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That line of work exists since humanity became civilized. That means, people have been providing without Internet for quite a long time. Just search info about the old fashion way of doing things, and the type of clients that cater to that level of discretion. I'm sure that there's clientele out there that prefer that level of secrecy too. I think that's quite a niche for some.

Different look but still hot as hell.

I agree.

Propose, and one of the three of you is not on board, then it won't happen. My guess is that this might not be the first time than people in an open marriage come across a person they have both met separately. If they really are that in sync with each other, chances are that they might already had that discussion about crossing paths with the same person

Actually, that's very easy to find out. I'll reach out to him in Hungarian/Magyar. Let's see how it goes.

To me it's more confusing that he says that he's straight and a top. He also list all these languages: English • Español • Français • Italiano • Dutch • Português • Deutsch • Ру́сский • ελληνικά • بهاس ملايو • Magyar • العَرَبِيَّة‎‎ • हिन्दी • বাংলা • 官话 • 日本語 Guy has issues.

I find it a little odd, but I also think that there's a factor around the level of comfort that a provider feels about being fully open about the work that they do. As others have mentioned, a vast majority of the guys in rentmasseur have no formal training or certification as masseurs. It's not a fully regulated profession, so anyone can call themselves a masseur. Other prefer the convenience that the masseur title gives them, but do whatever they want. They might feel like using it as a cover for escorting, or as an excuse to say no to clients that they don't want to "escort". The masseur title gives them a little more control over how the encounters go, though for less money. Just my thoughts, not law.

Let him know (if you are willing to move the appointment) that you are willing to wait for him to be ready for you. How exactly, I'm not sure, but you should have a comfortable, private and discreet experience.

He has a WhatsApp account, so you can have a video call with him, that will give you proof that he exists, looks like in his profile and at least that part is real. Not a guarantee about not being a scam, but it helps.

Nothing like I've read, I saw a masseur in Puerto Vallarta, and I had a great time with him, but when I returned he was all business, no extras. later in the year when I returned, he was no longer at the place where I met him. The rest of the year was rather uneventful in that respect.

Details? How was he rude?

Thank you. Count on me for it.

In NYC, I dare to say that it's more than that (at least in my experience). As a person who has been to this type of venues in many cities around the world, there's definitely what you mentioned, but in NYC is part of the culture, it's expected, it's ever present. Many people there just posing and being seen by others, and that's it. There's no "strategy" in what I see there. The funniest moment around the posing thing that I experienced was at the now gone west side club where there was almost one person per room just standing there by their room doors, looking stupid, and suddenly in the background they played Madonna's Vogue. I and a few others looked at each other and couldn't stop laughing, plus that was my cue for me to just leave the place.

Enjoy. Please do share how it goes.

I remember going there once, and I can't judge a place for only one time. The facilities are conducive of what it's intended for. It' a sex club, but as my experience has always been in sex clubs in NYC, it's always jammed packed... with attitude. People are just there posing, looking stupid.

I've heard of it, never cared for it, and people who like to be on the receiving end of it should use their financial resources to get therapy.

There are many right and wrong ways of asking. Though others have pointed at the way you asked, I also have to point at the way the masseur takes your communication. I have been rejected by masseurs when I have inquired, and I have done it in the exact same way some here suggest, and pasting the exact same words in the initial text. Is this the first time you reach out to a masseur? If not, has this time been differently in the way you initiated the conversation? There's never going to be a perfect way of communicating. As others suggest, look into the way you inquire, but also be aware that the masseur himself might take it differently than its original intent. There's no guarantee either way. I'd just move on to the next. Just make sure that your 50% of the conversation is right and adequate.

To add to the weirdness, the ad is now gone.

If he's still in Havana when I'm there, I reach out to him.

Not my thing (officially), but I posted this: Not something I consider, but not against it either.

Interesting statistics. Right on time for my 2025 travel plans.

If you have the means and interest, I'm sure you can have a good idea of what a fair compensation is. Be ethical about it.

The way I see it: In Facebook, everybody is happy In X, everybody is right In LinkedIn, everybody is a big shot expert In Grindr and RM, everybody has a big one

One of my favorite providers in Mexico has a partner, and what's more, according to him, his partner is not fully aware of what he really does for a living. I also know providers who have children and girlfriends. It's their lives and their prerogative to decide what to do with them. I think it's a little naive to expect that providers are these lonely people or single men who don't have a life and love outside of their business. People are people. Furthermore, why being a provider should be a source of guilt? And why should that be my business as a client? Speaking of clients, how many clients aren't out there who have partners, children, wives, or belong to conservative organizations that go against what they are doing with a provider? The heart and soul of this business is precisely around things that people do "on the side". Like others mentioned, I'd look into why knowing the provider having a partner makes your react. No judgement (ok, some judgement), but not meant to be an attack to you, more as some insights on this topic.

Th I don't do deposits. If that means I cannot see a given provider, then so be it. It's a deal breaker to me. This is one of those things that don't have a solution, it's going to continue being a challenge for both the providers and the clients. I can suggest that you can try asking for deposits and then see if there's a benefit to your business, or if it's impacted positively or negatively. I see no harm in trying to protect your business as a provider and then seeing if it results in something beneficial to you. There will be clients like me who will skip providers requiring deposits, but there will be some who have no problem with it. As you and others stated, your reputation might help clients feel comfortable providing you with a deposit. There's no one solution to this on either side. We're all going to do what's best to protect ourselves and our assets. Best.