Wings246

Thank you sooooooo very much for all your sincere and thoughtful advices/perspectives. I cannot express in words how much I appreciate your opinions. I will keep your comments in mind and proceed accordingly. Thank you once again!

Absolutely brand new to everything here. By everything, I seriously mean EVERYTHING. It’s embarrassing to admit, but I am a deeply closeted gay man and a middle-aged virgin (think of the title of the Steve Carell movie in 2005). I have ZERO sexual experience with any human beings (never dated, never kissed, never held hands, never hugged/cuddled/touched anyone, male or female or anyone in between). With the new year, I just realize I cannot die as a virgin. The idea of hiring a provider hit me like a bullet train. I started searching and researching on RM and came across this community/forum. I have already messaged a few providers, but the initial contacts are still at the very early inquiry stage. I have a few questions: 1. When should I tell the provider the above background info about myself? I read here that some providers may misinterpret the virgin label as a red flag for scams or “discounts” but I have NO intention of either. I am afraid I’ll scare some providers away if I tell them too early. On the flip side, if I tell them on the spot, some providers may be unprepared for or unwilling to continue with a newbie. This is a dilemma. 2. Will a 1-hour appointment be enough? 3. Is it better to have an on-call or out-call setup? Any advice will be much appreciated. Thanks in advance. {{{ lost lonely soul }}}