DunwoodyGuy

His RentMassuer profile is now expired.

These things happen. Move on. Best not to start threads about it.

"I was reading a book the other day..."

This thread gave me a headache. It is the ultimate TL;DR.

In my experience, a request like that would break the mood and change the dynamic: If he slips his dick into your willing mouth during the massage, then he's controlling how erotic it gets. If you get up from the table and climb between his legs and start sucking him, it becomes an escort session for which he deserves a higher fee. Alternatively, you could ask the masseur in advance for a rate that includes sucking his dick. (Or hire an escort.) Others might disagree with me, but when I choose a sensual or erotic masseur, I try to choose carefully and then just let them do their thing.

Briefly. But it seemed more like a relative newbie who does PNP and assumed anyone coming to him would want to do it too. The deposit was ham-handed, not like something he did because he had been burned before but something he did because he thought it was okay to do. I don't think he anticipated me or anyone else having a negative reaction to the either the deposit or the drugs. So I have some compassion for him but NOT enough to book him.

Whatever.

On the contrary. You brought it up in a transparently oblique way that could only mean one thing: Tina. This is not the first time at the rodeo for any of us on COM. If you meant anything less than Tina, you would have said so. But, no, you chose to be vague and cutesy (or so you thought), and then said I shouldn't be guessing when you actually set up the guessing game yourself. Tina kills.

Which means it was meth.

What was the drug?

He "forgot his cocaine"? That sounds unlikely. Did he say what the "other drug" was?

Great responses in this thread--I hope you take them to heart. And speaking of hearts, how about considering changing your screen name from "bigfattie" to "BigHeart"?

I think you misunderstood--he wasn't suggesting a vodka-soda.

I don't get out of sorts about sex practices a person might enjoy that I don't. But this was not sex--this was DRUGS. Surely even you can see the difference.

Possibly in a PM, by request. I don't believe we should use Company of Men public forums for "revenge posts."