Nightowl

This would probably turn me off. What’s the point of the gesture? It’s not edgy or intriguing, it’s just stupid.

The arguments with all parties talking over one another drove me crazy. I never warmed to Richie either. It’s hard to believe him as the front-facing staff in the restaurant.

I was disappointed in season 4 also. Not enough about the restaurant. I also thought they gave Tina short shrift with no story lines. There’s supposed to be a season 5. Hope it improves.

The logistics must be…complicated.

Still waiting for my first one. So far all my providers seem interested in is getting themselves off, not me.

I’m like you. The more I can find out about a prospective hire in advance, the better.

That’s why I avoid glory holes. All I can picture is a gaping maw with sharp teeth.

Part of the enjoyment of a massage for me is the warmth of human touch and responsiveness to my body’s signals by the person doing the massage, whether it’s therapeutic or something more. A robot with heated “hands” will never feel natural.

no, yes, no

Another career field that has bitten the dust.

I alternate between therapeutic and erotic. it’s usually a couple months between each type but I’m in the process of increasing the frequency. This month, I have two erotic sessions planned and that may become my new norm.

I prefer that the perks of my repeated patronage be the continuation of special touches and attention from my provider. A stated “loyalty” discount is unnecessary.

Sounds like he desperately wants body hair.

Was there a sign that said masturbation makes hair grow on your palms?…Our culture is definitely becoming more prudish. If Woodstock happened today, no one would be dancing naked in the mud.

I’d like a further breakdown of “hairy” that gives the location that is hairy. Chest? Back? Legs? Groin? Ass? Some hairy spots are very appealing while others are not.

I always carry a towel too but don’t usually secure it around my waist all that tightly. Accidents do happen… I haven’t been to NYC in years. It’s a different world from DC, where I am, when it comes to buttoned-up-ness.

Stiller and Meara were a classic comedic duo. Nichols and May were another favorite. Haven’t run into anything as good as either one of them in years. Never saw any of them naked though….

I’m an animal lover too and was just kidding 😀

Interesting that the older crowd complained. Older guys such as myself grew up at a time when gym class was mandatory in school and you took a shower in front of a hundred other guys every day. Being naked in a group was usually no big deal. I’m actually surprised that one of the 20-something guys @sniperdescribed above went naked since younger guys seem to be more modest. At the gym I attend, none of the younger guys ever undress completely and if they do, they wrap themselves in a towel before taking off their underwear.

If the dog runs away with it and gets sick, you’ve dodged a bullet.

I’ve got to give these guys credit for accepting their lot in life and making the most of their situation!

The appropriate response to the cock pic: “Is that all there is?”

Over the years I’ve stayed in many hotels that have very nice spas. I’ll usually get a good therapeutic massage and spend time in the steamroom and hot tub afterwards. My dilemma is always whether to go fully nude in the men-only wet room. My inclination is to carry a towel but let it all hang out but more often than not, some buttoned-up guy comes in with the spa-provided modesty bathing suit and shares the steamroom or hot tub. What’s the etiquette when you’re the naked guy and the clothed guy joins you? Some nicer hotels, particularly in the Southwest, have outdoor areas that are part of the men-only area. It’s particularly inviting to wander around the outdoor areas—hot tub, showers, garden—in the altogether but the buttoned-up guys invariably show up. What do others do in this situation? Secretly, I want more of the guys to be nude but that never seems to happen…

A new provider once tried to FaceTime me. It was a bridge too far.

Yes. I’ve already determined that there is a foundation of mutual trust and decency.