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I agree with @wsc. Your list is a bit Utopian. Sadly you are experiencing fhe unfortunate financial reality of the United States in 2025 for young people. Salaries are not keeping up with inflation. Most of my friends from Southeast Asia are shocked by food prices here. There is no cheap food destination in the US except States where farm-to-market is more common. Have you looked a little further West in Pennsylvania ? Cost of living is lower than New Jersey but hospital salaries are comparable. You are going to need to compromise on something from your list. Anywhere with no crime & great weather is going to be expensive because everyone wants to be there...and no crime means no poverty.

Did he say ex-con ? He told me ex-military and spent some time locked up in military discipline for gross misconduct.

The biggest mistake people make in hitting the gym without experience is thinking that a YouTube video or a list of exercises is an adequate way to get fit. There are many minor adjustments to posture and technique that a trainer can spot that you will be oblivious to on your own. I know a young very nice looking fellow in my neighborhood who started hitting the gym regularly without any training and now tells me about his visits to the chiropractor and constant pain he suffers. Absolutely START with a trainer. You will avoid injury and accomplish much more with someone who is skilled enough to show you the RIGHT way to do exercises. Eventually you will be able to do them on your own. I have used multiple trainers over years even though I was trained in high school by my wrestling coach. Even somebody like me who's been athletic all his life can lose track of form and posture when I'm working out alone.

Exactly. You can offer complimentary alcohol but you can't sell it. A fine-line perhaps but when you're already dancing on a wire with massage crossing into sex work that is illegal, I would suggest he limit the ways he might be arrested, not expand them.

Which is an over-simplified definition. There is definitely light brown mixed in...and as I said - a dunkleblond's facial hair IS light brown. But the hair on the head is a MIX of various tones. Otherwise its just defined as "light brown hair". Which is what this kid appears to be. I dont see any ombre' tones. Just brown hair. My dunkleblond hair (as well as half my hometown) has probably six different. tones mixed together.

Thats actually a side-effect of certain growth hormones, NOT directly related to working out. It was a fairly common look among gay men during the AIDS epidemic when they would try and counter the "wasting" look of active HIV infections before today's drug therapies were invented.

I wonder if he should be listing an alcoholic beverage as part of his payment structure 🤔. It is actually illegal without a liquor license to sell alcoholic beverages. He really should be careful to say "complimentary" cocktail to avoid law enforcement interfering with his business model.

Look at my profile photo. I am an example of (mostly) German "dunkleblond". Its a MIX of colors. In English its called "dirty blond". As opposed to bright blond...my hair has dozens of shades from light to ash blond and an ashy light brown with some medium brown. My eyebrows and facial hair are medium brown. That said...that is NOT the look this kid is rockin'.

Then start a new thread. This one is about Channing.

I reached out several months ago. But his schedule and my schedule don't match up. He's clearly a busy boy, but has reached out on three separate occasions to let me know when he was available. So clearly interested in meeting people.

I did not. Too many red-flags. 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

I think Jonathan is sexy in ways that a photograph doesn't capture. I find his personality to be a big selling point as much as his good looks.

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First noticed him in "Crashing". Great looking guy. Seems sweet and fun and endlessly fuckable in personality too.

Quoted me $400/hr. and doesn't speak English. I passed on the offer.

Usually a happy ending makes a session less cheap. 😉🤣🤑

He's got a great ass. I'd take that bubble butt for a spin if he's versatile.

The place burnt down a few years ago...so its all been redone. The noise issue is a matter of what time of day you're there. I generally have been at 3F studio during the day and never had a problem.

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Opposites attract. This is the age-old mistake that some people make. Never try to BE what you want. You may find yourself rejected because the object of your desire liked you better as you are, not as THEY are.

My father was circumcised as an adult. I remember him struggling to walk for weeks. Not sure why he chose to do it...but he claimed it was "worth it". I never chose to delve into the gory details of why.

*damn* Uses his whole body for sensual sessions... I need to plan a trip to Atlanta!

Why ?.🤔

I follow a few models on Instagram. Recently the app started providing your location to everyone (unless you disable that feature). One evening out of sheer boredom, I looked at the map and noticed three of the models I follow were in Central Park at 1:00 AM !!