Wings246

You are definitely NOT the only one and you are not hallucinating. The initial of that person's profile on that very popular platform = DL, right?

I'm amused, amazed, intrigued, and puzzled all at once when I read this, but am I reading this right? The word here is "tongue," correct? Is a normal, average human tongue long enough to achieve this goal? Is this even anatomically possible? Did you lose your virginity #21 to a chameleon or an alien? 😆

The fact that I'm now a self-proclaimed 50% virgin (aka Half-Assed Virgin), you know I have to admit that I'm at least 50% ignorant. 😁

Wow, this Odyssey needs to be made into a motion picture. I can tell it's Oscar worthy material just by reading it.

Elation: YES YES YES Shame: NO Ejaculation: YES YES YES YES YES YES

I can't explain it myself either. Any tattoo on the neck is another immediate turn-off for me.

OMFG... that's a genius idea! Maybe I should change all my social media handles (including my CoM user ID) to Half-Assed Virgin until the remaining 50% is lost. Can I patent that username?

I met him for the 2nd time last week. It's still hard to believe my eyes: he looks way better in person!!! If kissing is a must for you, you CANNOT — I repeat — CANNOT miss this fine man. No words can be used to adequately explain the way he kisses. I literally feel like I'm melting. I have never, ever been kissed that way before. EVER. Oh, and I don’t even know how to begin describing his insane body and his extraordinary equipment. If you read his RM profile: “Have you ever wondered if the guy you're calling is anticipating a hook up as much as you are? Well, that would be me…” He means every word of it. I feel that he wants to be there, wants to be with me, wants to do it with me, and wants me. As another provider once told me, “KristianLA is legendary and he is legendary for a reason.” He fulfills all of my fantasies, in a beyond-expectation fashion.

I finally met him and oh boy, was I getting the BFE I’ve always wanted!!! Granted, I still haven’t dated anyone in real life so I don’t really know how it should feel, but he surely did give me something I’ve never, ever experienced before. He made me feel special and desired. For example, without any signs/warnings, he lunged to plant a passionate kiss when I was speaking mid-sentence. It sooooo caught me off guard and yet, no doubt, it was a memory that I would cherish for a long time. We shared some thoughtful conversations as well. He was very sincere and genuine when he gave me some encouraging words of advice about my approach and attitude towards life. Perhaps this is part of the ingredients of a BFE I look for. I’ll have to say his profile pics are projecting a different image/personality that is quite distinct from his real-life persona when I meet with him face-to-face. He does look a lot better in person than his pics IMO. I did tell him that and he acknowledged I was not the first person who told him the same thing. He’s definitely on my “to-do-again” list.

Your perspectives are totally valid and understandable. I went to the appointment with a just-give-it-a-try mentality and not too much expectation (other than a bit of MT and a HE). So I’d say he met or maybe even exceeded my expectation. Also, because I kept your comments in mind, I didn’t try too hard to strike up a conversation with him. I did, however, make a casual remark about his chest tattoo. He immediately opened up about his life, how and why he got it, etc. My impression is that he’s actually a very nice, warm, and talkative person. He might have been burned too many times in the past for him to become cautious. Again, it’s just too bad that he’s not open to “other” services; otherwise……

I was curious too and did try, but I only went as far as filling out their initial survey / personality questions. According to some online reviewers/users, the answer to this question is most crucial and will largely determine who you are grouped with: Also, the reviews state that once you answer this question, it will permanently stick with your profile and you can't edit it afterwards. So be very careful how you proceed if you decide to try it out. As for me, the fact that all dinners are held on Thursday nights makes it very challenging. That's my primary hesitation.

I realize I forget to share my own perspective: virginity is lost after giving and receiving anal actions. I've only received and thus, I'm still a 50% virgin! 😂

@Vegas_Millennial: are you a stand-up comedian? If so, I'd definitely buy tickets to see you perform. You crack me up more often than you can ever imagine.

There are countless examples. Lately, every time I hear this song, I burst into laughter because I keep hearing "I don't wanna be a hole-wrecker": 🤣

Sorry for asking such a childish question. It's easy for heterosexual people to declare when they lose their virginity (i.e. when a penis penetrates a vagina, then both parties have lost their virginity). But for gay men, when or after what action(s) would you define that virginity is lost? Would it be the completion of a mirror-image equivalent activity (i.e. when a penis penetrates an anus/rectum)? Even so, do you have to be a top AND a bottom (i.e. to penetrate and to be penetrated) for the checkbox to be checked off? I know there is no single standard "scientific" answer. The easiest or perhaps the best answer is that it is whatever and however you want it to be defined. Regardless, I just want to hear other people's opinion on this.

I don't even know where or how to begin my compliments on KristianLA. You can't go wrong with him. I'm blessed that I live reasonably close to him so frequent visits are not prohibitive.

The problem is the assumption. That's why everybody here on CoM emphasizes: communicate, communicate, and communicate; ask, ask, ask, ask, and then ask some more. This somewhat loops back to @Mark_fl's original question: if there is a self-service kiosk for services, would it help or kill the vibe?

It's great that some people can get free lunches easily. But don't forget about those who are so unfuckable that they cannot get anything unless they pay. What would they have to do then?

I saw him recently. As far as I know, he strictly does massage only and no hardcore escort works are involved, which is too bad. In fact, he now only advertises on RentMasseur (his Rentmen ad is expired), what a waste. My jaw literally dropped to the floor when he took off his clothes. He's a true Brazilian beast. He is even more muscular and handsome than his profile pictures — his body and face are out of this world. He has that perfect balance between a cute/adorable and wild/sexy look. You can also tell very quickly that he’s a genuine, nice, and personable soul. My experience with him was essentially a massage + a bit of MT + a guaranteed HE. He did literally use his entire body for the massage though. I felt weak and was mesmerized when his body hair (chest, legs, arms, pubic, etc.) was brushing against my body. Just like other CoM members mentioned above, he laid down his ground rules and explained the whole process (with some very clearly defined boundaries) at the beginning, which was expected. I don’t get that “broken toy” feeling; instead, he appeared very confident, assertive, and comfortable with his performance and interactions with me. That said, he seemed quite guarded at first. Knowing this in advance, I didn’t make any moves on him. Ironically, it was him who grabbed onto me, telling me it was OK to touch and play, and guided me to appreciate his gorgeous body. Nevertheless, I do understand why some clients would be turned off by his approach, especially if you are looking for some extra surprises. All in all, I’d encourage people to give him a try if you’re intrigued by his pics or if you want a high-quality massage. You never know if you don’t try, right? For me, I will definitely look for a 2nd visit.

This is so very true. Even for those who claim they do kiss, the intensity varies widely. It can range from a polite, perfunctory goodbye kiss on the lips to the most lustful and animalistic, devour-you-alive French action. And the exact same person can behave very differently depending on his horniness and willingness during a particular encounter. So you will never know unless you try.

I'd perceive 1 of these 2 changes alone as an insult to your loyalty. After all, your at-least-twice-a-month visits for 2 years have generated a substantial and steady income stream for him. And now he's hitting you with a double whammy? And says NO to your attempt at negotiations? There's no quicker way to burn a bridge. I guess he probably has too much business and doesn't mind losing yours.

I know this is unlikely, but is it possible you have been contacting the same person who is under the disguise of different accounts on different platforms?

He is not only my regular, but he is one of my favorites (if not my absolute favorite). I have seen him many, many times within the last year; the most recent meeting took place a few days ago. He is classically handsome (blonde, blue eyes), tall, soft/smooth skin, and stunningly muscular. His body is insanely sculpted. I have told him repeatedly that his RM pics don’t do him justice and he should upload better, more accurate ones. He is truly versatile as described on his RM profile. He can switch between a tender, romantic conversation and wild, animalistic sex acts effortlessly. Communication is quick and easy. He fulfills all my special requests each and every time. You need to see for yourself.

I follow a similar thought process. I cannot host. So it's either the provider's place (his home or his hotel room) or I'll have to pay for a hotel room. If it's the latter, I consider it a sunk cost. In my mind, it's a fixed amount of $$$ that I need to spend to have fun. Therefore, if and when the provider can host, I would tip him a larger than usual amount -- sometimes the equivalence of the hotel cost -- as if I'm simply transferring the sunk cost (that I'd have paid the hotel otherwise) directly into his pocket. I love the convenience of not having to find something on Dayuse and he definitely loves the extra tips. Hence, it's a win-win situation. That's one of the reasons why providers who can host will easily rank higher on my priority list.

Have you ever invited your roommates to join your "parties" out of convenience?