Wings246

Dear comrades, I am the OP, but I have changed my username from lostlonelysoul. Details below. Thanks for all your recommendations. I eventually booked a 2-hour session with @Simon Suraci. I have been eyeing for him on both RM platforms for weeks even before I made my post. But his home base (SD) is way too far from me. So I gave up until I saw his travel location coincided with my business trip. It was meant to be. Let me start by saying that his ad/profile pics definitely do not do him justice. He is 100X hotter in person. You need to see him for yourself. Per your suggestions, I originally made a massage appointment, but as soon as I told him what I truly desired, he did not hesitate to switch gear and led me to the bedroom. Needless to say, I was consumed by stress and anxiety initially. He had a magical way to put me at ease. Aside from being handsome & sexy as hell, he’s intelligent, funny, and kind. Before I knew it, I had my first kiss, my first embrace with a man, my first time touching another man’s naked body all over, and…… I’ll let your imagination run wild to fill in the blanks (many, many, many other blanks indeed). I was (and kind of still is) in a euphoric state for days afterwards. Luckily, I have no important deadlines or projects on hand; otherwise, I’ll be doomed, for that session was the only thing I could think of ever since. @Simon Suraci exceeded every expectation I have for my first rendezvous and I am so glad I made the right choice for my many, many firsts. I bet he will forget about me very soon, but I am 100% certain I will remember him for the rest of my life. Frankly, that was one of the most memorable experiences I have ever had. I'll surely pay close attention to his traveling schedule from now on. Thank you all once again. No longer lost; No longer lonely (even though still alone); My soul has been salvaged; The gate of heaven has been unlocked; Let the wild ride begin + continue

Thank you sooooooo very much for all your sincere and thoughtful advices/perspectives. I cannot express in words how much I appreciate your opinions. I will keep your comments in mind and proceed accordingly. Thank you once again!

Absolutely brand new to everything here. By everything, I seriously mean EVERYTHING. It’s embarrassing to admit, but I am a deeply closeted gay man and a middle-aged virgin (think of the title of the Steve Carell movie in 2005). I have ZERO sexual experience with any human beings (never dated, never kissed, never held hands, never hugged/cuddled/touched anyone, male or female or anyone in between). With the new year, I just realize I cannot die as a virgin. The idea of hiring a provider hit me like a bullet train. I started searching and researching on RM and came across this community/forum. I have already messaged a few providers, but the initial contacts are still at the very early inquiry stage. I have a few questions: 1. When should I tell the provider the above background info about myself? I read here that some providers may misinterpret the virgin label as a red flag for scams or “discounts” but I have NO intention of either. I am afraid I’ll scare some providers away if I tell them too early. On the flip side, if I tell them on the spot, some providers may be unprepared for or unwilling to continue with a newbie. This is a dilemma. 2. Will a 1-hour appointment be enough? 3. Is it better to have an on-call or out-call setup? Any advice will be much appreciated. Thanks in advance. {{{ lost lonely soul }}}