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I saw in RM a profile with the name "The Butt Whisperer", so no, not too direct in my experience.

That's good old fashion fear of intimacy. Just another made-up term.

I've gotten several of those "Hi". Have responded to some, and one ended up in a booking, the others were out of my area, but I had a nice conversation where I ended stating that I might consider them if I travel to where they are of if they come to my city. No harm done, just a nice, polite conversation. They reach out to prospective clients. I don't see anything wrong with it. It's more annoying when I get those from Dell and T-Mobile.

In some areas finding parking is a deal breaker. I live in an area where that's a major issue. Maybe that's an issue in that area, so it's worth mentioning.

I'm not sure what your point is. We already know the risks, plus, as I stated, risk is always present; it's a matter of our decision to take it and handle it. Plus you haven't mentioned anything that is exclusive to escorting. All those things can happen on your way to a 9-5 job.

There's always a risk in your reputation, your personal safety and your health (physical and mental), but that can also be said of many other professions outside escorting. In my experience, there are plenty of people who are professionals and have escorted in the past, many of which manage to hide it, or are in professions where that's not necessarily a deal breaker. Your choice of career outside escorting can determine how risky having been an escort is. Also, you may not need to advertise online. Escorting exists since the beginning of time, way before sites with profiles existed. Risk is always there, all we all can do is minimize it and decide which ones are worth taking. Best.

First, you don't know that Second, I don't have to explain things to you Third, re-read my post again. Fourth, stop trying to be a jackass with me. You're not going to win.

Re-read my post. I said how I stop them.

When it comes to MY beliefs, absolutely.

Maybe agreeing with them help stopping them, but I don't agree with them, and again, they are not entitled to have the last word, especially about what MY beliefs are. That might not be as important to others, but it is to me. Also in my experience, agreeing with them has been taken as I am interested, so they double down on their proselytizing, which is not exactly what I am interested. Some might back off at the first try, but most (again, in my experience) won't.

That's a huge no-no for me. If he's hot enough and good in every other aspect, I might try to politely letting him know to stop that Christian shit. In my experience, however, I know that they don't stop until they feel disrespected. To avoid things getting to that point (since I won't stop either until they get it - part of the problem with people like that is that they always want to have the last word in everything), I prefer to thank him, then just end it and block him.

Shout! Shout! Let it all out. You are in the right place here for this. I know that many of use claim that we don't care about what others think, but that's true only to some extent. Enjoy your hiring.

I understand it's short for submissive. "Bottom" doesn't necessarily means submissive. Then there's passive-aggressive "submissive", which are those (who I find annoying, not my thing) who claim to be in a submissive state but are in complete control of what happens in a session, even though they use a lot of "Sir" when talking.

I do have an age preference, but if I see what I like in the pictures and the profile, I might not care of age, real or not. It is not the most important thing I look for (within reason, of course). It's quite impressive if he can pass for a 32 year old being in his late 40s (at least). I wonder of he has gotten rejections over it, just curiosity.

I don't know. Never saw or heard of it before. He was definitely skillful.

Ditto. But if they want to charge more might not be because of their better physique, but because mine is worse.

And that should concern me... why?

Then you must get to meet more people. If that's what works for you, perfect. Have a nice life. I'm not interested in convincing you of anything. BTW, you do know that you are in a forum with a lot of people using burner phones, spoofed numbers and hidden identities, right?

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Yes, they can. They use a technique named spoofing to pose as a different number with a different name.

Not sure what your point is.

Human, no AI for me, thank you. For what's worth, I do love glory holes. Who cares if it's an alien on the other side. That's kind of the point.

In IT lingo that's called Vishing. Seems to be more effective since it's a real person over the phone. Targets older people based on the premise that they are less tech and info-safety savvy. The moment they ask for any personal information tell them to fuck off.

It's always been a high risk line of work. As long as there isn't any legal protection, there will be risks involved with getting involved with the wrong client or in the wrong situation. Today there's the advantage of social media and information sharing, which gives providers some way of finding information about their clients, both current and prospective. Definitely TMZ. You can remove everything about Diddy and the article still makes the point.

The only issues I've had is with providers canceling on me. No threats so far. My real name sounds made up, anyway.