Just thought I'd throw my 2 cents in. At my stage in life, it is really more about the kissing and tactile stuff then fucking. I had one of the World's Best Lovers and lost him to AIDS. Don't get me wrong. Fucking's great too. Butt (!) I've got toys for that, in the meantime. I know...that communion will come again. The whole enchilada when I click with the next right guy. I've been lucky to have found a few guys on rent.men who are Masters Of The Boyfriend Experience. The talking, touching, slow kissing, slowly undressing one another. The lite nipple play. Lite ass exploration. And then a nice mutual j/o while kissing. I keep my mouth in great shape. I make it clear up front kissing is on the menu. I've been lucky. Have found many great kissers out there! DM if you want more intel. Happy Spring men. 🙂