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I lost a friend to meth many years ago. Beautiful guy. Sweet and handsome and was on his way to a brilliant career in fashion. Sadly the parties he frequented were always littered with "party-favors" and he overindulged and is now brain dead. Just a vegetable that his (now) elderly parents feed and diaper, until he finally passes and gives them some peace. Very sad.

Perhaps not in those exact words, but you've certainly admonished me multiple times for having discerning taste and sharing that fact. Anyway...my point is, that HOT or NOT, the lack of trust I would have for someone using fake pix would make me think twice about inviting them to my bed.

If his friends and family can't stop him, a random client isn't going to break through those mental/emotional barriers. Say goodbye and raise a glass to his former charming self. A&F doesn't sound like he's going to be long for this world.

Well...don't you and your partner find it rude to be discerning about looks ? Everyone is beautiful, as you've told me many times ? If someone showed up looking like someone else, I wouldn't trust them enough to invite them to bed, as they've already proven themselves to be a liar. Hot or not.

THAT is TERRIBLE advice. Just because political activists are being targeted for deportation does NOT mean the movement against sex-trafficking has reduced, nor the authority of the IRS to go after people working in the US undocumented. Foreign students are VERY MUCH under the eye of Government for all kinds of infractions of the law today.

As a foreign student, you DO risk your immigration status if you break the rules about work, whether you're a barrista or sucking cock for cash. So THAT should be your biggest concern. As far as escorting ...you can also be in trouble with immigration under "sex trafficking" rules if youre not appropriately discreet. I would suggest you discuss with other providers who travel in and out of the country and I would also suggest you start by offering massage services first. THAT keeps one legal problem away from you while you deal with the other. Having a profile on Rentmasseur instead of Rent.men is not unusual for young guys who want a little more discretion in their life.

If you spend any time in Instagram, you'll discover that MOST young people spend a great deal of time "tuning' their photos. Its become so easy and fast that as a business format, providers are surely going to want to polish up their look on their Escort advertisement. As was also noted by @la_connor many of the guys post photos of themselves in peak condition, but are now older and mushy.

I second the opinion on Caleb. Definitely a go-to provider (when hes IN New York). unfortunately he travels quite a lot..so hes not a reliable weekly provider. IN & OUT of town and therefore only available as a special treat.

Many young people often defy the standards of social expectations even when it puts them at risk of expulsion and torment. I grew up in a socially conservative religious community. I chose to keep my homosexual tendencies to myself and instead of challenging anyone's viewpoints, I simply left and never moved back. I applaud the brave young people who stayed there, and pushed back on public opinion enough to change perceptions to the point that its no longer unsafe for gay couples to run a bed&breakfast there, publicly declaring their relationship without taunting or attacks.

ABSOLUTELY 💯 Yet SO many people INSIST they KNOW the FACTS as they spew Corporate Media propaganda they heard on CNN (left) or FOX (right). I avoid American based news sources altogether. Its almost never factual.

Such gentlemen. They messaged me today to thank me for the kind recommendation of a new customer. These guys are a class act.

Interesting to know. But I am guessing these arent the 20 somethings who I would want to fuck. I certainly get cruised by 20-somethings all the time...but they are the skinny effeminate type looking for a rich daddy to take them shopping.

If you lived in a cardboard box on the roof of your cousin's Park Avenue building, paying $10per month ... it still wouldn't change the fact that the MEDIAN rent in NYC is now $4700 a month . $400 is the new $300. Anyone with even a minor understanding of economics knows that the dollar collpased and that your $400 in 2025 is has the same buying power as did $300 in 2018.

I hired him the first time, some 8 or more years ago. I do seem to remember him having a MASSAGE profile on one of the apps. I had originally hired him for massage, but he offered additional sexual services after developing a friendly professional relationship. He was a hungry bottom boy who can take a good pounding. Just MY type. Outside of the dirty-pig-sex in the bedroom he's got a very sweet Midwestern US personality. Unfortunately he's older now and appears to have been juicing with a lot of steroids. (my opinion) I'm guessing he's somewhere around 40. Not really attractive to me any more. So unlikely to be hiring him again.

Very sad. At it's peak in the 1970s Kodak employed 120,000 people. Seems rather embarrassing that such a massively successful company couldn't figure out a way to adjust to the digital age. As an example, tobacco company - RJ Reynolds bought Nabisco when cigarette sales started to plummet in the United States. Eastman Kodak appears to have just sat there and watch it's fortunes dwindle.

I got a lot of action there when I was a muscular athlete with a ripped six pak. Not sure anyone, who I would wan,t will be in the market for a greying 50-something dad-bod.

"I believe the best touch comes from intuition, presence, and a little magic. Think soft skin, calming music, and hands that know exactly where to go." Personally, I believe that the "best touch" comes from TRAINING, and then a bit of intuition. Clearly this fellow is just gonna glide his hands over your body and hopefully play with your dick.

I didn't realize the ramble was still a popular hook up spot. I used to get a lot of action there when I was in my late 20s. The risk is always the boys from Harlem who lurk in the darkness with knives, waiting until you have your pants around your ankles and threaten to cut off your dick if you don't hand over your wallet.

Absolutely agree.

I grew up there. It's not even "unseen"....we all see it. There is an expectation of "group-think" where you MUST do as others do. If you don't, you are to be hated for not participating. THIS is why I am so sensitive to "group-think" when I see gay men playing that same evil game. Group-think whether left of right thinking is suffocating.

Based on my travels - this map makes sense. Although I am confident in my guess that much of the negative feelings toward homosexuality in States like Pennsylvania and Florida is coming from regions that you wouldn't be caught dead in, anyway....😆

There are TWO approaches to that question. For ME...I DO genuinely like a good massage so YES, I will see if someone has a massage profile AND an escort profile. Providers on Rent.men also will offer erotic massage services, but you're never sure if that's just a type of foreplay to their sexual services. If you don't really care about the quality of the massage then it's a non issue for you. Generally speaking I ask "what style" of massage they do. If they have no idea how to answer that pretty much says it all. 😆If they only do Swedish, then that also tends to be a mediocre session. People who offer therapeutic sessions as well as sexual work, are not the most common, so always happy to find one of those.

What makes you think a provider can't cum more than once a day ? 🤔 Even in my 50's I can still cum more than once a day, and at my peak years I could easily go for 5 or 6 ( with the right company ) 😉 I understand that cumming with a client isn't guaranteed, but I am quite sure that a good escort can manage to unload a few times more than just ONCE a day ! All the Brazilians I've been with have had high libidos and never seemed to run out of steam.

It's not clear in your comments ( thanks for sharing ) how much sexual history you have and with who. The difference to a hire on a first meet is that you haven't had much time to get to know the person. An hour of chatting, with the knowledge of sex being ordered from the menu might seem awkward on your first hire. Overall this man sounds like he was considerate and professional. So you choice seemed well thought out. The issue of preferences for sex after developing trust/intimacy is something I am conscious of in my own hook ups. I have plenty of experience with anonymous sex, group sex etc...but right now in my 50s none of that is as appealing as meeting someone and getting to know them before hitting the sheets. I am also bisexual. I am married and don't have the chance to "date" people. SO what I have found that works, is to hire someone for erotic massage on a first meet. This takes the pressure off the expectations and gives you time to get to know your provider. There have been men who I hired multiple times, learned much about them, developed a friendly professional relationship before any sexual activity was included. Sometimes it was discussed and others it was merely a product of them opening themselves up to a more intimate session, to please me after being a good customer ( tipping well ) and showing them that I value them as a person not just a piece of meat. This takes time to develop such "relationships" and you can't always know where they will come from. But they are out there for you to enjoy. Glad you had a nice first experience. Here's hoping you will continue to find what you want in your provider(s).