Nightowl

Hubba hubba! I like the glimpse of what’s in front too.

I wouldn’t even consider it. If a regular provider grew a beard or shaved one off, I might comment on which looked better, but I would never suggest they shave their chest, get a nose job, or consider investing in a toupee. Likewise I wouldn’t appreciate a provider who told me I should do any of those things unless we had transitioned from a business relationship to a close friend relationship.

I research providers carefully before putting myself in their hands. If I don’t have a legitimate phone number that I can research, I won’t let him into my home or meet him in a hotel. The phone number is less critical if he is hosting since he’s the one taking the risk of having me in his home.

I want to see what’s under water more clearly!

Sorry I missed you!

No one has ever asked for my full name. I only give my first name but they can easily find out my last name and a lot more since I give my real phone number. I know at least two of them tried to find me on Facebook based on their personal profiles coming up as recommended friends.

I don’t know how old you are now but it strikes me that what you’re experiencing is the kind of regret, sorrow, and even nostalgia that we feel as we get old and start to revisit our lives, the mistakes we’ve made, our embarrassments, and what we missed, neglected, or didn’t appreciate at the time. It sounds like you have tried to reach out but what you don’t say is whether you tried to resolve the issue that led to your break. You might have been able to do that early on after the event by apologizing, talking it out, whatever, but after years or decades it becomes difficult if not impossible. And, if whatever you said really was hurtful, he may still feel burned, even years later. I know that I have had a few situations where decades later, I still feel the hurt I felt when it happened. I can feel the hurt and sadness in what you’ve shared here; I hope that someday you’ll met up with your friend again and have the chance to restart some level of friendship.

After looking at all these pictures, I’m drooling. And erect.

But if the only sex life you have other than your hand is hiring, that becomes a primary need.

As a grizzled old daddy, neither interests me.

I agree with @jeezifonly. Book him less often. If he asks why you’ve been staying away, take it as an opportunity to be honest as to why. If nothing changes, stop seeing him.

Just finished it. Well crafted mystery that unfolded cleverly and somewhat painfully. Bateman’s character was a little creepy but the show held my attention. Harbour was great.

I agree with what others have said about being conscious of the difference between a masseur and an escort. In your situation I’m curious whether he let you make him cum when you were sucking him. If he did, you might be able to get him to move into a more comfortable position for you to suck him next time. If he didn’t, he may have just been offering himself for fondling/sucking because he determined that it would add to *your* pleasure. In that case, he might not be receptive to your request for a change in position. In my own experience, masseurs have given me a lot of pleasure and offered a lot of themselves but they tend to always lead the action. If it’s a masseur, I’d take my queues from him. With an escort you can ask for pretty much anything and they’ll tell you whether it’s on the menu if it isn’t explicitly stated in their RM ad.

Regularity. When I find someone whose company I enjoy and who knows what buttons to push, I become a frequent visitor. If he starts taking me for granted, I move on. I don’t usually explore unless I can’t get in to see one of my regulars and I find my body in need of attention.

Ain’t it the truth. We could start a whole new thread here on CoM asking guys to post about things they’ve done (or want to do) that would surprise/horrify/arouse/enrage people if they ever found out….

The only questions I’ve ever been asked in advance related to size and cut/uncut. No one has ever asked about health status. I always give my real phone number so they can easily research to find out whether I’m a soccer dad or serial killer…

Until a few years ago, my scoresheet was pretty dismal. Once I discovered the joys of my fellow men, my numbers have increased significantly. If I knew then what I know now, I probably would have become a provider.

Nope nope nope.

Now that I could get into!

If I’m going to bottom I need the top to demonstrate a lot of finesse, not just pounding. Different speeds, depths, and angles keep it exciting for both of us. I couldn’t bottom for 45 minutes nor could I top for that long. Numbness would set into the affected body parts and I’d just want it to be over.

I have several international trips scheduled this year but I’m not particularly worried about how I will be treated or perceived. I’m always respectful of others and their cultures and trust—perhaps naively—that people in other countries will respond accordingly. If I am challenged about the impact my country’s actions have on the rest of the world, all I can do is listen and, if questioned, respond honestly.

Yep. When it happens, I usually wrap my hand around it and enjoy the warmth and hardness. It is indeed a great feeling.

Taking a walk in solitude, clearing my mind of worries, then starting my day.

Saw the codetalker exhibit there many years ago. Was surprised it was in the Burger King but glad it’s still there. These guys were heroes.

I wouldn’t schedule him but that’s only because I keep my hiring life and normal life separate.