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I actually stay away or stop the moment I start receiving mixed messages. I believe that part of what I am paying for is clarity (within reason) about what I can expect. For that kind of games there are the other apps. Also, since there's no standard for what "erotic" and "sensual" entail, clarity of expectations become more important. I don't think that sending pictures of "appendage and orifice" is a good marketing strategy for providers (just my thoughts).

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Yes, it is. I speak several languages, Spanish being one of them.

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Vin_Marco, I don't know you, and only very recently I have known of you. Nevertheless, I find your words and overall attitude are very pleasant and well accepted. Thank you for that. I do appreciate a sense of solidarity and camaraderie, so I appreciate your words.

This is what I tend to give more importance to. I avoid situations that will get me blamed if things don't wok out. Of course, I'm glad that you did what works for you. Please do tell how it turns out.

😂 If he can't afford music streaming without ads, maybe CDs can help. They are cheaper and available. Just sayin'.

First, as a client, I echo those who expect a degree of reality and presence. I react negatively to disconnected, checked-out and/or fully detached provider, or the ones with the attitude of getting you off as soon as they can. I expect mutual respect for each other's end of the deal, and I'm also understanding when there isn't chemistry, though the call to end the session should be mine. About reciprocity, attitude and connection counts. One can reciprocate mechanically and/or with attitude. In terms of actions, that can/should be discussed (at least it saves me headaches to have a clue of what to expect in return).

I had one way back when, given to me by my then boyfriend. He liked jewelry of all kinds. I slept with it on and started having dreams of getting strangled. I have no clue how I lost it. I've never been able to get used to them or any kind of jewelry for that matter. Personally, they don't add anything to the sexiness. Not my thing, don't even notice them. I do know some who love, love, love them.

I know the last post was last month, but I wanted to post my experience. I went to a campground in PA a while back (about 2012), maybe the same that jake1973 mentioned. It had trailers that people leave there and seem to visit during the summer. When I went I did not like the experience at all. First, the people there seem to know each other and not interested in talking to anyone outside of their clicks. Second, the facilities looked neglected. Then there was this weird mix of people's level of nudity, from people dressed up to casual attire, to part attire, to fully nude. There were also women all over the place. It was just strange and felt unwelcoming.

Maybe something is missing due to the language barrier, but I find that request quite odd. I cannot fathom any provider asking me that kind of question, and I've had experiences with women. It's an odd request. If anyone ask me, like others said, I'd thank him for trusting me enough to inquire, but I'm not sure I am the right person to ask. If he's good enough for me to keep him in my radar, maybe I'd say that I'd like to know how his search is doing. I don't think I'd get involved in anything, especially since I always consider worst-case scenarios (what if I introduce him to a girl and things goes wrong?).

He has tats? I didn't notice, guess I was looking at something else.

Exactly my point. I guess I'll have to include questions about free versus paid-for music service when interviewing a provider.

So it has happened more than once. I am in "the zone" in the middle of my massage, relaxed, maybe drifting a little, in my happy place. Suddenly the Zen music stops and some loud car insurance commercial starts playing. Once, the interruption was a public service announcement about human trafficking, not exactly what I want to hear when a young Chinese guy is massaging me. Seems like some massage providers subscribe to some music service, but don't get the commercial-free option. It does cause disruption to my relaxation. Has anyone else experienced this annoyance?

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I've worked in IT, I was an Engineer, I read and write excellently, and I still misread the date of one provider and wanted to see him a day prior to his availability. Mistakes happen.

Thanks. I also noticed that it used to be a free app, then they started charging. Thanks for the info.

Absolutely. There will always also be complainers about unrelated things, or complainers about complainers, or abusers of review systems. It's like passengers complaining to the airline agents about the weather.

Thanks. I didn't know. I wonder how long that app has been around. Do you know?

I didn't know I was in the minority in this. I do watch fat, out-of-shape men as much as others. If I like the guy and/or what they do, I watch it. Can't care less about they looking like or unlike me. Maybe the way I approach my sexuality is not all about physical attributes. And I refuse to believe that I am alone in this.

It gets me curious too. I wonder what they could be saying about me, but at the same time, I have been a good and respectful client. It's more curiosity than worry. Maybe one of them posted my picture if they have it. I do endorse having a platform where providers can share reliable information about clients to protect themselves, especially in this line of work.

Great post, Vin_Marco. I think it depends on how each one of the parties approaches or is approached. One of my favorite providers did reach out to me because I saw his profile. The way he reached out to me was enticing, in fact, was that extra little push I needed to finally see him. I'm glad because we both seem to enjoy our respective sides of the deal. However, just like in nother settings, like in a live social situation, there are some people who don't know how to approach or don't know how to be polite when getting unwanted approaches. It really is a two-way street. I have been approached by providers in the worst way possible, aggressively, with the "today's your lucky day" attitude. As you said, there isn't a right or wrong answer, but there can be the wrong ways of approaching or responding to being approached. My policy is not to be nasty when saying no, and if the person or provider doesn't get it, I escalate the aggressiveness until they get it (some people don't get the "no" right away or at all).

Thanks. Will try it.

Yes, I definitely remember seeing him, but I couldn't find it now. I did see him in that website at some point.

I definitely agree that it should be talked about, that is, if that is important in the overall experience (or it is in fact, the overall experience). However, I disagree about it being a generational thing. I'm from the older generation and have no problem with PDAs, never had, and so are many people in my generation. I have a collection of pictures of me kissing a man in front of the christian protesters at gay pride events, and at their Planned Parenthood protests. However, the caution I do have is when I am in an environment that can be or become threatening, physically or psychologically, when it's more than just the social aspect that needs to be considered. And of course, it goes without saying that there are circumstances in which PDAs might not be appropriate for anyone.