Nightowl

@Simon Suraci and @Jamie21 both highlighted the importance of trust and safety in their provider-client relationships. To be able to build those is a rare gift that—in my few years of experience—many providers either do not have or spend no time trying to encourage. It’s no wonder these two gentlemen love what they do and are so highly regarded by their clients.

Mostly silent with an occasional “aaah” when touched in certain spots.

The downside of a prominent Adams apple is that it makes it hard to shave.

Your views are always very insightful. I appreciate the way you view your profession.

Funny, but not particularly helpful. Thanks for playing! 😀

When I first started going for massages using RMass and MF, I didn’t know what to expect or how to behave. At my very first booking, I thought there would be some discussion of what I needed or was expecting but there wasn’t; all I got was an instruction to undress and lay on the table. No draping and the masseur watched as I stripped. I knew then that it was going to be different but I had no idea how I was supposed to behave. Was I supposed to lay there and let what happened, happen, or was I supposed to do whatever moved me? I ended up with the latter and apologized to the provider via text the next day for letting my hands roam too freely over his body. Fortunately, he had no problem with me or my actions and I met with him many times after that. My questions for providers, though, is this: what behaviors do you want and expect from the ideal client? I’m not talking about physical characteristics but about what the client does or doesn’t do that makes for the ideal situation for you. I know grabby clients are annoying so no need to focus on that. What could and does a client do that makes you more inclined to accept bookings from him again?

I’ve tasted my own cum but never anyone else’s. Shooting my load in someone else’s mouth or having him shoot his into my mouth sounds pretty hot though…

Try “Sarum” by Edward Rutherfurd. It’s a cleverly constructed (and long) novel that covers many centuries in the real place of Sarum, England. Rutherfurd makes it interesting by weaving characters from early in his novels into later parts through their descendants. Kind of like what Follett did from novel to novel in the Pillars of the Earth series. Rutherfurd has written a number of novels about different cities using the same device. “Russka” is also very good. Though fictional, all of his books give you a goodd sense of the place and its history.

I’m happy everyone gravitates to twinks so that I have less competition for the guys with hairy chests.

I hire maybe once every 2-3 months so I haven’t gotten jaded. The lead-up anticipation is still agonizing and the experience itself is still exciting. I do understand where you’re coming from though. A couple of years ago I had two erotic massages in a week. The first was exciting but the second was “meh” even though the provider was great. I think it was that experience that prompted me to space them out by months rather than weeks or days.

The UK. Lived in North Yorkshire for a while and made frequent trips to London and Edinburgh. Absolutely loved it.

I used to think I could do it but quickly realized that there’s more to it than knowing your way around a penis. True therapeutic massage, which is what I would want to be able to do along with erotic, is physically grueling and the older I get, the less strength and stamina I have. Escorting would be out of the question since that would require a whole other set of social skills, including the ability to make scintillating conversation with men who may not be that interesting.

When I first started hiring for sensual massages, my experiences were *exactly* what you describe. 80% therapeutic—usually very good—followed by a little bit of sensual touch and a happy ending. Now that I’ve had a good number under my belt, I try to explain that I enjoy sensual/erotic elements throughout the massage, not just at the end. The best ones I’ve found utilize gentle touch, eye contact, and kissing. I find it far more sensual than anything that is solely genital-focused. I think I definitely need to look you up next time I’m in London….

As enticing as reversing the client-masseur roles might be, I’d be insulting him if I implied that my skills were as good as his. Maybe I’m just too respectful of his experience. But if he’s strictly rub and tug, he’s not really a masseur and my decades of experience could probably match his…

In no particular order: good food, good books, exercise/activity, calm, human touch

I thought that too. Didn’t realize the original post was a few years old. Now that we’re on a down slide, 40,000 is only a few days away.

I book far in advance so waiting a few days isn’t a big deal. Life happens and there’s no way of knowing what the masseur is doing or where he even is that might be delaying him.

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Grab your dick with one hand to hold it steady and rub the open palm of your other hand in a circular motion over the tip. The feeling is very intense. I don’t usually cum that way but it doesn’t take many “traditional” strokes after that to get me to explode.

I do at least 90 minutes, two hours if possible. I currently just hire for massage and that gives time for a decent massage plus extras, if they’re on offer. I like it when the provider takes his time and prolongs the anticipation.

Damn! I’m on the east coast.😢

I couldn’t agree more!

A friend and I were wandering around DC one night a year or two after the memorial was finished and we headed toward some bright lights that we saw in the distance. It turned out to be the Vietnam memorial. We wandered over to the lights and saw the memorial brightly illuminated with men in fatigue jackets sitting along the top of the wall, the memorial area itself crowded with people making impressions of names and leaving boots, photos, and other mementos at the foot of the memorial. We had forgotten it was Veterans Day. The sight of those veterans who had lost compatriots and the families of the men whose lives had been lost was the most moving experience I have ever had. I’ll never forget it.

I’m intrigued, not only by his hotness but also his shower massage. Damn, I don’t live anywhere near Walnut Creek any more 😢

Maybe they want to take as many clients as possible during their visit and don’t want to use up too much time traveling.