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Is Reddit an Escape from Social Media Madness?
soloyo215 replied to mike carey's topic in The Lounge
I know of Reddit and have followed some in the past, but I'm not fond of social media in general. The read is interesting, maybe I'll take a closer look. Thanks for sharing this. -
Arranging a group with a provider
soloyo215 replied to GlendaleSmooth's topic in Questions About Hiring
Without mentioning names, I remember a threat here where one of the providers disclosed being hired for that type of setting. I'm sure it's possible. I personally gave up anything that involves more than two people (including me), but I've enjoyed groups configurations in the past. -
So few reviews about trans men (or FTM) providers…?
soloyo215 replied to Erbenle's topic in Questions About Hiring
In my experience, although I've known of FTM (trans men), they have been a very tiny minority in comparison with the availability of gay men. That might be a reason why there aren't that many discussions about them. I do know of them since the 90s, so they have been around and available for some time. However, it was in time after being widely known that it seems like the largest demographic for FTM providers are gay men. That might be another reason for them having more visibility recently, and almost anonymity in the past. I know of many men who have curiosity for them, but I have no idea of how many actually satisfy their curiosity. I personally have no interest in FTM providers, but they are out there, available just like other providers. In my experience and opinion, they are just not that many. It'll be great if an individual who is a trans man could join and give their perspective. -
Premium escorts not found on rentmen
soloyo215 replied to tomcat17's topic in Questions About Hiring
Yes, I have. -
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Chaplain in NYC arrested for soliciting an escort
soloyo215 replied to ShortCutie7's topic in The Lounge
Not a concern at all. This is just another sensationalistic headline with enough information to cause reactions. -
In my experience that's just BS, and exactly what you imply it's for; it's supposed to be enticing, and supposed to excite you ant to please you. I don't care either way. Sometimes I've responded with some kind of smart remark, and sometimes I just let them know what does excite me. I don't talk about my genitals. I care more about cleanness, the attitude attached to the hole, and if the person is attractive to me. So far I've been perfectly fine with what has been presented to me.
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It's not an easy thing to care only within the confines of the scope of the type of relationships that we have with providers. It is high risk work and we cannot interfere with how they do it. I don't take them for granted, and I respect boundaries, but I don't think it's my place to get into their personal lives. That said, if they reach out to me for help (real help, not that they want money) I'd be decent and help. I've helped strangers, some of them thankless, out of being a decent human being, and I've helped fuck buddies I've had, so why not helping a provider that I know (and had good times with).
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Fyre Festival 2.0, like a bad provider returning
soloyo215 replied to + glutes's topic in The Lounge
For real? Do people want another financial and emotional spanking? Crazy. Interesting I was just having a conversation with my husband about (I guess) the first Fyre Festival. I saw a re-run of the story on it in CNBC, the "American Greed" show. I was telling him that the essence of the idea is not bad, had it been carried out properly instead of it being the scam and fiasco that it was. Billy McFarland is as unbelievable as the idiots who choose to follow him. -
I think, and this is just my opinion, that the question is a little too general. It is as complex as human sexuality is. I'm not sure all bottoms like being treated the same way, excited the same way or by the same person. One can be skillful, attractive and hot, but have no chemistry or not be liked by a given person. I guess that the one thing that makes a good top is to find the think that a given bottom likes the way he likes it, given that such bottom is actually attracted to such top.
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Sad news. RI.P. Thank you for the good times you gave to many of us.
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Why does it have to be so complicated?
soloyo215 replied to + Pensant's topic in Questions About Hiring
My guess is that it's a "higher-risk situation" fee. You might not have any ill-intentions with the provider, but that's not necessarily the case with others. They are in a foreign land probably with little knowledge of their rights or how to protect themselves. Just a guess. -
No Chat Option, No Contact Number. How to Contact??
soloyo215 replied to Jayse's topic in Questions About Hiring
I've tried good old-reliable Google, and find other profiles with the same name in other platforms. I hope it works for you. -
I once saw a profile with pictures of the guy from the 80s.
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It's a shady strategy to have everything ready and at the last minute give you an insane quote. Insist, or change providers.
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Clients who almost exclusively seek straight providers.
soloyo215 replied to studchaser's topic in Questions About Hiring
I'm most certainly not in that category, but have known (way too) many gay men who prefer "straight" men. What I notice is (a) a forbidden fruit type of curiosity/desire, (b) low self-image, thinking that straight means better, (c) the ultimate masculine fantasy, they love masculinity. I personally prefer gay men for one simple reason: why on Earth am I going to pursue a person who, by the very definition of who/what they are, doesn't like me? -
I have, and I still do. However, I don't take care of my body to get the admiration of others. It's good and nice to be liked and accepted, but I don't depend on that or use it as motivation. I take care of myself to the best of my ability, considering my lifestyle, preferences, age and health status. Other than the people who matter to me, I can't care less what they have to say. Gyms are there for whoever pay for them to use them, not to please the view of others. Those are the ones who are out of place, not you.
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That guy sound quite pathetic. I've seen many people behaving like that in other ways. Just another petty loser. Really, how empty your life has to be to incur in that to feel something? He should be exposed, his name and info should be made available to other prospective targets of his petty nonsense. I do like the idea of having the client pay for the transportation to the place. Not only it will cost him, but his information will be documented. Sorry you had to deal with that bullshit.
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Less likely, but not impossible. Just today I spent some time with my CU's fraud department because I saw a transaction in a place I've never been to. They blocked my card and tomorrow I have to go get a new one. Electronic scams are getting more sophisticated. Yes, the trick is that they sound official, but they ask you for your personal data to "verify". I got a call like that and my response was, "you are the one calling, why don't you tell me? Normally the verification is for when I call, not for when the bank calls". She got belligerent and I just said "fuck you" and hung up.
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Provided has room mates when hosting
soloyo215 replied to whatdoidowiththisagain's topic in Questions About Hiring
You're not in the wrong there, in my experience and opinion. I had a terrible experience with a provider and his roommates (two) walking around. It was a terrible experience. I can't tell if you might have experienced the same, but is up to us to decide what makes us comfortable. If the possibility of another person in the place bothers you, then it's a deal breaker to you. Based on that experience, roommates and visitors are a deal breaker for me. You decide what your level of comfort is. -
How come providers don't answer calls?
soloyo215 replied to afterfallhours1's topic in Questions About Hiring
Probably busy or maybe they might prefer text. Please keep in mind that they do have to weed out people who might probably look/feel problematic to them or time wasters. Have you tried texting? Do their profile specify preferred method of communication? They might also not be available when you call. Best wishes. -
First, you have great taste; he looks really good. Second, I think you're right. He looks smooth or shaved. Maybe he does have some hair but shaves it sometimes. I echo others who say to ask (if it's a deal breaker to you).
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If you are not into specific races/ethnicities, and if you're not one of those who only want English-speaking providers, and if you prefer quality and safety over a nice piece of meat, you have plenty of choices (in my experience): Thailand Dominican Republic Mexico Brazil (I was surprised about their prices, though I went there a while back) Cuba Costa Rica Puerto Rico (I was surprised about this place too) In terms of ease of connecting, (in my experience) the guys in the Dominican Republic were a little pushy, but manageable.
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Have I Wanted Masseurs Instead of Escorts?
soloyo215 replied to Seymour Butts's topic in Questions About Hiring
In my experience that type of "hybrid" service is not that unusual. There's nothing wrong with a provider to like you and want to enjoy some of the fun. However, I'm not sure if looking for that type of experience from masseurs who don't normally provide extras after the massage will be a good thing. I'd suggest to look for providers who offer erotic massages, which give the higher chance of getting good sex. BUT THAT IS UP TO THE MASSEUR. That's the tricky part. You can also hire an escort and get that as a fantasy/role play. In my experience, that type of things do happen (I experienced something similar in Sitges, Spain in 2023), but they are out of the ordinary. I woudn't be pursuing that unless I specifically ask beforehand. Just my opinion, not law. -
Regular providers reach clients out often?
soloyo215 replied to Dingdi's topic in Questions About Hiring
Well, the stripper with daddy issues and an award-winning ass, who took all my fun money last December in Puerto Vallarta reaches out to me all the time, probably for more money. Does that count as socializing?
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