Nightowl

I see the point of overnights. Why would I want to pay someone to sleep?

OK, I’ll play. 2025 was a pretty good hiring year for me and I owe some of it to this forum. I found a great provider here with whom I’ve had several very pleasurable sessions and hope to see again, and in DM’s with another member, I came to realize that I should give someone else I had seen in years past another chance, which I did, much to my great enjoyment. I hired about a dozen times—about average for me—and got my money’s worth every time. I even got a few extra things: a deeper connection with a masseur I’ve been seeing for over three years, and a case of crabs from someone I will never hire again! 😂

If the masseur is hitting your hot spots, you’ll probably get an erection that the masseur will notice. He may graze said erection with his hands when he turns you over and if he detects that you’re receptive—i.e. you don’t push him away—he’ll probably commence more serious stroking. Though I’ve specified that I wanted a sensual massage, I’ve never had to verbally request a happy ending.

Yep. I tip generously because I want to make sure the provider/masseur will see me again since I’m no longer the hot young hunk I once was (or thought I was).

Did you view their profiles and photos repeatedly without hiring them? If so, they might have blocked you as a lurker who was not serious about hiring them.

Sorry this happened to you. For me it happened once. Hired for a 90 minute erotic massage. The guy had no massage skills, no skill at erotic buildup, and apparently no knowledge of a man’s refractory period. Strictly rub and tug (and tug and tug and tug…). I felt cheated because I really wanted a good massage. The only good thing that happened was that he pulled his ad from Rmass shortly after, sparing anyone else from similar disappointment.

At my age I don’t need a lot of sleep 😀

I like to hire starting between 10AM and noon. The masseur or escort isn’t tired and hasn’t usually been with another client.

If that beard is real he’s a definite “no” for me.

For a massage I always opt for 90 minutes, with or without extras. 60 minutes just isn’t long enough. With an escort I usually go for 2 hours. There has only been one occasion when the agreed-upon length of 90 minutes was too long. That was with a “masseur” who didn’t know what he was doing.

I’ve read that Vince Gilligan is in no hurry to start working on season 2 so we could be in for a long wait. ☹️

I’m finally reading it. About 2/3 into it I’m finding it enjoyable though not particularly deep.

Entering the conversation a year-plus later… I’m usually so happy to wake up with a hard-on that I try to keep it going as long as I can, not to reach orgasm but to enjoy the feeling of my own hard cock in my hand as long as I can. I’ve become sentimental in my later years and enjoying the tumescence of youth is one of my few remaining pleasures.

I shared an adjoining bathroom with a good friend while in college and we were often in the bathroom together. I almost always had an erection in the shower in the morning yet he, a raging heterosexual, never did. I sometimes wonder what he thought but he has since died so I’ll never know…

I fell asleep.

Happy/Merry Christmas! May all of our wishes come true this holiday season.

Just a tad on the narcissistic side.

Call me daddy but don’t call me grandpa. I take “daddy” to be a compliment but “grandpa” to be an insult.

*Over* the sweats???

Cash only. My credit union ATM dispenses 50’s so even up to 20 of them isn’t a huge wad.

I’ve never thought a provider was undercover by the time I booked him since I do a lot of research, some of it here on CoM. I did have a masseur cancel on me, though, because he thought I was the cop. Research is your friend. If anything strikes you as off, don’t book him.

It’s not a turnoff, just an obstacle. I can only do incall and the cost of getting a local hotel room on top of whatever the provider’s fee and transportation are aren’t worth it.

I think I’ll stick with incalls. The logistics of outcalls is too complicated.

I always offer to mow his lawn for a blowjob. If he agrees to bottom for me, I’ll come back and shovel his driveway in the winter. Services for services.