Nightowl

At the end of my first-ever sensual massage, I was surprised—naively—when the provider started stroking my dick. Ever-cooperative, I didn’t stop him. I would have been pissed if he had upcharged me for the service since my brain didn’t ask for it even though my dick expressed considerable interest.

Pubic lice (aka “crabs”) don’t care if you’re wearing a condom and can easily pass between sexual partners, regardless of how protected Mr. Happy may be. Getting rid of them is no picnic.

I have no problem sharing details about my experiences with providers if someone asks via DM. I’ve also gotten good information about other guys’ experiences, which helps me with my own hiring decisions. I still maintain my anonymity and they maintain theirs. I am open to unsolicited DMs and in most cases will answer them if I have information that benefits the requester.

Yep.. Those are the exact shorts I’m talking about. 3-inch, split side. I confess that I myself still wear them. They’re great to look at on a fit guy but they also give you a little charge the way they rub as you move. I’ve risen to the occasion more than once as a result of the friction against certain parts of my body.

Running shorts—the ones with the built-in liners—can be very revealing. I’ve gotten many an eyeful, watching the runner’s equipment flop around beneath the thin fabric.

BeenVerified is also a good place to check.

When it’s hot I probably wouldn’t want to hire, especially if I have to drive somewhere. I don’t want sweat and body odor to impact my session but they invariably will if I’m sitting in a car and can’t shower before the session. Sometimes I take cleansing wipes to rub critical areas down before my session if heat is a factor. Heat or cold don’t stop me from hiring but heat definitely causes me to take a few extra steps.

I’ll always remember her for thanking ingedients in her recipes, whether she used them or not. “Thank you for coming,” said to a spice or vegetable that was or wasn’t used,always struck me as a funny and unique comment in a cooking show.

Well…Let’s hear your promotion.

I’ve felt the best connections with providers with whom I’ve shared a bit of myself and vice versa. Sometimes it has been casual chat during an erotic massage before things get heated, and sometimes afterward when we’re both relaxed and spent. It enhances the experience.

I do that too.

You’re a rarity in my experience. Only once has a new masseur asked my comfort level with intimate touch or done anything to set the scene. Every other experience was clouded in mystery. Will he touch me? Should I touch him? If I touch him, will he recoil? Am I committing assault if my hand wanders? I enjoy the anticipation of the possibilities but the clarity you subtly—or directly—provide would be very welcome.

Weird—don’t know how that happened!

There have been a lot of discussions on CoM about massage extras and how to know if a masseur offers them, but I’m curious about who makes the first move. Do providers prefer that the client lay there like a bump on a log until they make an overt offer/suggest that an “extra” is available? Do clients wait patiently until they receive the all-clear signal? It’s always difficult for me with a new masseur, especially when I’m attracted to him. I want to pull him onto the table with me and get things started but never know when it would be welcomed. Who should initiate?

Earlier this year I was asked whether I was a cop, apparently because I asked for an erotic massage from someone who advertised them on RMass as one of his services. I couldn’t convince him that I wasn’t and he subsequently blocked me. His loss. That’s the only time it’s ever happened but I guess some providers are jumpier than others.

After. No one has yet asked for the money up front so I haven’t had to deal with that but I would be suspicious if they had. Depending on the provider, I either hand it to them or leave it on a table after we get dressed.

Interesting report. Can’t say I’ve been as diligent about my own statistics other than that about 40% have sucked me and I’ve sucked back, 40% have topped me, 20% have bottomed, and 10% have rimmed me or vice versa. I think I need to work a bit to achieve your level of success in some fields of activity!

Roundness is also dependent on genetics.

I did not know that. Not a fan of Wagner but I did enjoy “Vikings”…..I’m going to have to remember that little factoid for future cocktail party chat…

I understand why he might want initial contact to be via RentMen but once you’ve had an exchange or two, sharing his number makes more sense, especially if one of you is running late and needs to notify the other.

Chinese is extremely difficult. It’s nothing like the Germanic or Romance languages that most of us learn in school. I admire your desire to attempt it though.

I’m a wee bit younger and I haven’t seen it stop either. I’m hornier than ever and getting more adventurous by the day. I hope it never ends.

I never knew where the rainbow bridge was used by humans or just pets…

I prefer “shuffled off this mortal coil.”