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This is not a critique of you asking, please don't take it negatively. Why do dancers dance? Why do carpenters do carpentry? I am actually more baffled about why people wait tables and work in any kind of customer service in other settings, sometimes for minimum wage. I am more baffled by people who work for decades in jobs and professions that they hate, surrounded by people that they hate even more, and they do it day after day until they retire or die, sometimes having nothing to show for afterwards. I'm even more curious about law enforcement people who volunteer to risk their lives for a living, or people who work in case management doing all kinds of thankless jobs trying to help people who are lost causes.

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I have not contacted or hired him, but based on what he has in his profile (in Spanish, which is why I am replying, translating some), I wouldn't expect much of a massage. "Sexual fantasies, threesomes and multiple partners", "can satisfy your fetishes", "full of cum without taboos". Looks like a great escort, but doesn't say much about massages.

I'm currently on vacation in Dublin, Ireland, having a great time with my husband and friends. Decided to treat myself with an erotic massage. rentmasseur.com doesn't list a lot of options, and on top of that the few ones are not masseurs who are native Irish men. I decided to go with the one one only option that the website had, which was this gentleman named GingerIrish. Decided to take a risk because, why not, and in spite of only having one BW picture of his chest. The experience was awesome! That's definitely a perfect balance between erotic and massage, which was great on both respects. His body looks better than in the picture (no idea why he being so good looking only has such an unfavorable picture, and only one, in his profile). He was not a clock watcher, he was very personable, hot as hell. The space that he has is spotless and perfect for the massage, he didn't try to up-sell anything and offered exactly what I was expecting. No about to go celebrate at the Pantibar.

I remember in the 90s and early 2000s there were a few groups of bisexual people who wanted to organize for something. I'm basing this on second-hand information, as I am not bisexual but have bisexual friends who tried to join some of those groups. They were not very happy. I was told that the groups were very clickish, some were swingers-type of groups, and some were discrimiatory on the bases of race and ethnicity. Again, that's what I was told. As far as I know, I haven't heard of any groups, especially now when people have social media, and also with the mess of made-up sexual orientations that they have today.

Miss Universe now accepted a 36 year old with three children to represent Puerto Rico, so it might be an inclusion thing. Skinny, non-bodybuilder pride or something.

Mine too.

First, reassurance, a big hug and no, I wouldn't waste time assigning blame to you I any of it, even if you said or did things that might have given him reasons to. Under any circumstances things like that should happen or escalate to that point. Minimizing judgement,seems like you were honest, direct and candid about running out of funds and about what you wanted to happen next, which I personally appreciate in people. That said, the first thing that came to mind when I first read the part that I quotes was "welcome to dealing with gay men and their BS". I wish I could say that this is the first time that I've heard of men having a complete 180 over some type of relationship, not just a provider/client type. I've heard of and experienced myself similar stories of people going from 0 to 100 in a second over (sometimes) nothing. Of course, as you can see by the other guy, not all and not always things take that turn, but at least in my experience I have seen it happening way too many times. Then there is the business aspect of it that cannot be neglected or pretend it didn't exist. What others have pointed out is true. You are paying for a fantasy, mostly sexual. That connection with men that you (and most-to-all of us) need might net be achieved with a person that you have to pay to give you company. You shouldn't expect a level of intimacy that you might need from provider, or even friendship for that matter. What others are pointing out is true, that might be your contribution to the unsavory situation. I'm sorry that this unsavory situation happened. Don't allow it to escalate. I'd just stop communication. Sometimes there's nothing that you can do or say that will make things better. It's ok to be angry, but don't act it up in unhealthy ways. Best.

Ilk! Oh well. The MrBnB that the owns in PV seems to be used for short-term rentals. My apartment in PV was clean, can't attest to the rest of the building.

I wish I hooked up with the host. No, I just used it to rent a studio apartment in PVR. It's owned by Lucas from Lucas Entertainment. In fact, it's called "Casa Lucas". I think MisterBnB is a gay-friendly version of AirBnB, though I'd not be surprised if it's used for spaces that are more than welcoming to gay men.

Some woman selling candy asked me if I want to buy some. I told her that I don't eat too many sweets. She then said "Well, maybe you'd like to buy some for your grandchildren?" Also, three weeks ago, while preparing my home for remodeling, I found these:

I found this: Massage Therapy and The Alexander Technique WWW.ALEXANDERTECHNIQUE.COM Massage therapy and the Alexander Technique And this: Alexander Technique - Physiopedia WWW.PHYSIO-PEDIA.COM Unlike, most of the exercise technique the Alexander technique is not a form of physiotherapy exercise. It involves postural and proprioceptive re-education and... Personally I'm not sure if I'm sold on it. I like the "technician", though.

He's 6'-9" tall. That's tall! I have no information on him, but I wonder if anyone has found him in RM.

I agree. But some are calls from people, some are posts that are monitored by people too. In my experience, however, I have not gotten bombarded with calls or messages after a reply, and sometimes my reply is just "go away, spambot". In fact, in social media, they just disappear. Once there was a person offering me loans, and I said that I don't need them because I am a multimillionaire. The religious ones got a number of funny images of Jesus getting gangbanged by the apostles, and by the Romans. The offers of dating, sex or hooking up, some of them way off, by supposedly women ( 🤮 ) , depending on my mood, I start asking them if they are willing to do borderline serial killer stuff (don't want to be too explicit since recently there was a post about personal safety). The ones that come up with an alleged charge to my account and they need to "verify" by asking me my account number, I say something like 69-69-69, or whatever comes to mind. Since I speak several languages, one of them Ojibwe, I have fun by pretending not to understand their English. My inspiration to have fun at their expense or reply something (of course, not to all, in some cases I ignore and delete) is a combination of my mood at the time, my availability to take time to respond, and what they are asking/selling. The moment that they try to pull some scam on me, I have no mercy, no consideration and no respect for any of them. That's the bottom line.

Of course, most definitely.

I have. It doesn't make sense to do that, but some do. However, in my experience, that attitude seems to be more pervasive in some countries more than others, and in street hustlers more than in people who spend money advertising and have profiles online.

Never saw that before, but it's quite laughable. Being the king of smart remarks that I am, I'd reply with something that will make them cringe. I don't know if it's experience in life, in technology, or experience in telling stupid stories, but I can spot that as a scam from miles away. @SHUBEAR: My inclination to reply is to make that person feel like the shit that they are from trying to scam people, while having fun at their expense, just for the cheap thrill.

Not all providers have an attitude of looking down on clients. In fact, the moment I perceive that, I'm done with the provider, sometimes I don't even get to hire him. That's a deal breaker to me. I am no ATM to anyone, and my attitude is one that the hiring and service is a mutually beneficial situation: he needs money, I have money, I need a service, they can provide a service. I am respectful, but that's not an invitation to be degraded for being a client. I've never been so enchanted by a provider that I am willing to lower my personal standards of living and conducting myself. To my surprise, I have gotten that attitude from providers that I have not expected that from. The opposite is also true. Some guys that look to me as being there just to be worshiped have turned out to be quite friendly and personable. Also in my experience, since I screen for attitude, there is no "exception" per se, but guys that I weed out of my pool for having misjudged them. I have the feeling that some might in fact look down on me for being a client, but they don't show it. They keep that to themselves (I guess they don't want to bite the hand that feeds them).

I used to hate them, now, it has to be something really outrageous and tasteless for the tattoo to be a reason not to hire. I also got one myself. I can go either way, Tat or no tat. It's not the tattoo what I'll be drilling.

Not all the time, and I don't tell that I'm seeing a provider. It's always good to have a person know your whereabouts in case of any type of emergency. I don't do it perfectly but I do my best to ensure that I'm not in a situation where I can disappear without anyone knowing.

It hasn't happened to me. Once the opposite happened. I decided not to do anything with the provider and still paid him (long story). If it was agreed that they are going to bottom, it's not ok to expect full pay if they don't. "I'm too tight to bottom" has to be the lamest excuse to get away from bottoming. I admit I have used it in the past. I know that now we have websites for bookings, legal ways of still doing what we want with escorts, and many protections by being able to trace people's information, but at the end of the day, scamming remains a part of this line of business, so there will be people trying to get as much and give as little as they can get away with. I believe it's a way of scamming clients.

Because the camera cannot capture what happens if it stays in. They are doing it and recording for others to see, not for them to have fun.

Fire him. You're right.

They certainly are terrible tragedies. I know that many people use the God thing to explain it or to find some kind of rationale for it, but I'm sure that doesn't ease the apin of the victim's loved ones. I saw the news of the hokey player and his brother in the news. RIP to all.