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Never saw that before, but it's quite laughable. Being the king of smart remarks that I am, I'd reply with something that will make them cringe. I don't know if it's experience in life, in technology, or experience in telling stupid stories, but I can spot that as a scam from miles away. @SHUBEAR: My inclination to reply is to make that person feel like the shit that they are from trying to scam people, while having fun at their expense, just for the cheap thrill.

Not all providers have an attitude of looking down on clients. In fact, the moment I perceive that, I'm done with the provider, sometimes I don't even get to hire him. That's a deal breaker to me. I am no ATM to anyone, and my attitude is one that the hiring and service is a mutually beneficial situation: he needs money, I have money, I need a service, they can provide a service. I am respectful, but that's not an invitation to be degraded for being a client. I've never been so enchanted by a provider that I am willing to lower my personal standards of living and conducting myself. To my surprise, I have gotten that attitude from providers that I have not expected that from. The opposite is also true. Some guys that look to me as being there just to be worshiped have turned out to be quite friendly and personable. Also in my experience, since I screen for attitude, there is no "exception" per se, but guys that I weed out of my pool for having misjudged them. I have the feeling that some might in fact look down on me for being a client, but they don't show it. They keep that to themselves (I guess they don't want to bite the hand that feeds them).

I used to hate them, now, it has to be something really outrageous and tasteless for the tattoo to be a reason not to hire. I also got one myself. I can go either way, Tat or no tat. It's not the tattoo what I'll be drilling.

Not all the time, and I don't tell that I'm seeing a provider. It's always good to have a person know your whereabouts in case of any type of emergency. I don't do it perfectly but I do my best to ensure that I'm not in a situation where I can disappear without anyone knowing.

It hasn't happened to me. Once the opposite happened. I decided not to do anything with the provider and still paid him (long story). If it was agreed that they are going to bottom, it's not ok to expect full pay if they don't. "I'm too tight to bottom" has to be the lamest excuse to get away from bottoming. I admit I have used it in the past. I know that now we have websites for bookings, legal ways of still doing what we want with escorts, and many protections by being able to trace people's information, but at the end of the day, scamming remains a part of this line of business, so there will be people trying to get as much and give as little as they can get away with. I believe it's a way of scamming clients.

Because the camera cannot capture what happens if it stays in. They are doing it and recording for others to see, not for them to have fun.

Fire him. You're right.

They certainly are terrible tragedies. I know that many people use the God thing to explain it or to find some kind of rationale for it, but I'm sure that doesn't ease the apin of the victim's loved ones. I saw the news of the hokey player and his brother in the news. RIP to all.

What is legal thing (or policy) to say in RM? That's what they have to post there. Or they leave it vague on purpose so the client can inquire and get specifics.

Don't be harsh on yourself. It can mean all of the above or none of the above. There really isn't a specific definition to it. My best guess is that he might be telling you that he's willing to let you get your way with him. It can also mean that he wants to continue whatever type of arrangement or relationship you have where he will not be a burden to you, It's not that deep. I've been told that and finidng out what that means in a more hands-on way has been part of the fun.

Not exactly. One of my providers is not a clock watcher, and I have been with him way after the agreed time. There was this one time when he seem to have forgotten about a client after me, and though I didn't see him, seems like there was a little overlap. I don't feel awkward if a person sees me leaving or arriving to/from a provider. I know that that's just me. I prefer to maintain privacy and confidentiality, but if people know, I don't care too much about it, I'm not ahsamed. People who talk and gossip and judge are the ones who should be ashamed of stepping into others' private business. As for "gross", why? Some people in my generation went to hospitals where we had thermometers who were in somebody's butt put in our mouths. They have been sterilized prior to it, but yes, some of us got thermometers in our mouths that had been in another person's anal cavity. Is it gross to think of that? Of course. Is it harmful? No. It's one of those things that we prefer not to know or think about. In my case, I am ok with it. I know exactlky what (and who) I am getting into when I agree to see a provider. Besides, it's not that I am a virgin when I go to see him.

Morboso means more and differnt things than what you state, of course. It also means thrill seeker, and like in English, it's also a medical term. Additionally, it's used in a sexual content, as meaning uninhibited, which not necessarily means kinky. It could also mean attraction or willingness to delve into the forbidden, whatever that means. Of course it can mean kinky, but not necessarily, It's a mistake to think that equivalent words in one language are used exactly the same way that they are used in English, or in any other language for that matter. It's a common mistake that sometimes English speakers make and look ridiculous using certain words in other languages, thinking that they can use it as they use them in their native tongue. The way I see it, Spanish speakers use "morbo" as widely as English speakers use their own common terms ("personable", "friendly" "wild in the sheets", etc.) Just a filling expression (IMO). As much as some of us might love to get kinky with some of them, I'm not sure that's what they all mean. Interesting observation.

I find the topic interesting, and although I don't know that person, I find it a good reading. To me it's just news. If somebody doesn't care for it, I don't see the point of having so much discussion about it. It's like having a dysfunctional boyfriend constantly calling to tell me that he's not talking to me. I like the topic, I like hearing news that I deem interesting, relevant or important. If I give a "who cares" statement (as I have in other threads), that's normally the extend of it. Keeping it in the topic, I think it's good that the public ingeneral is informed about same sex attraction in professional sports, especially among men athletes. We see many news of hetero males involved in similar accusations, but not as commonly in same-sex relations. Down the line (I think) there might be more to this story.

More likely than not you don't know. That's kind of the point of blocking you, letting you go and you figure it out. It can become a sensitive topic. Some people do not handle rejection too well, and in some instances it can escalate into violence and stalking. A psycho who gets a message of being blocked might react violently and might cause harm to the person who blocked.

There's a "block number" option in your phone list of contacts or in your call history, There's no message telling you that you have been blocked.

Took some time. Still, this lawsuit is going to follow him for some time. Thanks for the follow up.

Regardless, if he blocked you, leave him alone. As of 2024, there are 4,103,612,213 males in the world. You can skip that one.

What an interesting read this thread has become. I love this conversation. I don't see a lot of consensus, but I personally have learned a few things. My own position about BB/condom use is similar to some of those who have posted here. I personally don't judge other clients who prefer a higher level of protection. That said, I don't think is realistic to expect no (or minimal) risk while hiring people who are in a high-risk area of work. To me is more a matter of "comfort" (what you believe your appropriate level of risk is). I also agree with the recommendation that if you are comfortable using condoms, bring some yourself, It's better to have extra than not having any.

This is what I know: 1. Most places, including adult movie theatres, peep shows and bars in NJ that I've been to, especially those who have women of any kind, either as employees or features live or in porn, are heavily guarded and monitored for activities that go against their policies. 2. A lot, and I mean a lot of gay men exaggerate and overinflate what goes on (if anything) in places, probably in an attempt at attracting people to go there. I've been reading exaggerated charcaterizations of places since the 90s. It baffles me why some gay men do that, but some just do. 3. Every single time I've heard of any spa-type of place with some kind of sexual harassment, misconduct or assault acussations, rumors or actual proven cases, it's always been places where hetero people and/or women go or are employed. That has been the case in USA and in countries other than USA. Of course, this is only my experience (and in no way am I implying that sexual misconduct and unwanted sexual advances don't occur among gay men). 4. Many places that cater men only, but that want to offer a relaxing, non-sexual experience have facilities monitored, exposed and as public as possible. Most of the times it's to prevent some idiot who can't be discrete ruining it for everybody, or because some idiot who can't be discrete has already runied it for everybody,

The website doesn't look too organized or informative. Looks like it's not being managed properly. Never used it because it doesn't look right for me.

I missed all of the previous threads and comments. I'm glad I did if they were body shaming you, You certainly have nothing to be ashamed of. You are stunning. Welcome and best wishes.

Thanks for sharing. Not my type at all, and maybe that's why I feel similar to the way you do. I'm not looking for that type, and it seems like every other profile is a person of that type. Maybe is some kind of confirmation bias in our searches. Best.

Now you know what he was seeking. Never a pleasant situation, but better that it ends sooner than later.

Short answer: it's always a risk, personally my policy is no cash upfront. Best wishes.