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I would hate to be a provider who provides fantasy service to pedo-perverts. Imagine you are constantly in the company of gentlemen that are one step away from jail time.

Male ego is a self inflicted wound.

Well....promotes himself as a masseur and @Thisismrlit hired him as a masseur. So....not necessarily ONLY a Deli conversation. He is certainly no "trophy". Clearly the young man thinks he's above it all and doesn't need to respect his customer. He will learn his lesson eventually. Karma will bite him in the ( plump ) ass.

Reached out when he was in NYC Quoted as follows: 250 body to body massage 300 tantric massage 400 boyfriend experience (massage and fun) I did not get to meet him before he moved on to S.F. If the photos are accurate ..I can report that he also shared a face pic with me upon request. Not only does the person in the photos have a great body, he is also quite good looking. Just can't speak to as whether or not the person who answers the door will be one-in-the-same.

You are allowed to discuss and share PROFESSIONAL information about escorts. You are NOT allowed to share PRIVATE information.

Definitely more "twunk" than twink now. ( Which for ME, is preferable). He's much sexier now. Actually quite cute. His RM profile looks like jail-bait for perverts. Can't imagine why he wouldn't update his profile.

That would be so creepy to me.

A lot of gay men (in MY experience) have a deep fantasy about having sex with straight men . So many times bisexual guys will advertise as "straight" to pick up that significant fantasy marketplace.

I looked at his profile. He mesaged me shortly after. Asked him what he charges for a massage. He inquired as to whether I was a top or a bottom. I answered that I had merely asked about a massage, not anal sex. He seemed confused by that.

He may have some fuckability milage left over...but pretty sure this man hasnt seen 27 for more than a decade.

I'm in...are you joining @PileDriver ? 😉

No they arent. They are clearly labeled as being from 2024. Twink can easily turn to twunk over that amount of time.

That was a ROUGH 27 years.

What was HER opinion of Cuteblondeboy ?

Lets be honest...his female friend wasn't exactly much to get excited about. Skin and bones ..just some decent tits. She looked like this was the first time she'd ever had sex and wasn't sure what to do. She definitely contributed to the awkwardness in that scene... Derrick definitely could use an experienced man to show him how to really have a good time. He's way too sexy to waste time on mediocre fucks like that.

When @RubMyThighs shared his encounter . .it was the stereotypical all show/ no substance personality of many Iranian-Americans. So didnt surprise me.

The consensus seems to be that cuteblondboy does his best to provide entertaining companionship to his clients...and THAT is the most important quality for a provider of sexual services. You will never get anyone to agree on looks....so stop trying to insist. When I find someone attractive . .thats how I tend to phrase it. Its my PERSONAL observation / not a universal truth. I agree with @Jostar. He's maybe a 4 to me. But I'm not hiring him to suck MY dick... @PhileasFogg is paying to suck HIS own... And as long as we stick to the merit of this young fellow's personality and ability to suck a good dick, you have no argument from me. I remember in High School there were two fat, unattractive girls who were sisters. Nobody wanted to fuck them, but they both had great personalities and we always invited them to parties because they were a lot of fun. Today they are both married. so eventually they found someone who either likes fat women or just doesnt care and valued their personality over their looks.

Making sure the stereotypes all fit.

The only time I didnt get upset about a bait-n-switch is when the person who opened the door was actually better looking than the photo he had posted (of someone else who looked similar).

Its a pity. The fellow who's photos he's using is quite sexy. I would be very disappointed if someone played bait-n-switch with me.

Did he provide you with REAL photos before you hired him, or you just don't care what people look like ?

What am I missing ? Pear shaped twunk with brown hair ( again ) . RED hair on his RM account. This whole subject has me scratching my head over the commentary by @TJMSand @PhileasFogg about what a "beauty" this (fake) blonde is. 🤔 He may be a VERY nice young man...but sorry. When I am PAYING for sex, I am paying for someone who beats the average in the looks department. Beauty is CLEARLY in the eye of the beholder on this one !

The fact that people agree with one another doesn't make them the same person. I simply agree with @Peter Eater that the "beauty" comment was a bit laughable. Peter and I are not the same person. Just both amused by the enthusiasm over someone so "meh".

No..that's just me being very American and speaking in absolutes. 😄 I didn't mean an ACTUAL 99%. I am deliberately exaggerating to make a point. But thank you for pointing out that there is a larger and larger group of countries who are becoming more progressive toward the profession. The below map shows that "MOST" of the countries where it's entirely LEGAL are not in Europe but in South America. Looking at this map it appears that in terms of area, the prohibition is about 70% although much of that is sparsely populated, so probably more of a 50/50 split.

"Good face, good hands, good instincts." ... I am guessing that erotic massage is the primary business entry point here. Then beyond that it's YRMV