I say that it greatly improved my desire and decision to hire.

Of course, whichever method that ensures the maximum compliance rate is the best method. Plus, I'd say most people prefer a tablet to a needle stick.

Its official website is overloaded with info for both patients and scientists / healthcare providers (https://www.yeztugo.com/ and https://www.yeztugohcp.com/) Here's the info for the drug depot: https://www.yeztugohcp.com/innovation#drug-depot Clinical trials show 99.9% effectiveness: https://www.yeztugohcp.com/efficacy That may be the reason why some researchers go as far as claiming that if this drug is widely available and used, it can play a significant role in ending the HIV epidemic. This sounds like a far-fetched idea, but who knows?

One of the notorious & common side effects of Yeztugo is the development of a firm lump/nodule at the injection site that can potentially last up to a year. @ICTJOCK: do you notice the lump/nodule after the pain subsides?

This has always been my struggle. Which is riskier, leaving my stuff in my car that is parked on the street or keeping my stuff with me when I'm inside the provider's home/hotel room? To me, both options are equally risky, for different reasons.

Speaking from personal experience, I have met providers who are listed as "safe only" but engage in 100% BB activities with me without any discussions (and no upcharges either). I was shocked the 1st time. When the same scenarios happened again and again with different people, it kind of became the norm. In a way, I'm now conditioned to believe BB is the default standard unless specified otherwise in person (regardless of what's listed on the RM ad). You may need to make it explicitly clear because many clients, like myself, may have also been "trained" to think like this.

I have a strong feeling that's where you stand even before your reply. It never hurts to hope for the best and pray for miracles to happen, but sometimes, we have to accept reality at face value. Time will heal. As suggested by many, many other CoM members here, the easiest and quickest way to get over this is to find replacements on RM. New hires can potentially help you forget about him after a few appointments.

There are a few possibilities with your relationship: He leads you on to take advantage of your financial support — luckily, this did not happen. He proactively steps away from you romantically — is this easier for you? You proactively step away from him romantically — this is what we discussed. You switch everything to a platonic version of pure friendship — this will require a lot of effort and will power from you. You stay in a “murky” situation and hope for one day, something strikes him and turns him to see you differently (i.e. romantically). After all, you said he told you he wasn’t interested in a relationship right now, but he could be ready for one tomorrow. Are there other possibilities that you wish for? The real question is: which one do you prefer?

@Heartnet24: I think you know the answers yourself. We all do. You just need someone who's more detached and objective to affirm your perspectives. It will likely be a long, hard, and perhaps even painful process. At least you should be grateful that he's not leading you on. I wish you the best of luck.

What exactly did you mean by this statement? Are there absolutely no sexual and monetary involvements now? If so, who initiated the friend-zone discussion? I can’t help but assume that it was him. In that case, the answer is quite crystal clear. Am I understanding this correctly, that he's SEXUALLY active with everyone but you after the friend-zone declaration? Like everyone else has mentioned above, no really means no. I really hate to burst your bubble, but you will very likely end up hurting yourself more if you continue to allow your fantasy to fly. Maybe it would be a good idea to ask the therapist how to turn your romantic feelings into platonic ones.

From what I can gather, some were harassed / bullied / trolled by some toxic CoM members here. It stems from an inherent asymmetry in power and exposure here. The clients can remain anonymous behind mysterious user IDs whereas some decent, genuine providers choose to show their real (work) identities. Also, the secret clients have absolutely nothing to lose when throwing random (perhaps even unfounded) shades at the providers while the providers have a business and reputation to represent and defend when confronted with false accusations. I'd imagine it could get very exhausting and time consuming. That's probably why some providers quit CoM altogether and some take on a different alias when posting here.

How? Isn't there always just 1 ultimate ending? HE, no???

By extension, are you guys implying that the masseur and escort are one and the same person (as in Edward Norton and Brad Pitt)? No wonder there's an overlap. 😆

It's tough to enter and leave Costco with just $100 nowadays, especially in CA. I'd love to hear your story if you are successful in your search.

Let’s say a client is determined to treat you with extras (in addition to your regular rates) and you are presented with the following options: Repeat, long-term visits Routine tips (cash) for each visit Some form of gifts such as gift cards Taking you out for an expensive experience (VIP concert / sporting event, top-notched fine dining, etc.) Anything else other than the above 4 options (please specify) 1. If you can only choose one of the above, which one would it be? 2. If you can rank them, what is your order of preference?

Just like you, I can never understand why some providers are so repelled by it. My theory: kissing involves a higher level of emotional and psychological component that is not as "easy" as the mechanical actions of anal, rimming, and oral activities. Maybe the emotional / psychological investment is too much to ask for.

I gave him a 7-item to-do list days before the meeting and he was fine with all of them. And trust me, there was no outrageously kinky stuff. All of my requests were rudimentary, entry-level activities that any adult could easily execute and yet, it didn’t happen. That’s why I found it rather inexcusable. Now that I think more about this regrettable encounter, here’s another “fatal flaw” (same meeting, same provider who couldn’t get it up): about 10 minutes before our appointment end time, he not so subtly hinted that he had to go to dinner with his family in about 15 minutes and he needed to get ready. I interpreted it as he was urging me to get dressed and leave. Seriously??? You failed to perform and at the same time, you wanted to get rid of me early? Please give me a holy goddamn break.

I'm not sure why people wouldn't just buy the generic versions of acetaminophen and naproxen and take them together to achieve the same purpose. Why would I pay a probably much higher price for a combo drug just for convenience, let alone the inability to split the active ingredients? Celebrex is still available in the US. A lot of orthopedic surgeons love to prescribe it.

This method (using the Austria domain) was mentioned by someone else previously and I have been using it successfully ever since: rentmen.at/RMproviderusersname/reviews Let’s say the provider’s RM username is ABCXYZ, type in: rentmen.at/ABCXYZ/reviews Try and see if that works for you

OMFG!!! Your experience was totally inspirational, to say the least. I’m seriously considering expanding my horizons into uncharted territories after reading your story.

You are not alone. For decades, porn sites — I’d categorize OF under this umbrella term — were my only sexual outlets. Even then, I’ve never paid for OF contents because OF’s monotonous, “single actor” nature is not too appealing to me. I’ve never had the guts to visit a strip club yet. I’m still too inexperienced/vanilla to watch or be watched by complete strangers in public. Everything changed the moment I had a taste of the forbidden fruit (i.e. this hobby). Nothing compares to real human touch. I can’t go back now. 😜 Although I still watch porn, they can rarely satisfy my appetite. Of course there’s a significant cost difference between what’s behind a computer/phone screen and real human interactions. The value is worth the price.

I understand and accept that no one can perform at full capacity 100% of the time. In my case, I did recognize his attempts and efforts. That said, his explanation (of being exhausted from his prior activities) ticked me off quite a bit. For instance, I wouldn’t go rock climbing for 6 hours prior to a job interview and I wouldn’t binge drink and have a hangover the night before I know I have to give an important presentation at 8 AM the next morning. His explanation indirectly told me he didn’t give too much thought or care to my appointment. So my dissatisfaction didn’t just stem from his failure to perform. Well, maybe I was just too naïve to think that he would care that much in preparation for the meeting and/or maybe I expected too much from people in general.