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I think that masseurs have the responsibility of knowing the maximum capacity of the table that they have, and respect it. I have asked to some about it, but since that's my fear too, there have been times when I have tested it myself. So far all the tables I've been on have resisted my weight and our movements. Only once I felt that we were being a little to rough on the table, but nothing happened, though I did hear some kind of squeak. I think it is a real concern, especially in those places that are more known for the extras than the massages.

I rarely remember people's birthdays. For providers, I've gotten a few that mention their birthdays in expectation of a gift. I give them an extra tip. There's no rule.

I find both beauty and ugliness in all shapes, types, ages and races. So the answer is no.

I'm so sorry that happens. It does happen. Similar things have happened to me. I am of mixed race and have experienced similar things when I mention my heritages. Some white men "like" men of other ethnicity, but in reality they just fetishize them. Then there are those who legitimately like men of other ethnicities but have no idea on how to approach or treat us. I get a lot of that "I love Latino men" ridiculous line, as if that's supposed to be some kind of magic phrase that automatically bends me over or something. I just laugh, give a smart remark, or just ignore. Then there are some idiots who seem to think that what they see in porn is how we, men, actually are or behave (the "young, dumb and full of cum" nonsense). Most importantly, at some point you might have seen how some gay men are and talk about what they are into, as if they are in a cult. It could be related roles, circumcision, penis size, shape, body hair, and who knows what else. Race and ethnicity are no exception when it comes to that. They show zero basic manners, consideration or respect for others simply because they are not what they "like". That means that in many instances that has nothing to do with you, and a lot to do with their "ways" of seeing and treating people. There are many men who I'm sure will like you, for the right, the wrong, fair or unfair reasons, but they will like you nonetheless. You don't want to waste your time with having those who judge people by their race or ethnicity anywhere near you, anyway. Best wishes.

And I thought that it was too much seeing people praying to ChatGPT! The information returned by AI is a generic just as the Internet is. I didn't learn anything new from what you posted. It seems like it took these threads and summarized them for you. Personally, I am not fond of using AI for any aspect of my personal, especially hiring. Aside from bias, inaccuracies (what they call hallucinations), security and privacy issues, I just don't see the point of using that tool that way. I am also on the side of those who think that it is not as private and safe as it looks. I know that was just for fun, I'd be cautious too.

Seems like one of them read this thread, the pictures are completely different, the ones visible for Daniel_martinez, darker, skinnier and not showing face, though I don't have a premium account and don't know if the hidden pictures show face. They look completely different.

No, and the same goes to men of all other colors.

Yes, I've had several, some quite deep, and I think the same, the provider has felt comfortable enough to trust me with disclosing, venting or just connecting. I am married, and some of those providers know it, so I don't have any reason to believe that those conversations imply a deeper connection. They are just being human. We all a times need certain type of connection. I've done the same and have never expected that the provider gives me anything other than a listening ear for the time we're in business. I don't feel guilty for decisions that other clients make and for the way the provider conducts business. In fact, I don't think it's my place to get involved in that, though I have given some life advice to younger providers and it seems like it has been welcome. I just leave it at that; to me that's just part of being a decent human being, not necessarily anything with deeper meaning. If that kind of thing affects you, I'd suggest to take care of yourself and protect your emotions, but not to dwell on it.

Just like ATMs charge a convenience fee, so do providers.

My two cents: It seems like you didn't give him an exact time either. This seems more like an imagined amount of time that doesn't seem to match without actual details. You are not being specific yourself. "You'll find out Ttyl" sounds like a reply I'd give when I was in my 20s. I gave that kind of responses out of lack of communication skills and discomfort with asking for details myself. If he's interested in your business, he'll reach out. If he does, I'd suggest to rather than asking again like that, communicate your number of how long will you actually expect him to last. If he cannot or will not deliver, or if it cannot be negotiated, then it was not meant to be.

I am a little on the other side of the spectrum regarding doing 60 minutes. I'd offer 60-minute massages, but wouldn't just disregard my professional responsibility and still offer the 90-minute massage. It doesn't have to be an either/or. I'd also raise the prices. $160 seems low in today's economy. Nowadays a lot of people rely on social media and websites. Do you have an online presence? Just my thoughts, not law.

I definitely prefer a table. Never had a massage on the floor, though we have "continued" on the floor a few times. Japan is in my list of places to visit in 2028 (my 2027 is already booked). I'd like to know details of where/how you found that massage. Seems interesting.

My question is what gives that particular platform an advantage. Based on my research, it seems like the selling point for that platform is its privacy, which tells me that it's not private.

He's in NYC now and I liked what I saw, so I searched him here and this thread came up. I might DM you for details, if you don;t mind. It's a shame, he's stunning.

First I learned about this event. I'm confused, is this in Philly or in Cherry Hill, NJ? Do you have the exact address of where these events happen? Is it really in Philly or in Cherry Hill, NJ?

I don't really put much thought into that, I just make sure that it remains attached.

I can only attest to getting one of the best BJs I've ever gotten, back when I was young, from an older man who removed his denture before blowing me. I was surprised, but not freaked out, nor did that make me stop from having sex with him. It was awesome. I'm not a provider, but from that experience, knowing what people can do without dentures, I'd had no problems at all. I have dental implants, so they don't obstruct my oral space when I blow. I think that some providers are not exactly "customer oriented", so I can only recommend to be upfront and ask. If they have a problem with it, I'd move on.

I think that RM prefers to leave the profile because it's easier to reactivate a profile than starting another one from scratch. PNP is a red light for me too.

There are many different levels and definitions for happiness. In a massage setting, a masseur can decide how far he goes. There's no rule or specific standard for that.

Sorry that happened. Not sure why that's weird. Honestly, this is the year 2026. The 90s are long gone. Condoms are an option for people to wear if they choose, and many choose not to use them. The 90s mentality about it should stay in the 90s. I also remember that in the 90s there was a lot of negotiating safer sex and conversations about condoms before having any. A conversation about it like we used to back then would have avoided the weird interaction. Seems like that part of the 90s didn't make it to 2026. A 20-something Bel Ami - looking guy was not alive in the 90s, so it's not realistic for him to magically get where you come from about condom use. That should have been a discussion. RM even has a section where providers state their preferences around condom use and safer sex practices.

There can be good reasons for the delay or cancellation. Personally, I don't like at all when there are messages about delays. On the very first one, I cancel or reschedule. I have zero tolerance for that, legitimate reason or not. I am not rude or angry, but I cancel or reschedule. I normally lie, making an excuse to reschedule, stating that it seems that he can use the rescheduling himself.

Asking if they know or recommend another provider, maybe. Expecting them to do all the logistics for a threesome, that's crazy and lazy, IMO. I don't see myself letting another person choose and arrange things for me, leave alone pay.

Where? I've found that bath houses are different in different countries. In USA they are these dirty, shameful places and people treat each other accordingly. Also in USA they collect your information (short of getting a DNA sample from you). Those ones that are kept clean have mass-produced posers with attitude. In other countries there are some that have excellent facilities, including restaurants and shows. In some places safer sex practices seem more customary than in others. Location is important to know, IMO.

LOL!

No, first, I earned my penis breath, so I am proud of it. Second, WTH do you do that your penis breath is noticeable in an entire restaurant? Third, I can get that myself, why does it have to be the provider?