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I was thinking the same. He's a handsome fellow, with an impressive physique. But that excessive body art is a huge turn off for me. What a waste.

That's funny. I simply meant, it's not like I am oblivious to trans people. I am quite sure I have FAR more experience than most people here, including having been with trans people intimately. I seriously doubt much of anyone here can say the same.

I know quite a few trans people.( I haven't had sex with all of them). I also have been a long time friend of Veronica Vera, who runs "Miss Veronica's School for Boys who want to be Girls." I have enough information to know that there is a spectrum of personalities in the trans community and how people wish to be addressed is a PERSONAL CHOICE. So until I know what that person CHOOSES to be addressed as, BIOLOGY is going to be MY guide. Any FTM is a biological FEMALE, not a male. Transitioning does NOT change that. You will always be a masculine presenting FEMALE only with some choices of hormonal any/or surgical modifications to present as a male. IT DOESN'T ACTUALLY MAKE YOU A MALE. So referring to someone born female as a female is not incorrect. I am not ADDRESSING this person to their face, so there is no information on how they want to be addressed. It's always astounding how some of you gays love to act so knowledgeable about subjects, with very little actual experience on the subject.

I dont need education on the matter. I feel that I am actually more familiar with gender identity than some of the people here who are "correcting me" based on their limited experience. But thank you for offering. As I stated above, I do not acknowledge any change of pronouns until specifically requested by the person I am addressing. I have had several enjoyable sexual encounters with FTM people.

Probably advertising as "bisexual" to explain his preference for relationship oriented encounters as opposed to the usual anonymous hook ups that the 100%gay-gays seem to prefer.

ANCIENT photos.

Quoted 200 for therapeutic 250 for sensual and 300 for erotic

FTM Means its a female presenting as a male. So ...no. its a SHE until that person specifically tells me in person that they prefer to be addressed differently.

She is attractive as a male-presenting-person. I only wish there was something left on their fit-physique to admire without all the graffiti getting in the way. I personally find trans men more enjoyable with a full vag set-up and no fake-tiny-peanut of a penis. I enjoy the experience of natural frontal penetration while looking into the eyes of a masculine person.

If I spent all day at work fucking men over 40, I also wouldn't want to fuck another one for fun. Variety is the spice of life. I enter into every arrangement with a provider as if he is PERFORMING not that he's monetizing his sex life. I have zero problem with someone rejecting me on Grindr even though he may chase after me on Rent.men. My fat wallet now makes up for my dad-bod and graying hair.

Thank you @aiseeya No idea why reality radiates "disgust" for some people. If I weren't getting older and losing my fit physique, I certainly wouldn't need to pay for the company of attractive young men. Instead of disgust I feel DELIGHTED that for the mere contribution of a few hundred USD$, I can still meet beautiful men and have my way with them, inspite of the fact that I am now past my prime and past my fitness years

What's up with the recent increase in photos of a provider's feet ? I thought foot fetish was a very niche interest. Is foot fetish the new Fro-Yo ?

I agree, that the illusion should be professionally maintained within the confines of a session. But if you're busy stalking an escort's personal life and you're sad to discover he doesn't actually crave the company of old, fat men, thats on you. NOT his fault.

First thing I thought about when I saw the profile. These photos are antiques at this point.

I only hired once while I was still young and super ripped. Was a stripper who I just had to have !

What breaks that illusion is the client's inability to separate his fantasies from reality. Under no circumstances have I ever fucked a five-star escort had him cum buckets and tell me I'm a "hot daddy"..then left that encounter actually believing he thought I was such a hot fuck that he was really into me and wouldn't have wanted to be paid if we had only just met on Grindr, instead. The reality check is on YOU, the client, not the provider. I am well aware that five-star-fucks are seeking other five-star-fucks in their spare time.

"Bespoke" ? 😆

Dunno. Random photo from LPSG with no mention of his buddy.

Nice body...but assuming those are from five years ago too. Claims to be "36" which on Rent.men typically means an aged-out provider over 40.

Cute guy. Never seen him on RM in NYC, in spite of his headline that says NYC. Claims to speak all the romance languages. Must be a romantic hire 😉🤣

Seems like a little from column A / a little from column B. Its a perfectly reasonable topic to be curious about....but yeah it reads as though that hurt a bit. To answer the question of how people feel about this....MY feeling is that someone who is fucking a lot of old fat gays for work, is definitley NOT interested in doing the same in his spare time. Yes, hes selling a fantasy and listening to those words brings a reality check moment really to the front. But in general, the business is always about fantasy and the client needs to accept that and not be upset when he's confronted with the fact that there is no Santa Claus.

Constant rebranding but always the same pix from 2019.

You and 75% of all the other gay men who spend their whole life going from one anonymous hook up to the other. Its normal for gay men to avoid relationships. This is one of the main reasons that the escort business is such an important cultural institution and why we are here

THIS 👆 I generally hire people for erotic massage and specify very little. Just let them do their thing, as a way of getting to know them. IF, the vibe is good and the provider is attractive, attentive and kind, THEN I will book for a "more intimate" session. I always find that THIS strategy gets you a FAR superior fuck, than meeting up with a total stranger and jumping in with both feet. Although I do realize for many of the gay men here, that anonymity is part of the turn-on. For me, I prefer sex on the "second date".