Wings246

Totally agree. Unfortunately, in today's world, decisions are often made based on impulsive feelings rather than rational analyses. Isn't this largely the foundation of cancel culture (on both extremes of the spectrum)? Like many have already mentioned above, an unfavorable political view may effectively cockblock (all puns intended) someone's fantasy. It is understandable that people may not choose to engage in a business where the desirability of the total package is compromised. Maybe political affiliation is an essential selection criterion for some, especially for those who value emotional interactions (instead of pure physical/sexual contacts).

1. No, unless you want to befriend that person on a deeper level? 2. & 3. Personally, no, but I can imagine someone who wants to fantasize about a BFE may want to seek an imaginary BF who shares (or at least pretends to share) the same political stance? Or, it can be the direct opposite: someone may be looking for an imaginary BF who holds different political beliefs and may get some kinds of unnamed satisfaction from an intellectual debate? Perhaps political affinity/conflict may even be stimulating to some people? A special niche/kink to some??? 😁

I know this thread is about providers' perspectives on their ideal clients and my response may be slightly off topic. However, as @Simon Suraci's client, I can personally attest to his statements: I bet you I do NOT fall into the "ideal client" category, but @Simon Suraci undoubtedly is my ideal provider!

Dear comrades, I am the OP, but I have changed my username from lostlonelysoul. Details below. Thanks for all your recommendations. I eventually booked a 2-hour session with @Simon Suraci. I have been eyeing for him on both RM platforms for weeks even before I made my post. But his home base (SD) is way too far from me. So I gave up until I saw his travel location coincided with my business trip. It was meant to be. Let me start by saying that his ad/profile pics definitely do not do him justice. He is 100X hotter in person. You need to see him for yourself. Per your suggestions, I originally made a massage appointment, but as soon as I told him what I truly desired, he did not hesitate to switch gear and led me to the bedroom. Needless to say, I was consumed by stress and anxiety initially. He had a magical way to put me at ease. Aside from being handsome & sexy as hell, he’s intelligent, funny, and kind. Before I knew it, I had my first kiss, my first embrace with a man, my first time touching another man’s naked body all over, and…… I’ll let your imagination run wild to fill in the blanks (many, many, many other blanks indeed). I was (and kind of still is) in a euphoric state for days afterwards. Luckily, I have no important deadlines or projects on hand; otherwise, I’ll be doomed, for that session was the only thing I could think of ever since. @Simon Suraci exceeded every expectation I have for my first rendezvous and I am so glad I made the right choice for my many, many firsts. I bet he will forget about me very soon, but I am 100% certain I will remember him for the rest of my life. Frankly, that was one of the most memorable experiences I have ever had. I'll surely pay close attention to his traveling schedule from now on. Thank you all once again. No longer lost; No longer lonely (even though still alone); My soul has been salvaged; The gate of heaven has been unlocked; Let the wild ride begin + continue

Thank you sooooooo very much for all your sincere and thoughtful advices/perspectives. I cannot express in words how much I appreciate your opinions. I will keep your comments in mind and proceed accordingly. Thank you once again!

Absolutely brand new to everything here. By everything, I seriously mean EVERYTHING. It’s embarrassing to admit, but I am a deeply closeted gay man and a middle-aged virgin (think of the title of the Steve Carell movie in 2005). I have ZERO sexual experience with any human beings (never dated, never kissed, never held hands, never hugged/cuddled/touched anyone, male or female or anyone in between). With the new year, I just realize I cannot die as a virgin. The idea of hiring a provider hit me like a bullet train. I started searching and researching on RM and came across this community/forum. I have already messaged a few providers, but the initial contacts are still at the very early inquiry stage. I have a few questions: 1. When should I tell the provider the above background info about myself? I read here that some providers may misinterpret the virgin label as a red flag for scams or “discounts” but I have NO intention of either. I am afraid I’ll scare some providers away if I tell them too early. On the flip side, if I tell them on the spot, some providers may be unprepared for or unwilling to continue with a newbie. This is a dilemma. 2. Will a 1-hour appointment be enough? 3. Is it better to have an on-call or out-call setup? Any advice will be much appreciated. Thanks in advance. {{{ lost lonely soul }}}