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I'd perceive 1 of these 2 changes alone as an insult to your loyalty. After all, your at-least-twice-a-month visits for 2 years have generated a substantial and steady income stream for him. And now he's hitting you with a double whammy? And says NO to your attempt at negotiations? There's no quicker way to burn a bridge. I guess he probably has too much business and doesn't mind losing yours.

I know this is unlikely, but is it possible you have been contacting the same person who is under the disguise of different accounts on different platforms?

He is not only my regular, but he is one of my favorites (if not my absolute favorite). I have seen him many, many times within the last year; the most recent meeting took place a few days ago. He is classically handsome (blonde, blue eyes), tall, soft/smooth skin, and stunningly muscular. His body is insanely sculpted. I have told him repeatedly that his RM pics don’t do him justice and he should upload better, more accurate ones. He is truly versatile as described on his RM profile. He can switch between a tender, romantic conversation and wild, animalistic sex acts effortlessly. Communication is quick and easy. He fulfills all my special requests each and every time. You need to see for yourself.

I follow a similar thought process. I cannot host. So it's either the provider's place (his home or his hotel room) or I'll have to pay for a hotel room. If it's the latter, I consider it a sunk cost. In my mind, it's a fixed amount of $$$ that I need to spend to have fun. Therefore, if and when the provider can host, I would tip him a larger than usual amount -- sometimes the equivalence of the hotel cost -- as if I'm simply transferring the sunk cost (that I'd have paid the hotel otherwise) directly into his pocket. I love the convenience of not having to find something on Dayuse and he definitely loves the extra tips. Hence, it's a win-win situation. That's one of the reasons why providers who can host will easily rank higher on my priority list.

Have you ever invited your roommates to join your "parties" out of convenience?

Not a hard-and-fast rule, but it's usually 24 hours for me

Yes, I don't like the shotgun approach largely because I don't want to waste their time and possibly burn the bridge for a potential meetup down the road. I believe in treating people the way I want to be treated, you know.

Which method(s) do you follow when you contact a provider? Reach out to 1 person first, wait for a series of back and forth communications before confirming an appointment or moving on to the next person in line Blast (as with a shotgun) a group of potential hires all at once and book an appointment on a first-come, first-served basis (or whoever gives you the best 1st impressions via the initial communications) Do you have any other strategies? Thus far, I have only used the sequential method. TBH, though, it is very time consuming and the waiting period for a single person to respond is quite agonizing. And when this single person’s response doesn’t work out (e.g. time, place, into, rates), it’s a huge waste of time and opportunity because the 2nd person in line is no longer available after the waiting period of the 1st person. On the other hand, I feel like it’s unethical and inappropriate to use the shotgun approach to "shop around" simultaneously with the intention to pick only 1 at the end. Am I too cordial, considerate, and naïve?

This brings back a not-too-distant memory: A very seasoned provider, after giving me an extended oral exercise on the South Pole, seamlessly transitioned to rimming me (for a long time) without much warning. When he worked his way back up my torso and subsequently my neck and face, he whispered, “Do you mind me kissing you after the action down there?” To which I replied, “Why would I have any trouble tasting myself if you have no issues with it?” What followed was a 5-minute French kiss that I would never, ever forget for the rest of my life.

I know feet is a common treasure for many, but I feel hands and fingers are undervalued, especially large, manly hands with powerful grips and flexible fingers and well-manicured nails. I love to savor them with slow, passionate oral services. And I don’t need to elaborate on what kind of magic tricks a pair of dexterous hands can do. The possibilities with finger works can be endless. Should I say more? Anyone who shares similar interests?

Very true, but even when you know every step of a skilled magician's illusion, you still want to be tricked sometimes. Or, no matter how familiar you are with a world-renowned script, you still want to watch how this particular actor delivers an award-winning performance. It is especially tough to resist the temptation when you are allowed to take center stage in the said performance.

He told me, "You can get this for free. You don't have to pay for this." I rolled my eyes and thanked him for his kind words. Then he insisted, "No, seriously, trust me, you are definitely attractive enough to have as many free hookups as you want." TBH, I believed him for just a split nanosecond, and wondered if I can get it for free with him the next time. 🤣

Unequivocally #1. My response is entirely based on intention. The only intention is to deceive. He has the choice to not report in the first place, but he chooses to report. Yet, he elects to report untruthful information. Isn’t that the quintessential definition of a lie? Regardless, most people will agree that most profile info on the RM page is not necessarily accurate. So I always take it with multiple grains of salt.

I feel the same way. But I recently discover that he does show his face on RMass (but not RMen), which is kind of weird to me: BeefyMeatball - Male Masseur, Gay massage in San Francisco, CA | RentMasseur BeefyMeatball - Male Escort, Gay massage - San Francisco | Rent.Men I share the same sentiment. I can't count on RM chat. It's such an unstable channel to communicate. That's the exact reason why I haven't contacted him yet. What a shame!

It depends on what happens next. For instance, will he slurp it back? Will it be used as lube for further actions? Will it serve as lotion/oil for subsequent massage? It's all about attitude, action/reaction, and utility, you know.

This is giving me new insights into "Single Ladies (Put a Ring on It)". Maybe Beyonce was the one who put the ring on someone's dick???

Now, now, now, what kind of ring are you referring to? The kind to be worn on the finger or around the genitalia?

That's very admirable. I, on the other hand, aim to be penniless the moment I enter my casket. 😁

Confusing fantasy for reality = delusion 😅

A fake love, real lust connection indeed!

Would you find it acceptable if he spit it all into your mouth instead? Or do you need the full-on swallow?

Well, there's never, ever 100% certainty of anything. I wonder that sometimes, even with the best of intentions, they themselves do not know for sure they are 100% negative on everything. So it's a risk to accept no matter what. For me, it's a decision based purely on a set of risk vs benefit calculations. You can call it no pain no gain, maybe? 🙈 🙉 🙊

May I ask what agency you are using? I only know of RM and I'd love to explore other options.

I'd say if I were a provider and if there's a choice, I'd rather pick a basic, acceptably clean hotel room + basic/cheap restaurant and then have the difference in costs translate into extra tips/bonus in my pocket. At least this is how I feel from a client's perspective.

So far, I have only swallowed from 1 person and 1 person only. Needless to say, he’s my absolute favorite. It’s fair to say he has cast a spell on me. In my mind, the act itself completes my imagination of a real BFE. I still vividly remember how he reacted — a combination of surprise, exhilaration, and ecstasy — when I refused to let go even after he warned me he was about to cum. I guzzled every last drop of it. He even playfully complained that he couldn’t taste any leftovers when he French kissed me afterwards. To me, it is important as a psychological reward for the right person that I have an emotional attachment to. Otherwise, I don’t care for it.