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That is a very good question. Logic would dictate that the discovery was not random. Secondly I would point out that this is NOT uncommon. I've read more than one discussion here about escorts being refused entry and banned for ten years or permanently.

I would like to caution you to keep this vivid language in private and in person. @Jamie21 is an experienced and intelligent provider BUT he is working in a country where escorting is LEGAL. When hiring in the United States you are always AT RISK of law enforcement if you get too direct in written form which can be used as evidence against you. Some of the gentleman here are very cavalier and will tell you "that rarely happens". Well...that may be RARE but do YOU want to be the guy that takes the bullet in a game of Russian Roulette ? You never know when a sting operation is following a lead or cleaning up a district with a local election coming up. Keep your conversation discreet until you meet and are assured you are not engaging law enforcement FIRST.

I read it clearly the first time. Maybe you should re-read MY comment. Your behavior is only going to make the situation worse with someone who sees you needing salvation. Personally I don't care what other people think about religion. so I smile and nod and walk away. Mission accomplished.

So what happens when the other person feels the SAME way ? 🤔

And you are ? 🤔

You can be self-righteous or you can be kind. The kindness get them to shut up faster. I prefer the efficiency of shutting down the conversation quickly.

Really ? Because "salvation" is always their goal...so disrespect is only going to make them feel you are in greater NEED of salvation. I find that AGREEING with religious people shuts them up faster than disagreeing. Give him an hallelujah and change the subject.

Thanks @56harrisond He's a beauty.

WHO is this beauty and where do I send an offer 🤑 ? 🔥

Tessa Majors was looking to buy weed before her murder: police union president Tessa Majors was looking to buy weed before her murder, police union... SHARE.GOOGLE Barnard College freshman Tessa Majors was allegedly in Morningside Park to buy marijuana when she was... This event launched a whole conversation about the dangers of Liberal color blindness, leading white girls into dangerous situations assuming that crime and color realites of Harlem don't exist if you pretend not to notice. I REPEAT- Never go somewhere on a hook-up if the locals tell you its unsafe. Anyway.. we are getting off subject. The question is about the appropriateness of asking an escort about foot fetish services, not just the appropriateness of navigating a sketchy neighborhood .... I would say that anyone working as an escort is fully aware that men have various kinks that they may be asked to include in a session. So even if the answer is "no"...I doubt anyone is going to be shocked or offended by a request for fetish-play. Your best bet, is always going to be the provider who includes the word "kink" in his profile interests.

If a LOCAL tells you it's not safe to travel somewhere after dark, it's a judgement based ON REALITY. People who LIVE somewhere KNOW where to go and where to avoid. Don't be like the Columbia University student who felt it was "racist" to assume black people are dangerous so she wandered in a dark park off campus to buys some weed from the local black boys. They collected her remains in a bag from the bushes the following morning. All pre-judice comes from pre-vious bad experiences.

My grandmother used to let people into her parlor from the various wandering faiths who send out missionaries to try and convert people. She would always rattle them by trying to convert THEM to HER own faith. I always found that to be slightly hysterical and to be a completely practical way of shutting someone down who tries to sell you on his own personal Jesus journey.

Tha'ts hysterical @ApexNomad. but in all seriousness. Although I don't personally like communicating anything sexual (where it can be proven that I am hiring someone for sex)...but if you must be descriptive, then I would suggest your first communications be about your sexual INTERESTS and leave the dirty talk for later. "Hi I am interested in your profile and wanted to know if you're free for a session on Tuesday at 10:00pm. I am a dominant top who's into oral, anal and spanking. Hope to hear back from you. thanks." Always keep it classy until your provider takes the lead in dirty talk.

Although at face these seem worthy goals...what you are ACTUALLY doing is living in an echo chamber and falling prey to emotional manipulation by a media that has absolutely no goal of solving the very problems of which you care about. The goal is to cause friction and distract the general public from the theft of our liberties and the wealth of the middle class.

No worries. "Swedish" tends more toward a light feel-good session, where Thai gets in there DEEP. Yes, knees forearms, even feet can be employed to move the muscle. There are other modalities that also employ deeper work too. It sounds like the this fellow does at least have training beyond the basic rub-n-tug that a lot of guys are selling.

There are definitley men who try and get masseurs to "go all the way" and have sex for the price of a massage. But its not the RULE. I have met many masseurs over the years and many of them offered sexual services once we had already established a friendly working relationship. It never occurred to me that their additional intimate offerings should be priced the same as a massage. Even the few times I've had a massage go full service in the middle of the session . ..I was always sure to pay what I would have paid an escort, by tipping exceedingly well. Massage is often a gateway to sex services but it may require you to get those men to RETURN for a specific escort appointment instead of trying to milk a $200 massage session.

Well...escorts ARE sexual commodities who DO charge according to how ripped their abs are and how "symmetrical" they appear. SO that said - ACCURATE photos are very IMPORTANT so I can know that these abs I am paying for actually show up at my hotel room. Its all very grand to talk about how "cruel" it is to "reduce" people to their appearances..but I don't feel that every provider who was gifted with good looks feels betrayed as a human because he's being objectified. Especially when hes being paid $500 or more for his good looks and naked company. You said it yourself - "gorgeous young bartender with an 8 pack". You didnt mention you brought him home for intelligent conversation or his piano playing. You brought him home for his LOOKS. So when shopping online whether its Amazon or Rent.men I think eveyone likes an accurate photo so they know what they're getting. Not everyone is sooooo wide in their tastes that they will fuck anything that walks in the door. PHOTOS should be accurate and updated bi-annualy when you're selling your looks.

What style of massage does he provide ? He lists "Thai" massage but I keep running into masseurs who claim to do Thai but only know Swedish

I lost a friend to meth many years ago. Beautiful guy. Sweet and handsome and was on his way to a brilliant career in fashion. Sadly the parties he frequented were always littered with "party-favors" and he overindulged and is now brain dead. Just a vegetable that his (now) elderly parents feed and diaper, until he finally passes and gives them some peace. Very sad.

Perhaps not in those exact words, but you've certainly admonished me multiple times for having discerning taste and sharing that fact. Anyway...my point is, that HOT or NOT, the lack of trust I would have for someone using fake pix would make me think twice about inviting them to my bed.

If his friends and family can't stop him, a random client isn't going to break through those mental/emotional barriers. Say goodbye and raise a glass to his former charming self. A&F doesn't sound like he's going to be long for this world.

Well...don't you and your partner find it rude to be discerning about looks ? Everyone is beautiful, as you've told me many times ? If someone showed up looking like someone else, I wouldn't trust them enough to invite them to bed, as they've already proven themselves to be a liar. Hot or not.

THAT is TERRIBLE advice. Just because political activists are being targeted for deportation does NOT mean the movement against sex-trafficking has reduced, nor the authority of the IRS to go after people working in the US undocumented. Foreign students are VERY MUCH under the eye of Government for all kinds of infractions of the law today.

As a foreign student, you DO risk your immigration status if you break the rules about work, whether you're a barrista or sucking cock for cash. So THAT should be your biggest concern. As far as escorting ...you can also be in trouble with immigration under "sex trafficking" rules if youre not appropriately discreet. I would suggest you discuss with other providers who travel in and out of the country and I would also suggest you start by offering massage services first. THAT keeps one legal problem away from you while you deal with the other. Having a profile on Rentmasseur instead of Rent.men is not unusual for young guys who want a little more discretion in their life.

If you spend any time in Instagram, you'll discover that MOST young people spend a great deal of time "tuning' their photos. Its become so easy and fast that as a business format, providers are surely going to want to polish up their look on their Escort advertisement. As was also noted by @la_connor many of the guys post photos of themselves in peak condition, but are now older and mushy.