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Yes, that's what caught my attention. I'll give it a try next time I'm in NYC and I guess I'll report.

This popped up in my Facebook (I hate how intrusive technology has become). I wonder if this is a new site or if anyone can speak of it. thegaymassage.com

He might feel the same way, afraid of losing business or creating an unsavory situation by offering erotic massages to a long-term client. I think that the expression of interest should come from you. Maybe after or before a session, simply communicate that you are aware that he's offering a new service and that you might be interested. I can see a difficulty in him letting him know of his expanded services to a steady client and not knowing what reaction to expect.

I don't necessarily think it is, but I'd suggest to address the actual concern without getting into his scheduling. I find it OK to express that you don't want to feel rushed. No one does.

You did great. Love it. My favorite line: "Ain't no rhyme or reason, no complicate meaning, Ain't no need to overthink it, Let go laughing..." I'll take that.

I just want to share this, but I am curious to know if there are others who have had situations like this, when the massage session doesn't go exactly as planned. I was looking forward to booking an appointment with one of my favorite masseurs. He's great with both the massage and the extras, and I like that he's not a clock watcher. I've seen him several times and had a great time... except this time. Nothing to do with him, though. First, I should have listened to my body. I had just started to recover from a cold that refused to leave my body for months. I was fine, but I could have waited another week, but I guess I was thinking with the wrong head. I was late for the appointment, which is a first. Then I also needed a shower before the massage, which I have done before at this masseur's. I fell in the shower and hurt one of my legs, but there was no way I was going to cancel, so I went on. I have no idea how while drying my body, I cut one of my fingers. Not a deep cut, but it bled a lot and took some time to stop it. Finally, I am on the massage table, and about 40 minutes or so into the massage, I started feeling a terrible pain in my lower back, and like that's not enough, I started feeling a pain on my penis. I had to stop the massage and ask him if he has some Ibuprofen. He didn't, but I got some aspiring. While he went of the aspirin, I had the "genius" idea of putting on my penis some Lidocaine cream I had for the pain. It's a good cream, but I forgot that the one I was carrying in my backpack had menthol, so when I put it, it started feeling like my penis was on fire. Needless to say, I had to stop the session, and I just tried to remove that cream and resume the time just talking and laughing at the rather stressful session. And of course, since I was naked in an environment with lowered temperature, I started coughing again. Later I found that the pain in the lower back turned out to be a kidney stone. If there's a lesson there for me to learn, I'm not sure I got what it is.

More like a weapon of ass destruction. Rarely, and now that I'm older, high chances are no. Maybe when I was a teenager with a 24/7 erection. When a guy doesn't do it for me, there's no dick swinging that will change my mind.

Yes. I don't prefer guys who are much taller than me. I have turned down guys because of them being too tall for my taste.

The overall answer, no I don't expect it. I do expect to get hot and heavy regardless.

I travel extensively, and use my phone. I've never been asked to unlock it anywhere, and most importantly, they will be rather bored if they search whatever in my phone. First, I never save passwords, so the apps that require passwords or pin will not open unless they ask again. Second, they are free to search and will find nothing because I have nothing illegal in my phone. Third, I have Global Entry and TSA pre-check, so the US government already have access to plenty of my information. That video seems more like scare bait.

Not a deal breaker but I wouldn't stop him if he chooses to.

No, it's a new way of carrying toiletries. I have not experienced that and have no reason to believe that any of my providers have been high or are actively addicted to drugs. Do they use? Who knows? I don't party and I don't allow it during my sessions, but whatever a provider does on their free time is their business. Question: how do you find drug paraphernalia while packing up? Are you sure you weren't snooping around?

Looks like Canada is going to be this summer escapade for me. I've been with a few bottoms who don't like kissing and that's fine with me. He'll be busy in other things anyway, Damn that guy's hot!

I'll definitely keep you in mind next time I'm in Toronto.

True. I completely agree. Actually, I believe providers can attest to that more than clients. There have been posts about men getting massages without being clean, and if I remember correctly, there is a masseur that decided to keep wet wipes handy.

They are not being very polite showing up unclean, especially if there has been conversation about expectations of work performed in that area. I think that in a good tone you can state that you did no feel comfortable with the smell when he dropped his pants. It's not ideal and I can see that being a mood killer, but letting him know it's best for both and in the long run.

I see. Didn't know that some have a minimum of two hours.

I always schedule for more than an hour. Force of habit. When I started hiring I needed the extra time. Now I just use the extra time based on what I see, feel and the chemistry between us. In my experience, I've gone a second time, I've played video games, talked, went to Walmart together, gave life advice, did more foreplay, got a tour of his house, watched a TV show while fooling around, and there have been times when I just said goodbye and left. It's your time and you can choose whatever feels right at the moment. I don't plan anything in particular because I integrate what I feel at the moment. That's important to me, to feel there, present and enjoying the moment. However, you can use the time anyway you can think of. That said, this might sound intrusive, so feel free to ignore the question: Any reason why you want to schedule two hours without being sure you need the or what to do with that much time? Just curious.

I understand. Same answer, though. A good escort doesn't care much about age.

I'm interested as well. Anyone?

His personal website: https://www.themaleadventure.com/

Not my thing. I don't judge, but I don't see myself doing that.

A good escort doesn't care about age. 39 is old?

That was the exact same question we all asked when he said that. He didn't know, she didn't say, and since she was a nun, the staff had extra discretion about it (except for my friend who told our entire group of friends).

Not a regular practice, but I have. Never used toys or any foreign (inanimate) objects, though. I had a friend who was an operation room technician, and he had a few stories of people needing surgery to remove things from their rectum, from plantains to frozen sausages, to tubes, all kinds of objects. One of them was a nun. That seems to be more common that we want to admit.