SometimesBi

Just a guess, but I would think any provider would have success the first time they travel to a new city. You'd be a fresh face for potential clients that always see the same old faces in their RM/RMass ads in their town.

Damn, can I hire you? 😍 You're probably nowhere near Seattle 😥

Just for clarity: is it actually orgasm cum? Could it possibly just be pre-cum liquid? (I don't do it, but some guys do get 'wet' before cumming)

You know, ANY body part crossing the finish line first is a win 😚

On the other hand, if the top is counting his multiple orgasms, I could handle that 🥰

I don't remember much about the PE showers in my youth (late 70s, early 80s), but for an experience with boys and men naked together, there was one year, one time, at scout camp. This year was a plain old summer camp (not at a formal camp with day programs, just free-form camping in the mountains). One of the days, the troop had been hiking around a couple small lakes. Somehow, the suggestion of skinny dipping came up. So, about 2/3rds of the troop (but not me, I was too shy), along with the scoutmaster and assistant, stripped naked and went swimming in the lake. Nothing unusual back then. Indeed, I bet the cold lake prevented anything embarrassing from ... popping up.

Something I'd like to add: If a provider wanted to top me bare, I'd almost prefer one that is pos/undetectable/U=U status. Why? 1. He's going to be on all sorts of medications to maintain the undetectable status. 2. He's going to be getting tested... a lot... for the same reason. 3. He's going to be far more honest about his status.

First, I've have far too few experiences with men (both providers and random hookups). When I have, I bottom my ass. I've probably been fucked less than 20 times. 😥 In all those experiences, one in particular stands out. I was laying face down as he laid on top, thrusting in my ass ... when he completely stopped. Maybe he was trying to prolong the fuck, but it was too late. With his stillness, I could feel his dick pulsing and throbbing inside my ass! (He had a condom, so don't know if I could've felt the cum itself if he'd been bare.) It was the most fascinating feeling! All other times and guys that have fucked me, even providers, have not stopped or slowed enough for me to feel that again. So my questions for all you tops out there: if a bottom asked you to stop or hold still when you cum, could you do it? Do you normally pause? Could you stop ...at least long enough for the bottom to hopefully feel something? For those that have, or usually, stop ... have the bottoms said they could feel you cumming?

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Gah! I can't believe I made that mistake. Thanks! (...and now discovers CoM doesn't have an Edit Post feature 😥)

While many of those positions look beautiful/sexy, I don't think I'd be a candidate for most of them. Too much work/effort for the client. When I get a massage, I want to just relax, and let the masseuse have his way with me. 🥰 So, your first pic is a winner for me.

While we all talk about hiring these days, I'm curious if guys still just do the random hook-up thing anymore? Years ago, even decades, Craigslist used to be the place to go. But no more. When that ended, I dabbled in a couple apps: A4A, Grindr, and Scruff. (Oh, I seem to also remember a site called Silver Daddies or something). But the last time I tried an app, I got flooded with "interest" from bots. Or, it was the same guys ads I'd seen for the last 5-10 years. Nothing new/fresh. Could anyone recommend an app or site that actually works to hook-up? Are there any that actually screen out the bots? Any where guys are current/recent? Any apps/sites that are free? Or is a subscription the key to keeping it real? (Again to be clear, I am asking about free hook-ups, not hiring).

Doesn't look like Ryan is still in Seattle 😭 https://rent.men/ryanmusclegod

https://rent.men/HuxleySamson Any info or recommendations? I've recently entered the realm of retirement (yea, I'm that old) but it means I actually have more free time now. So I need a provider that is good with older bottoms like me. Incalls are a must.

The OP asks the question of IF the past incident should be brought up. It sounds like you really want to, regardless of suggestions or concerns others have replied with. So then I submit that you should now be thinking of WHEN to bring it up. If you are truly attracted to him, I would NOT bring it up too early. Definitely not before meeting, and possibly not until the second or even the third date. Establish a connection, and if it is strong, then bring up a "...you know, I think I just realized something from the past..." type of conversation. Just remember, it will almost surely play out just like those romance movies, and could cause a rift in your friendship. If they aren't feeling a strong attraction to you before you bring this up, it could end things. This is dangerous territory. Good luck.