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I've tried good old-reliable Google, and find other profiles with the same name in other platforms. I hope it works for you.

I once saw a profile with pictures of the guy from the 80s.

It's a shady strategy to have everything ready and at the last minute give you an insane quote. Insist, or change providers.

I'm most certainly not in that category, but have known (way too) many gay men who prefer "straight" men. What I notice is (a) a forbidden fruit type of curiosity/desire, (b) low self-image, thinking that straight means better, (c) the ultimate masculine fantasy, they love masculinity. I personally prefer gay men for one simple reason: why on Earth am I going to pursue a person who, by the very definition of who/what they are, doesn't like me?

I have, and I still do. However, I don't take care of my body to get the admiration of others. It's good and nice to be liked and accepted, but I don't depend on that or use it as motivation. I take care of myself to the best of my ability, considering my lifestyle, preferences, age and health status. Other than the people who matter to me, I can't care less what they have to say. Gyms are there for whoever pay for them to use them, not to please the view of others. Those are the ones who are out of place, not you.

That guy sound quite pathetic. I've seen many people behaving like that in other ways. Just another petty loser. Really, how empty your life has to be to incur in that to feel something? He should be exposed, his name and info should be made available to other prospective targets of his petty nonsense. I do like the idea of having the client pay for the transportation to the place. Not only it will cost him, but his information will be documented. Sorry you had to deal with that bullshit.

Less likely, but not impossible. Just today I spent some time with my CU's fraud department because I saw a transaction in a place I've never been to. They blocked my card and tomorrow I have to go get a new one. Electronic scams are getting more sophisticated. Yes, the trick is that they sound official, but they ask you for your personal data to "verify". I got a call like that and my response was, "you are the one calling, why don't you tell me? Normally the verification is for when I call, not for when the bank calls". She got belligerent and I just said "fuck you" and hung up.

You're not in the wrong there, in my experience and opinion. I had a terrible experience with a provider and his roommates (two) walking around. It was a terrible experience. I can't tell if you might have experienced the same, but is up to us to decide what makes us comfortable. If the possibility of another person in the place bothers you, then it's a deal breaker to you. Based on that experience, roommates and visitors are a deal breaker for me. You decide what your level of comfort is.

Probably busy or maybe they might prefer text. Please keep in mind that they do have to weed out people who might probably look/feel problematic to them or time wasters. Have you tried texting? Do their profile specify preferred method of communication? They might also not be available when you call. Best wishes.

First, you have great taste; he looks really good. Second, I think you're right. He looks smooth or shaved. Maybe he does have some hair but shaves it sometimes. I echo others who say to ask (if it's a deal breaker to you).

If you are not into specific races/ethnicities, and if you're not one of those who only want English-speaking providers, and if you prefer quality and safety over a nice piece of meat, you have plenty of choices (in my experience): Thailand Dominican Republic Mexico Brazil (I was surprised about their prices, though I went there a while back) Cuba Costa Rica Puerto Rico (I was surprised about this place too) In terms of ease of connecting, (in my experience) the guys in the Dominican Republic were a little pushy, but manageable.

In my experience that type of "hybrid" service is not that unusual. There's nothing wrong with a provider to like you and want to enjoy some of the fun. However, I'm not sure if looking for that type of experience from masseurs who don't normally provide extras after the massage will be a good thing. I'd suggest to look for providers who offer erotic massages, which give the higher chance of getting good sex. BUT THAT IS UP TO THE MASSEUR. That's the tricky part. You can also hire an escort and get that as a fantasy/role play. In my experience, that type of things do happen (I experienced something similar in Sitges, Spain in 2023), but they are out of the ordinary. I woudn't be pursuing that unless I specifically ask beforehand. Just my opinion, not law.

Well, the stripper with daddy issues and an award-winning ass, who took all my fun money last December in Puerto Vallarta reaches out to me all the time, probably for more money. Does that count as socializing?

Bullshit. It's REALITY. They are useless.

What!!! You mean that: They're not getting participation trophies from their bosses? They aren't able to "do anything and nobody can't tell them otherwise"? The grades that they got to avoid lawsuits against the school, and threatening their teachers didn't pay off? Their feelings can get hurt in the workplace? Shocking that gentle parenting and "positive reinforcement" in education doesn't seem to be working. (just in case, I'm being sarcastic)

I agree that particularly with first-time clients, showing up with signs of being sick might not be the best idea. The opposite is also true. As a client, I learned not to show up sick (I posted an experience where the masseur said that it was ok to com see him while I was still not feeling great), and to cancel until I am feeling well and 100% sure that I'm not sick, and I expect and appreciate the same from the provider.

Don't care about the economy, self-entitlement, drug free, or good mental health from the provider, nope. Nobody's getting $1K from me for an hour of their time.

Don't we all.

It's common. Has been for me. And I've experienced that at a Spa too.

I agree. I also see a problem with too many clients wanting to have a cut-and-dry answer to their exact expectations with massages. Here are a few facts: The masseur profession is poorly, if at all, regulated. Anyone can claim to be a masseur and there's no proving otherwise. Many men want escort services for massage prices. I have gotten escort experiences from masseurs, but: (a) some upsold it for an additional cost, (b) some just liked me, and (c) it was their prerogative, they are not mandated to do anything other than a massage. I also have the understanding that I might or might not get anything extras. There's no specific definition or line that differentiates sensual from erotic massages. What is erotic to some is just sensual to others. There will never be a clear, one definition for those things. The masseur calls the shots. He decides if he wants to offer extras, and what, when and to whom to offer such extras. That's just the nature of the setting. It is on us to determine the chances for getting a quality massage. I don't think that I should complain if what got me to reach out to the masseur was the pictures of his ass, not his credentials or experience, and then I get a poor massage. When a masseur I am interested in has profiles in both the massage and the escort website, then I have an idea of (a) his level of willingness (not a guarantee) to offer more than a massage, but also (b) the chances of upselling services. What we communicate is as important as how we communicate it. It's not OK to text questions that might get the masseur in legal trouble. At some point we're going to be disappointed, scammed, conned, or experience something negative. I've shared in this forum that I have been recorded (at least twice) without my consent by masseurs. I got terrible massages, and mediocre extras. It's just part of what we encounter with every service that we hire. I have identified masseurs that offer the different things that I like getting when I'm in the mood for something in particular. My favorite therapeutic masseur was a physical therapist and provides an excellent and very professional therapeutic massage. I also have one or two that are as good with the massage as they are with the extras. I have one or two who are terrible masseurs but great at the extras. I personally have learned to live with the fact that it is a gamble, there is a risk to not obtaining what we have in mind, that the experience might not be as fulfilling as we expect, and that some people have no business doing any kind of massage, yet they can.

No, but I'll be following. I'm traveling to Orlando soon.

Yes, I saw only two without logging in. I'm referring to when not logged in.

I can see important features of you, which is great. I'd suggest if you could add a few more. This is just me, might not be the case with others, but when i see no face and only two visible pics I get suspicious.

No, and in my case I'm glad. I walked away from a previous life and never looked back.

The right thing to do is to not go ahead if you're in shock and not comfortable, or rather "not comfortable". If it was me, I'd let it go for now and revisit the possibility once the shock passes to see if I'd feel comfortable going with it. I don't think that it could happen to me for a number of reasons. A few years ago I came across my forced best friend from childhood (long story as to why forced to be my friend), and he looks like he's had a hard life. The other friend from childhood that I really liked I already lost my virginity to him, so it wouldn't be a shock to me, but I wouldn't like to pay him.