Kevin Slate

The bad review was written between the time I booked the appointment and the day of the appointment. So when the providers weren’t willing to come to the hotel I decided not to see them and won’t be trying again. I was just using them as a recent example — providers concerned about me not showing up even though they hadn’t showed up for me a month prior. My question is about what options there are to encourage a new provider to come for an outcall other then Uber and Venmo.

A number of massage providers have requested an Uber be sent or a deposit for the first meeting when it is an outcall. I readily pay additional money to reimburse for travel expenses or time, but for privacy I don’t want to send an Uber or Venmo a deposit. One provider was fine with calling my hotel and asking for my room number to confirm I was there. Sometimes I will switch to an incall for the first visit. But I recently scheduled an outcall 4 hand massage. I had confirmed a visit a month prior but they didn’t show up and several hours after when the visit was confirmed said there was a death in the family — I shared my condolences and said I would try again the next month. I confirmed a visit when back in town and at the last minute he said he needed an Uber or Venmo deposit if an outcall, even though I had been waiting for him at my hotel a month earlier when he hadn’t shown up and he hadn’t mentioned it then. A recent review mentioned him being aggressive when the client left the provider’s apartment and needed to call the authorities — so an incall wasn’t an option. Any suggestions for other options in the future for other providers (I am not going to try to meet with the same provider)?

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He also has an ad on Rentmasseur: Pietrobiancco that’s about two weeks old. Has anyone met him yet? Thanks. Feel free to DM

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I appreciate everyone’s feedback. I’m not sure there is a great solution — hopefully most providers (and clients) can be more straightforward and considerate of each other. I don’t plan to reach out to this provider again. But I also don’t want to share his name since my goal wasn’t to give a negative review. He has many reviews on RM and they are all quite positive. He has been talked about on this forum and although most was quite positive, there were a few more recently where the client commented he was inconsiderate (rushed them, overscheduled, etc.). This didn’t fit at all with my personal experience until recently, so I ignored them. But I realize now he is probably great to be with some of the time but allows business concerns to compromise the service he provides other times. Again, thanks for sharing your experience and recommendations —it’s much appreciated.

I agree with the comments that both client and provider need some flexibility. I have always rescheduled whenever the provider asks — not just because they need to, but because they want to. One provider asked in the morning if I had the flexibility to reschedule because he met out of town relatives at a wedding the night prior and they wanted to spend more time with him. I told him I couldn’t reschedule because it was my last day in town, but said we should cancel and that he should take the opportunity to spend time with his relatives and I let him know when I was back in town. In this particular case, the provider didn’t ask about whether we should reschedule, said it wasn’t convenient for him to change the time when I suggested it, and didn’t offer another day (the day we were meeting was the first of four days I offered to meet while in town). He didn’t even apologize and saw it as what I should expect for only scheduling for an hour. That’s why I asked the question. I am finding that about 30-50% of my appointments lately get canceled by the provider within 24 hours of being confirmed. I don’t know if any of the providers can comment on what they see happening with other providers (I am not asking them if they have personally ever canceled for a better session) and if there is anything a client can do to decrease this.

I made arrangements for a one hour appointment with a provider I had seen a couple times prior. We made the appointment two days beforehand when he contacted me to say he was available and I planned my travel accordingly. He canceled the afternoon of the appointment after I texted to say I had arrived in town and had checked into the hotel. He told me someone else offered an overnight. When I mentioned I had changed my flight so I was sure I could meet at the time we planned he said that it’s a risk a client takes when planning for one hour and that he would always prioritize an overnight no matter what. I have suspected that some providers canceled on the day of because they got a better (I.e., longer) offer, but I’ve rarely had someone be that direct about it. How common do people think this happens and is there any way to try to prevent it?

Bump — he’s going to be in NYC. Has anyone met with him? Feel free to PM

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Has anyone met Pietrobiancoo yet? He’s currently in London. Feel to DM or PM. Thanks

I couldn’t find any mention on the forum; the reviews on RM are all very positive. Has any met Pietrobianco yet? Feel free to DM or PM. Thanks.