Nightowl

Maybe we should start a variation of this as a new topic on CoM. Someone starts the story to get the ball rolling, the first commenter continues the story, and so on. The only requirement would be that it not stray too far from being erotic. Might be fun for the creative writers among us.

Yep. Prostate massager, butt plug, finger(s)…all enhance the experience.

Maybe he’s on the forum and can clear things up. Doug, are you in the room with us now?

I know the birthday of one of my providers but only because he moved our appointment to free up the day for a family celebration. Though I know the date, I’ve never reached out or commented on it. It seems to cross a line that might not be appreciated.

I don’t know that having followers or being followed really does anything, good or bad. I follow a few people but never get notified of their posts and I suspect they’re never notified of mine.

Massage on a table, fun on a bed.

I’m in that 0.00001% group too.

Nothing to be ashamed of. Point it down. As he watches it grow as he massages your inner thighs from behind could be all the motivation he needs to take things further.

If there’s a hole in the table, pointing it down through that hole is the only option…

At times it’s difficult to watch but it has still captured my attention. I don’t know where it’s going—probably nowhere good—but I’m riveted.

One of the guys I see frequently is always 10-15 minutes late but I know that and, since he always texts to let me know, I don’t let it bother me.

Conjures up images of Catherine the Great….

I would have walked out.

I used to hand cash to the provider/masseur but that started to feel weird so I started putting it on a table. Since most guys don’t leave the room when I get dressed, they see me put it there so it’s clear what it’s for. No one has ever counted it in front of me but many will text a thank you after I leave.

I’m that age too and only started four years ago. I’ll keep going until the rejections become too frequent, the funds run out, or my body no longer cooperates.

The only ones who know are myself and the men I hire.

I’ve seen a number of guys on this forum indicate that they no longer hire which makes me wonder why. If you stopped hiring or stopped massaging/escorting, can you share what led you to that decision? Update: just realized this probably belongs under “hiring.” Admins, feel free to move it.

I don’t respond to most survey requests about anything so I would ignore this one too. Most surveys are simplistic (5 stars to rate the entire experience) and the ones that aren’t are badly written. They’re a waste of time. How many times have we all been confronted with five choices ranging from “below expectations” to “exceeded expectations?” If my expectations were low, “exceeded expectations” just says “you weren’t as bad as I expected.” The message the recipient receives, however, is “hot damn! I’m winning!” because he doesn’t know what my expectations were in the first place (and didn’t ask for them). Similarly, if my expectations were stellar but the situation wasn’t as fantastic as usual, “below expectations” is a knife to the heart of the one who asked for the survey. In the case of a provider, I’m with @Mark_fl: If you give me some categories with clear baselines of performance in each category and the opportunity to respond at length, I’ll consider responding. I’d love the opportunity to say “His communication skills were exceptional, although he was very hard to understand when my dick was in his mouth”….

Love the look on the guy’s face when he’s getting his ass eaten at about the 31:42 mark.

As someone else noted, it’s the time you’re paying for. I’ve had a few occasions where we just lay there together, talking or just enjoying the warmth of each other’s bodies.

Car salesman tactic.

Sit on his lap and get a surprise!

The US is a third world country when it comes to healthcare.

on Sniffies I’d be suspicious

There’s nothing worse than being in the heat of the moment, mouths brushing , than to find your tongue blocked by closed lips, particularly from a provider who advertises kissing in his repertoire. Kissing, with mutual deep tongue involvement, is a huge turn-on for me and I always feel great disappointment when it doesn’t happen as advertised.