Nightowl

Wow. Brilliant theory Your last paragraph says it all

His ad says therapeutic only, which is why I’ve never considered him.

The mess turned me off when I saw him a few years ago too. Good basic massage though.

Gym class in high school or participation in team sports used to get you used to being naked around other guys. As schools drop gym class requirements, a lot of guys never have that experience and are shy about their bodies. Add cell phones and the fear of dick pics being surreptitiously posted, and nudity in the locker room becomes a risk.At the gym I go to hardly anyone strips down completely in the locker room and those that do tend to be over 40. I wonder if part of the shyness is our current culture where every body is expected to be firm and every male is expected to sport a cock that is only seen in porn. After the age of 40, a lot of guys don’t give a fuck who sees them or what their body looks like. The ability to throw away any concern about what others think is liberating. I’m over 50 and I get naked at any opportunity.

I’d had several massages with erotic elements but my first true erotic massage rolled everything into one. From the first moments of watching the masseur undress as he watched me, to the final release, everything was memorable. As he massaged the insides of my thighs, I found myself lifting my torso, encouraging him to explore the area further. As I lay on my stomach, he worked on my back and climbed on the table and straddled me. When he turned me over, I was rock hard and he both sucked and stroked me. Throughout it all, he let my hands and mouth roam anywhere on his body, which turned both of us on. It was a thorough massage in the therapeutic sense and erotic in a way that I haven’t experienced since. I’ve been back to see him several times and it is always special.

Try Ron in Martinsburg WV (profile on masseurfinder) if there’s nothing in Hagerstown.

I always try to find someone who is within 10 years of my age in either direction. I haven’t felt underserved or overcharged by anyone because of age—yet—but I’m sure that will happen. I have been a frequent client of a hot guy who is half my age but it may be a unique situation. He’s as into it as I am.

I texted and made the appointment in generic terms, then followed up with an email in rentmasseur saying that I also wanted erotic. No details or specifics. He did say another client spooked him about a lot of undercover cops on the site. I couldn’t convince him I wasn’t one. Kinda bummed me out because I did want to see the guy.

I tried to book an erotic massage with a guy who advertised that as one of his offerings and he freaked when I asked for it, afraid that I was undercover. He canceled the appointment I had and blocked me on the site. There was nothing in the way I asked to scare him and there was nothing I asked for that he did not advertise. His private pictures clearly suggested he was up for that kind of service. Is there a special way to ask for an erotic massage that I don’t understand? Is it better to wait until the appointment to make the request? Special codewords or handshakes, perhaps? Anyone else have similar experiences?

No experience with him but am interested if anyone sees him. Appears to be massage only, no extras.

Saw Charlie a couple of times. He’s a good masseur. His pics and reviews are accurate. Happy to provide more details via PM

Anyone seen Luxtantra in DC? Website is tantalizing.