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I agree, two professionals with the same skill-set could be jealous. BUT when it comes to sex workers, every professional KNOWS that attraction is fickle. I rarely find couples who BOTH appeal to me. But there's rarely a problem with choosing one over the other. The MONEY still goes into the same household, so they usually don't care who took a load of cum to pay for dinner. 🤣

Charleston SC or Asheville NC are pretty much your only destinations in the Carolina's with any selection of handsome company (whether escort or massage). I end up in Greensboro, NC a couple times a year and it's really hit or miss and that's with guys driving all the way from Charlotte.

I mostly hire escorts only when I am traveling. Depending on the market, I may only find one or two people in my specific area who pique my interest. Miami, LA or London are normally the largest selection of the type of fit/athletic types who I enjoy. NYC is of course, the best selection. But generally speaking I am more inclined toward massage services when I am in my hometown. I DO like to browse, so I would say in the major markets including NYC I am interested in 10% to 15% of the choices. If I am really bored and horny, I will broaden my interests into a little older than I normally go for, or a little less muscle. In a smaller market, like the Carolinas I may only find ONE provider out of the entire county ( and sometime, I come up empty )

What "action" ? Street hustlers haven't been a thing since the 80s ! As far as where in NYC do you find most of the professionals living ? There's NO single neighborhood. Providers live in a dozen very different parts of NY..but they all are perfectly capable of traveling to you from wherever. Easiest transportation locale is always gonna be somewhere between 14th and 59th in Manhattan. Hells Kitchen is the "gayest" neighborhood now as far as concentration of venues catering to gay men.

Never underestimate the number of married men who hire but need to be considerate of their husband or wife back home who really isnt going to appreciate an STI from you fucking some rando.

Thats not true. I just checked. You DO need to be logged in for certain features to work, such as nudes and videos.

IF I were hiring an ESCORT, than YES. NOT if I am hiring a masseur. I realize there is SOME overlap and some escorts advertise as masseur, but the question asked at the beginning of the thread was about masseurs, not sex workers.

The word "hate" is grossly overused by people today. Every drop of disapproval seems to get expressed as "hate" in social media.

So....does that mean you can't explain yourself or you just won't? Your last response was cryptic. You surely cant expect everyone here to read into your subtext.

Can you explain ? I dont understand this comment.

"Exploiting" ? I find that allegation to be somewhat misguided, if you think THAT is the only motivation those providers have. I've definitely heard of straight providers who lure you in and take your money for next to nothing ...but there are also plenty of straight-identifying men out there who genuinely enjoy the physical company of gay and bisexual men.

Never understood why some people get so emotional about a difference of opinions. Living in NYC, I wouldn't have many friends if I insisted everyone agree with all my viewpoints. VARIETY is the spice of life.

Interesting. 99% of MY hookups find it to be a big turn on that I'm married to a woman. I can only recall one fellow being upset that I wasn't 100% gay. What is it that drives this repulsion, when so many others have the exact opposite reaction ? I've been with more than a few providers who had girlfriends at home. They said the g.f. didn't mind them having sex with men for money but would go ballistic if they had sex with another woman.

Personally, I have no problem getting-off without penetration. (hand-job happy endings, or frottage, kink play such as edging/cum control) I usually opt for the NO-risk, over low-risk encounter. But that doesn't mean I "never" take risks by occasionally engaging in oral with a provider. As stated above we all have to navigate the degree of risk we are willing to take. But it IS sad to see the number of gays here who are in complete denial of the statistics. STI rates, especially for syphilis, gonorrhea, and chlamydia, havesignificantly increased in gay and bisexual men (MSM) over the past decade, though recent data suggests declines in syphilis due to prevention like DoxyPEP; these rises are linked to factors like increased testing (especially with PrEP), condomless sex, and potential shifts in risk perception, with some studies showing dramatic percentage jumps for specific infections ( i.e. Syphilis ). Key Trends & Statistics Syphilis: Rates have seen substantial increases, with nearly 75% of cases in the US occurring in gay/bisexual men, though a recent CDC report showed a decline from 2022-2023. Gonorrhea & Chlamydia: Rates have risen significantly, with some figures showing over 60% increases for gonorrhea and 19% for chlamydia from 2014, though this can partly reflect increased screening. PrEP: Use of Pre-Exposure Prophylaxis (PrEP) is associated with higher transmission, with some studies showing significant increases in rectal STIs.

I think he's an immediate pass if it takes so much effort just to see a photo of him. I avoid "High Maintenance" types at all costs.

So ? The guy is looking for a fantasy scene, not to actually date the guy.

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I assume that's the other darker skinned fellow in his profile ? Not as fit but still handsome. Could be fun.

I fail to see how a teller confirming that it was YOU withdrawing funds from your account is any kind of excessive burden on your life. You made it sound as if a bank was banning you from selecting bank notes of your choice. I bank at Chase myself. Never had a single problem. Their security measures are one of the reasons I bank there. Can't be too careful with all the scams out there today.

Once again, @Jamie21 your advice regarding such issues may be well suited to working in the UK. But if someone is discussing business in the US, discretion is far more valued and recommended. It is very common for US providers to offer services through a massage site to avoid being accused of illegal activity. Sexual services may very well be offered, but a high level of discretion will be practiced if massage is the cover for illegal activity.

Or...are these photos taken with his phone's camera back in 2019 ?

That must be a big selling point. 🔥

What bank would that be ? I've never had a problem selecting the denomination of my withdrawal, and have never heard of anyone else finding this to be a problem.

This is true. I understand some people are even turned on by shit.