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NO. That is your insecurity speaking. I shared MY opinion. You shared yours. We do not need to agree.

All of this proves how subjective the topic of attraction is. This photo looks like some very ordinary looking dude with dark-brown hair whom I wouldn't look at twice. Doesnt mean YOU cant find him to be cute. No "shade" at all. We all like what we like. I was more focused on the public presentation being an exaggeration in various aspects.. Its always interesting to note how so many different people see very differnt things while all looking at the same person.

Such an incredibly sexy man...with a seriously carved physique ! It seems so disrespectful to be so constantly focused on the exact size of his penis. Its like enjoying a wonderful piece of cake and asking your host how many teaspoons of sugar they used. Who cares? Just enjoy how delicious it was in your mouth. 😋

Maybe trying to say that he is classically handsome in the traditional sense of the fit/athletic man but untraditional in that he isnt the standard old-school Hollywood All-American White-boy type.

Well...is it a "refocusing" when your profile says "cuteblondboy" and you're not blond ? (And the "cute" part is certainly up for personal opinion). Reminds me of another recent thread where the provider's handle is something like "muscleboy"...yet isn't muscular. My point being that when your first impression is a lie...how many more inconsistencies and misrepresentations are you going to encounter upon meeting this person ?

Diversity is absolutely something to "consider". BUT I made this suggestion because I grew up there and I have seen a huge change in the cultural diversity of various regions in PA. To be afraid of conservative white people is paranoid to be sure. Although the Susquehanna Valley WAS all white back in the 60s, the number of Indian and East Asian, black and Latino people living there has drastically increased over the years. My parents live in a nice suburb just nearby to a major medical center so many of their neighbors are doctors and nurses. The neighbors next door are Indian and the ones across the road are Iranian. My father watches football on Sundays with the gay couple down the road. Although you don't have the diversity of a large city and you won't find many traditional gay bars (these are going to be mixed community venues)...it is wrong to jump to the conclusion that these kinds of places are unsafe simply because you're not the same as everyone else.

I agree with @wsc. Your list is a bit Utopian. Sadly you are experiencing fhe unfortunate financial reality of the United States in 2025 for young people. Salaries are not keeping up with inflation. Most of my friends from Southeast Asia are shocked by food prices here. There is no cheap food destination in the US except States where farm-to-market is more common. Have you looked a little further West in Pennsylvania ? Cost of living is lower than New Jersey but hospital salaries are comparable. You are going to need to compromise on something from your list. Anywhere with no crime & great weather is going to be expensive because everyone wants to be there...and no crime means no poverty.

Did he say ex-con ? He told me ex-military and spent some time locked up in military discipline for gross misconduct.

The biggest mistake people make in hitting the gym without experience is thinking that a YouTube video or a list of exercises is an adequate way to get fit. There are many minor adjustments to posture and technique that a trainer can spot that you will be oblivious to on your own. I know a young very nice looking fellow in my neighborhood who started hitting the gym regularly without any training and now tells me about his visits to the chiropractor and constant pain he suffers. Absolutely START with a trainer. You will avoid injury and accomplish much more with someone who is skilled enough to show you the RIGHT way to do exercises. Eventually you will be able to do them on your own. I have used multiple trainers over years even though I was trained in high school by my wrestling coach. Even somebody like me who's been athletic all his life can lose track of form and posture when I'm working out alone.

Exactly. You can offer complimentary alcohol but you can't sell it. A fine-line perhaps but when you're already dancing on a wire with massage crossing into sex work that is illegal, I would suggest he limit the ways he might be arrested, not expand them.

Which is an over-simplified definition. There is definitely light brown mixed in...and as I said - a dunkleblond's facial hair IS light brown. But the hair on the head is a MIX of various tones. Otherwise its just defined as "light brown hair". Which is what this kid appears to be. I dont see any ombre' tones. Just brown hair. My dunkleblond hair (as well as half my hometown) has probably six different. tones mixed together.

Thats actually a side-effect of certain growth hormones, NOT directly related to working out. It was a fairly common look among gay men during the AIDS epidemic when they would try and counter the "wasting" look of active HIV infections before today's drug therapies were invented.

I wonder if he should be listing an alcoholic beverage as part of his payment structure 🤔. It is actually illegal without a liquor license to sell alcoholic beverages. He really should be careful to say "complimentary" cocktail to avoid law enforcement interfering with his business model.

Look at my profile photo. I am an example of (mostly) German "dunkleblond". Its a MIX of colors. In English its called "dirty blond". As opposed to bright blond...my hair has dozens of shades from light to ash blond and an ashy light brown with some medium brown. My eyebrows and facial hair are medium brown. That said...that is NOT the look this kid is rockin'.

Then start a new thread. This one is about Channing.

I reached out several months ago. But his schedule and my schedule don't match up. He's clearly a busy boy, but has reached out on three separate occasions to let me know when he was available. So clearly interested in meeting people.

I did not. Too many red-flags. 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

I think Jonathan is sexy in ways that a photograph doesn't capture. I find his personality to be a big selling point as much as his good looks.

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First noticed him in "Crashing". Great looking guy. Seems sweet and fun and endlessly fuckable in personality too.

Quoted me $400/hr. and doesn't speak English. I passed on the offer.

Usually a happy ending makes a session less cheap. 😉🤣🤑

He's got a great ass. I'd take that bubble butt for a spin if he's versatile.

The place burnt down a few years ago...so its all been redone. The noise issue is a matter of what time of day you're there. I generally have been at 3F studio during the day and never had a problem.