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Absolutely agree with this. I know many people only care about the STICK on the South Pole (length, girth, etc.). To me, however, the face is more valuable. In particular, the eyes are critical. Nothing can provoke me more than an intense, suggestive, and lustful gaze. There is a reason why they are window to the soul. None of this is possible without a face pic. For that, a face pic is more important than a dick pic.

Yes for me. The combination of deposit and drug alone is a double jeopardy already. And now he's asking for more after you paid for his reactivation fee. That's 3 strikes and he's out for good.

I’ve only been in this world for a bit more than a year. I did share similar sentiments with you when I first started. I worried about this and that and questioned if I would be rejected for ABC and XYZ reasons. Trust me, there is absolutely nothing that the providers haven’t heard or seen. I’m very sure most, if not all, providers will welcome you with open arms (and many other body parts). There’s too much fun to be had. Don’t waste time and energy on second guessing yourself.

My dentist friends also say people tend to forget that cavities and tonsil stones are major culprits of bad breath. You can brush/floss your teeth and rinse your mouth all day long. If you neglect the qualities of your teeth and tonsils, that rotten smell will follow you to your grave.

I feel it comes down to the inequality and imbalance of the dynamics between the clients and providers here. Clients can post anonymously under aliases whereas providers -- at least the honest and sincere ones -- have to reveal their true identities. In turn, the clients have virtually nothing to lose and everything to gain by participation. On the contrary, the providers have more to lose than gain, for all the reasons that have already been described upthread. Cyberbullies and keyboard warriors, especially those with tons of free time, can be extremely exhausting.

While this is a real possibility, many long-time members here have taught us newbies (me at least) to glance at the longevity of the posters' accounts before making conclusions. You can quickly identify and dismiss those hit-and-run accounts & comments. Sometimes, a helpful member will bluntly point out negative comments from a new account by writing, "welcome to the forum" as a way to alert others of the potentially fraudulent nature of the posts.

Disclaimer: I have never been into younger guys. So luckily, underage concerns do not apply to me at all. Just brainstorming here: the next time you meet with someone who appears too young, would you consider asking him for an ID as a backhanded compliment by saying, "Oh, you look WAY younger than the age you claim, can I see your ID to confirm? I don't want to break any laws because our texts can all be used as evidence." If he refuses or reacts strangely, then you'd know what to do.

I don't disagree with this at all. 😅 I somewhat agree with you on this view, but not entirely. I suppose it is a difference in using different words to express the extent/intensity of the intended meanings. I'll just cordially agree to disagree. Like I've mentioned numerous times on CoM, I do find different viewpoints and opinions very eye-opening and enlightening. Your responses do let me see things from a different angle.

I’m not even sure if I’m still “officially” classified as closeted. I did tell my doctors, as well as all the providers I’ve met, that I’m gay. But I haven’t done so with my family, friends, coworkers, etc. So am I considered “partially” or “secretly” out of the closet? Is it strictly a binary, all-or-nothing deal? 😁 For the sake of this discussion, let’s just say that I’m still closeted. I do accept myself as being gay; in fact, I have accepted that ever since I was a teenager (maybe even younger than that). Yet, I don’t feel like I’m intolerant of myself as a human being just because I am not broadcasting my sexuality / sexual desires & orientation to the world. To me, the conclusion of being closeted = being intolerant of oneself is a very bold assumption. I don't doubt this possibility. Many of the providers I've met share their real-life, personal info with me and I am quite surprised by this. I may be delusional, but I feel some degrees of "human connections" do exist beyond the transactions.

It is reported that pea-size injection site lumps are very common (>60%) for Yeztugo and they can last for months. Other than cost, is that another deterrent to use?

Did you bump into him at work after the encounter? If so, was it awkward or did you guys simply pretend nothing had ever happened?

For some strange reasons, as I was typing, I already knew you would come back with a double entendre. And yes, I agree, the entry is one of the highlights, if not THE highlight.

I do know what being "gay" means. As a matter of fact, I knew I'm gay even before my pubertal years. I distinctly remember how my little man reacted when I saw naked men's bodies at the locker rooms of public swimming pools. In contrast, I had (and still have) absolutely no responses to any female body parts, naked or covered. So being "gay" is not a new discovery to me. I can now say that I'm "sexually experienced" as a gay man. But I'm still at the entry level if you ask me. 😆

Me too!!! Unlike you, however, it was a fairly recent event for me.

As the cosmic energy of this world would have it, I ran into a random guy who fit all of these criteria flawlessly when I was shopping at Costco this morning. I was paralyzed... hahahahaha! Of course nothing happened, but for a second, I thought he caught me staring at him. Too bad I didn't take a picture of him. I get all excited just thinking about him right now. 😅 🤤

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It's a recurring theme of CoM (or any other forum): a repeated topic (a horse that's been beaten to death) to the old timers may be news to the newbies. And sometimes, although rare, someone may be able to offer a new perspective on an old subject. So resurrecting an old thread can be of value occasionally.

It's rather pointless to ask because he can lie or worse yet, he doesn't know about it himself. Furthermore, even if he knew he was 100% disease free yesterday, as long as he engages in any sexual activities with someone else today prior to meeting you, the risk cannot be 100% ruled out. It's difficult, if not impossible, to take part in this if you expect 100% guaranteed safety.

Not sure if this has been addressed before or if this even qualifies as a “fetish”. Men who are completely bald (or with completely shaved heads) — not with patchy bald spots — have always been my major turn-on. The fire is amped up if the bald guys are muscular. Gasoline will be added to this firepit if they are hairy, especially on the chests. The combination of these 3 features is lethal to me. As an aside, do any RM profiles that fit this description exist? 😏

Not sure if this answers your questions directly, but I was in a somewhat similar situation last year and I started this thread (my first ever on CoM): Some of the comments / suggestions were very insightful, and even the sarcastic ones were super fun to read.

Another T-shirt concept: I nailed Jesus.

I’m very silly & careless in this respect. I use my real phone number. I understand the risks (blackmail and whatnot) as many have pointed out here. How did they try to blackmail you though? Did they threaten to: · Show proof of your encounters/communications with them? · Show up unannounced at your workplace/home? · Report to the police? · Harass you in various ways? I guess I need someone to slap me in the face to become more guarded & less reckless. Any info will help. Thanks in advance.

I can attest to this with my personal experiences. A provider who was listed as "Safe Only" was BB during my entire encounter with him. Neither one of us mentioned/suggested/requested/asked about the use of condom before, during, or after.

Oh, he certainly knew how to use his tongue. Talking was by far the least stimulating & least creative skill facilitated by his tongue action.

Good try. I don't live there, but I can probably retire early there comfortably tomorrow, considering my current income and the cost of living in ID. 😆