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I had one way back when, given to me by my then boyfriend. He liked jewelry of all kinds. I slept with it on and started having dreams of getting strangled. I have no clue how I lost it. I've never been able to get used to them or any kind of jewelry for that matter. Personally, they don't add anything to the sexiness. Not my thing, don't even notice them. I do know some who love, love, love them.

I know the last post was last month, but I wanted to post my experience. I went to a campground in PA a while back (about 2012), maybe the same that jake1973 mentioned. It had trailers that people leave there and seem to visit during the summer. When I went I did not like the experience at all. First, the people there seem to know each other and not interested in talking to anyone outside of their clicks. Second, the facilities looked neglected. Then there was this weird mix of people's level of nudity, from people dressed up to casual attire, to part attire, to fully nude. There were also women all over the place. It was just strange and felt unwelcoming.

Maybe something is missing due to the language barrier, but I find that request quite odd. I cannot fathom any provider asking me that kind of question, and I've had experiences with women. It's an odd request. If anyone ask me, like others said, I'd thank him for trusting me enough to inquire, but I'm not sure I am the right person to ask. If he's good enough for me to keep him in my radar, maybe I'd say that I'd like to know how his search is doing. I don't think I'd get involved in anything, especially since I always consider worst-case scenarios (what if I introduce him to a girl and things goes wrong?).

He has tats? I didn't notice, guess I was looking at something else.

Exactly my point. I guess I'll have to include questions about free versus paid-for music service when interviewing a provider.

So it has happened more than once. I am in "the zone" in the middle of my massage, relaxed, maybe drifting a little, in my happy place. Suddenly the Zen music stops and some loud car insurance commercial starts playing. Once, the interruption was a public service announcement about human trafficking, not exactly what I want to hear when a young Chinese guy is massaging me. Seems like some massage providers subscribe to some music service, but don't get the commercial-free option. It does cause disruption to my relaxation. Has anyone else experienced this annoyance?

Not a single soul. I am in Sitges right now, and zippo. I'm surprised. There are some in Barcelona who can travel, if you can host. I can't recommend because I haven't tried any. There's a site that features a few that can travel to Sitges: Gay massage in Sitges to hotels and apartments: try Male Masseur WWW.MALE-MASSEUR.COM Gay massage in Sitges: whole year giving the best erotic bodywork! Use the professional out-call service and the sexiest male masseurs! PROVIDERS, PLEASE COME TO SITGES!

I've worked in IT, I was an Engineer, I read and write excellently, and I still misread the date of one provider and wanted to see him a day prior to his availability. Mistakes happen.

Thanks. I also noticed that it used to be a free app, then they started charging. Thanks for the info.

Absolutely. There will always also be complainers about unrelated things, or complainers about complainers, or abusers of review systems. It's like passengers complaining to the airline agents about the weather.

Thanks. I didn't know. I wonder how long that app has been around. Do you know?

I didn't know I was in the minority in this. I do watch fat, out-of-shape men as much as others. If I like the guy and/or what they do, I watch it. Can't care less about they looking like or unlike me. Maybe the way I approach my sexuality is not all about physical attributes. And I refuse to believe that I am alone in this.

It gets me curious too. I wonder what they could be saying about me, but at the same time, I have been a good and respectful client. It's more curiosity than worry. Maybe one of them posted my picture if they have it. I do endorse having a platform where providers can share reliable information about clients to protect themselves, especially in this line of work.

Great post, Vin_Marco. I think it depends on how each one of the parties approaches or is approached. One of my favorite providers did reach out to me because I saw his profile. The way he reached out to me was enticing, in fact, was that extra little push I needed to finally see him. I'm glad because we both seem to enjoy our respective sides of the deal. However, just like in nother settings, like in a live social situation, there are some people who don't know how to approach or don't know how to be polite when getting unwanted approaches. It really is a two-way street. I have been approached by providers in the worst way possible, aggressively, with the "today's your lucky day" attitude. As you said, there isn't a right or wrong answer, but there can be the wrong ways of approaching or responding to being approached. My policy is not to be nasty when saying no, and if the person or provider doesn't get it, I escalate the aggressiveness until they get it (some people don't get the "no" right away or at all).

Thanks. Will try it.

Yes, I definitely remember seeing him, but I couldn't find it now. I did see him in that website at some point.

I definitely agree that it should be talked about, that is, if that is important in the overall experience (or it is in fact, the overall experience). However, I disagree about it being a generational thing. I'm from the older generation and have no problem with PDAs, never had, and so are many people in my generation. I have a collection of pictures of me kissing a man in front of the christian protesters at gay pride events, and at their Planned Parenthood protests. However, the caution I do have is when I am in an environment that can be or become threatening, physically or psychologically, when it's more than just the social aspect that needs to be considered. And of course, it goes without saying that there are circumstances in which PDAs might not be appropriate for anyone.

I didn't find him now, but I swear I saw a profile of him in rentmen a while back. Maybe he changed his services.

6'-11" and 135 lbs?

Good to know. I've been there several times and it was only one time when I witnessed a person bringing an outside visitor. I can't tell if that person was a local or another visitor, but it's great to know that there are rules. Never done it myself. Thanks.

I don't know the specific policies of the hotels, but I have seen people bringing men to Casa Cupula, Blue Chairs and the Mercurio. Recently, PV has opened gazzillions of massage places, the Turkish massage place and one named Aqua Spa seem to concentrate in therapeutic massages (with an excellent massage, great facilities and showers), but there are now many other options for erotic massages all over town. In that respect, it has become similar to Bangkok. Prostitution in Mexico is legal under federal law, though the state of Jalisco might have certain regulations in place. That means that you can schedule a massage and safely negotiate something extra.

I agree that you didn't do anything wrong. I also agree about discretion being the main rule, and to judge every situation with discretion. I, however, had a provider that apparently wanted to befriend me. He started calling me out of nowhere just to say hello, and started sending me pictures of him in places having fun. It didn't strike me as harassment or blackmail, just odd. In fact, for some reason I found it rather off-putting than threatening. I saw him one more time after, but after that session neither of us heard again from each other. Not sure what was that all about. Just odd.

Found this in Sitges (therapeutic only): English WWW.MASSAGEBYPAULSITGES.COM

Definitely. He does list massage in his profile, though. I hindsight, I think his "I don't have a massage table" might have been some sort of open question for me to inquire about his other services. Point is he offered a service that he's not giving, he was misleading and he wasted my time. To me he handled me poorly, and I wouldn't try again nor recommend to others. Plenty more who are more pleasant to work with.

What do you mean? He didn't use all the time?