Nightowl

I’ve always wondered whether the decision to become a provider was because the guy wanted to capitalize on having a big dick…

Nope. 30 years is bad enough. With refinancing an option if interest rates drop, there’s no need for a 50 year option.

It’s interesting to see the comments that most clients aren’t good at oral or at giving handjobs. I imagine it’s true but surprising in that you might expect that guys know where their own pleasure points are and would replicate them when “giving.” Speaking for myself, though, I know that when given the opportunity to play with the provider’s penis, it isn’t always easy to tell where he is on the pleasure scale as I go about my work. When the provider pulls away you kinda realize that whatever you’re doing isn’t working. A man can keep trying though….

My main communication turnoff is phoniness. Don’t compliment me, use affectionate nicknames or say anything else unless you mean it.

Another downside of shirtless gyms is sweat on the equipment. Not all guys bother to wipe it down.

Coed, of course.

I’m going to remember this if I get a chance to see you when you’re in my area!

The only time anything like this ever happened to me was when I was very young, at my previous gym. I was in the shower and another guy was in a stall within eyeshot of mine. There were no shower doors or curtains. He was staring at me, noticeably erect. Though he knew I was watching him, I was too chicken to do anything but stare. Were that to happen now, I probably would signal my interest more overtly though the lack of curtains/doors would still be a deterrent. Life is full of missed opportunities….

Socks and gloves? I sometimes lie on my hands during a massage to keep them warm until an opportunity to play with the masseur comes up. My feet don’t get cold so I can’t help you there. I had an experience with one of my favorite masseurs a few months ago and his studio was so cold, we both were shivering. While we waited for the room to warm, he took off his clothes and lay on top of me. Can’t beat that.

Just try using the other hand.

I had a mac pro many years ago and loved it.

I know, I know….

My request is pretty mundane: As a client, I want a masseur I’ve been with over a dozen times to film me topping him to climax, with me in control. I’ve tossed out hints but haven’t asked directly. My polite upbringing and the fact that he advertises as a masseur rather than an escort deters me from being that direct.

I have a Lelo Hugo prostate massager, which has a hands-free option with multiple pulsating options that can be varied with a hand-held controller. I love it. The only problem I have is that it sometimes slips out at inopportune times.

Being friends on FB with a provider would probably change my relationship with them. I like that the only things we know about each other are the things we do and talk about when we’re together.

I wonder if it was fake

Brave man!

What happened with the DC events? Were they unsuccessful?

I’m vers but if I’m bottoming and the guy is hammering against my prostate, I just want it over, so premature ejaculation is welcome. That kind of hammering does nothing for me. A skilled top who fills me up without causing me pain, however, can take as long as he likes.

Interesting history. And while we’re on the subject of inappropriate songs, let’s hear it for Gary Puckett and the Union Gap’s “ Young Girl”…

Sounds like more trouble than it’s worth. I concluded from my own highly scientific experiment that, though there is foreskin that can be stretched, the head is forced so far in that there’s little room for Mr. Happy to expand. No thanks. For my next experiment I’m going to attach weights to my scrotum to see if I can stretch it down to my knees….

Careful, you’re going to cut that thing off.

I have never experienced it but that pain would be a powerful deterrent. With most surgeries you can immobilize the body part to reduce pain caused by movement, stretching of sutures, or chafing, but the penis is a unique animal. It stretches, shrinks, compresses, expands, and moves around as you move. God forbid you should get aroused before it heals. I can imagine the stresses on the wound as it tries to heal can be very painful. As for your dad, I can’t say I would have asked either. My dad wouldn’t have even told me he’d had the surgery. All that matters is that he was glad he did it, for whatever reasons…As for my answer to the OP: Nope, I wouldn’t do it.

Two things relating to foreskin appeared in my social media this week. One was a reference to “docking,” which, I confess, I had to look up, and the other was a picture of a cake with iced lettering that read “Goodbye Foreskin!” It got me thinking about whether adults who are uncut would ever decide to undergo the procedure and, if so, why, and if not, why not? Regardless of your personal penile status, could/would you do it?