Nightowl

I used to hand cash to the provider/masseur but that started to feel weird so I started putting it on a table. Since most guys don’t leave the room when I get dressed, they see me put it there so it’s clear what it’s for. No one has ever counted it in front of me but many will text a thank you after I leave.

I’m that age too and only started four years ago. I’ll keep going until the rejections become too frequent, the funds run out, or my body no longer cooperates.

The only ones who know are myself and the men I hire.

I’ve seen a number of guys on this forum indicate that they no longer hire which makes me wonder why. If you stopped hiring or stopped massaging/escorting, can you share what led you to that decision? Update: just realized this probably belongs under “hiring.” Admins, feel free to move it.

I don’t respond to most survey requests about anything so I would ignore this one too. Most surveys are simplistic (5 stars to rate the entire experience) and the ones that aren’t are badly written. They’re a waste of time. How many times have we all been confronted with five choices ranging from “below expectations” to “exceeded expectations?” If my expectations were low, “exceeded expectations” just says “you weren’t as bad as I expected.” The message the recipient receives, however, is “hot damn! I’m winning!” because he doesn’t know what my expectations were in the first place (and didn’t ask for them). Similarly, if my expectations were stellar but the situation wasn’t as fantastic as usual, “below expectations” is a knife to the heart of the one who asked for the survey. In the case of a provider, I’m with @Mark_fl: If you give me some categories with clear baselines of performance in each category and the opportunity to respond at length, I’ll consider responding. I’d love the opportunity to say “His communication skills were exceptional, although he was very hard to understand when my dick was in his mouth”….

Love the look on the guy’s face when he’s getting his ass eaten at about the 31:42 mark.

As someone else noted, it’s the time you’re paying for. I’ve had a few occasions where we just lay there together, talking or just enjoying the warmth of each other’s bodies.

Car salesman tactic.

Sit on his lap and get a surprise!

The US is a third world country when it comes to healthcare.

on Sniffies I’d be suspicious

There’s nothing worse than being in the heat of the moment, mouths brushing , than to find your tongue blocked by closed lips, particularly from a provider who advertises kissing in his repertoire. Kissing, with mutual deep tongue involvement, is a huge turn-on for me and I always feel great disappointment when it doesn’t happen as advertised.

Hubba hubba! I like the glimpse of what’s in front too.

I wouldn’t even consider it. If a regular provider grew a beard or shaved one off, I might comment on which looked better, but I would never suggest they shave their chest, get a nose job, or consider investing in a toupee. Likewise I wouldn’t appreciate a provider who told me I should do any of those things unless we had transitioned from a business relationship to a close friend relationship.

I research providers carefully before putting myself in their hands. If I don’t have a legitimate phone number that I can research, I won’t let him into my home or meet him in a hotel. The phone number is less critical if he is hosting since he’s the one taking the risk of having me in his home.

I want to see what’s under water more clearly!

Sorry I missed you!

No one has ever asked for my full name. I only give my first name but they can easily find out my last name and a lot more since I give my real phone number. I know at least two of them tried to find me on Facebook based on their personal profiles coming up as recommended friends.

I don’t know how old you are now but it strikes me that what you’re experiencing is the kind of regret, sorrow, and even nostalgia that we feel as we get old and start to revisit our lives, the mistakes we’ve made, our embarrassments, and what we missed, neglected, or didn’t appreciate at the time. It sounds like you have tried to reach out but what you don’t say is whether you tried to resolve the issue that led to your break. You might have been able to do that early on after the event by apologizing, talking it out, whatever, but after years or decades it becomes difficult if not impossible. And, if whatever you said really was hurtful, he may still feel burned, even years later. I know that I have had a few situations where decades later, I still feel the hurt I felt when it happened. I can feel the hurt and sadness in what you’ve shared here; I hope that someday you’ll met up with your friend again and have the chance to restart some level of friendship.

After looking at all these pictures, I’m drooling. And erect.

But if the only sex life you have other than your hand is hiring, that becomes a primary need.

As a grizzled old daddy, neither interests me.

I agree with @jeezifonly. Book him less often. If he asks why you’ve been staying away, take it as an opportunity to be honest as to why. If nothing changes, stop seeing him.

Just finished it. Well crafted mystery that unfolded cleverly and somewhat painfully. Bateman’s character was a little creepy but the show held my attention. Harbour was great.

I agree with what others have said about being conscious of the difference between a masseur and an escort. In your situation I’m curious whether he let you make him cum when you were sucking him. If he did, you might be able to get him to move into a more comfortable position for you to suck him next time. If he didn’t, he may have just been offering himself for fondling/sucking because he determined that it would add to *your* pleasure. In that case, he might not be receptive to your request for a change in position. In my own experience, masseurs have given me a lot of pleasure and offered a lot of themselves but they tend to always lead the action. If it’s a masseur, I’d take my queues from him. With an escort you can ask for pretty much anything and they’ll tell you whether it’s on the menu if it isn’t explicitly stated in their RM ad.