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"That much" ? Literally every super-hot guy I've seen on Rent.men asks for that much and far more. You don't get a room at the Mandarin Oriental for the same price as the Hampton Inn. Likewise - any Premium provider with a great body and handsome face KNOWS he can charge more than the going rate. @david78nyc is fortunate that he's only asking 25% more than standard for a fit hottie in an East Coast Major metropolitan. I say - go for it ! You rarely see "100% my type" kind-of guys available for hire. The ONLY time I pass on those opportunities is when we're talking over $800 (in any locale).

Such an ILLUSION of discretion is STILL written evidence, that can be sourced. Keep your pay4play conversations verbal and in private. Ask about interests, and "intos" but dont offer cash to get them. Ask about the person, ask to meet and keep the specifics unwritten .

Never haggle, its insulting. If this is 100% your type, then WHY would lose your chance to meet because of an extra $100 over your budget ??

Yet another reason its best to be discreet about being too specific about sex4hire in text messaging.

I second this opinion. He's quite full of himself and better suited to a low-self-esteem loser with lots of money who will pay a LOT to get a little. No value for the money with this one.

Seems to have done a bit of porn. based on those clips I wouldn't hire him as a top. (Would also be a waste of that great ass.)

Yes. same here. So I get it. Love to play with power dynamics. YOURS is somewhat complex but not rare. The problem (in MY opinion) is the word "sub". You want someone who likes getting ass fucked but is in control of the situation, almost dominant with a possible kinky feminine side. So I agree with the above suggestions to search for an older "power bottom" first. Your desire for a panty clad, daddy type is going to be a real needle in a haystack...but doesnt hurt to ask.

Greensboro ? Showing hes in Wilmington NC. Which is believe is at least 3 hours drive from Greensboro. I would love to find a hot bottom in Greensboro. I am there on business every six months. His phone number, however is a 646 which means NYC area.

Certainly niche. So ....you consider yourself a dominant top but you need your bottom to be a mouthy, mature man in panties who "guides" you ? A bit complicated but not without an answer. My first suggestion would be that maybe you should stop calling yourself a "dom" and you might be more successful in finding what you want. Sounds more like your a micromanaging sub who likes to fuck. Always best to understand your niche turn-on when shopping for the appropriate partner.

I am assuming that based on his (out of date) photos that an extra 30 pounds on a six foot -three inch frame, will put him somewhere between chubby and fat. 30 pounds on ME at 5'-9" would be FAT ! Also, you can get flabby even without gaining weight. I am getting a gut from not working out as much as I used to and I haven't gained a pound. So you never know how 30 pounds of excess belly will look on a guy. POST SOME NEW PIX. So annoying when they show up looking like they just ate a whole Thanksgiving 🦃 turkey!

Absolutely 💯 Especially when they're over 40 and getting chubby.

DoseofDerrick starts at $300 for a happy ending massage

Quoted $350/hr. Not terrible for full escort in NYC but I only asked about erotic massage...and he claimed his hourly fee is a standard $350 no matter what. So that's pass.

I cant imagine how someone could BE an escort if a "decent-looking" 66 year old man would turn him off 🤔. I'm sure most escorts are constantly dealing with far worse.

He's just ok. Although I'm not really into effeminate twinks, I at least can understand which ones are more worthy for those who do. At $800 this skinny Princess is gonna be waiting for a LONG time in between customers.

W.t.f. is this ? Fan fiction ?

So I "get" the part about you having never been able to score primo dick. But I still feel if you're PAYING - you PAY for the good stuff. Maybe you never brought any LOOKS to the table when you were younger...fine...but now you got CASH. You dont need to still be eating from the trash can anymore !

I think @mike carey has given great advice here. I would agree that your "first" experiences and experimenting with sub/DOM play will feel more SAFE at home, not a random hotel room with no safety net. I happen to love sub/DOM play and have taken-on more than one novice who wants to be "trained", but ends up crying from fear when faced with the reality of an actual Dominant Top with demanding expectations. (Even when it was already discussed as "just role-play").

Even after thousands of sexual encounters I still prefer to let things flow organically on a first meet. Once we've hung-out (and had each other's dick in our mouth), there is an innate camaraderie that follows. This afterglow moment is when its easier to discuss sexual interests/fantasies and preferences. Setting up the potential for a more customized encounter next time.

MY own personal way of hiring generally leads to a better and more interesting session each time. I generally hire for an erotic massage session, (whether the provider is a masseur or an escort). On the first meet, I let them do their thing and worry NOT about what I am going to end up getting. It won't be my last massage before I die (at least I hope not ! ) so doesn't matter if it's all bells and whistles at the end. If I DO genuinely like a person's natural repertoire, I will request another session, and possibly request something more than what was included. So booking # 2 is "better" because it's more customized. I always tip well to show my appreciation. At booking session #3 I find that most providers are eager to please a now, potential regular, so will often UP the fun themselves. Sessions #4 and 5 will therefore often ascend into full-on sex ( with appropriate substantial tipping to equal escort fees). After we have moved to fucking and sucking, the dialogue is way open to wants and desires ( from both parties ) so I find that if all this develops in this natural progression, you end up with a very nice friendly fuck regular. I would have kept all these guys around for decades, but for the fact that I prefer young men and these sorts of fellows aren't nailed down and often move on to other destinations or other opportunities in life.

Brilliant sales pitch @Rod Hagen. I myself have always advised that young men who are new to the business, should work to get themselves a few regulars. Pretending you are genuinely attracted to some gigantic, aging blob of flesh who has never gotten laid without paying for it, is absolutely a way to get a regular customer, who will mortgage his home to keep the fantasy going. As with all businesses there are customers you enjoy and those you dont. But all business is about pleasing someone in exchange for 💲CASH, not friendship.

NO. An "otter" is a young, trim guy whos hairy. A "bear" is a hairy guy who"s fat.

You're not the first to fall for a brilliant performance. Sometimes Hollywood actors get spit on for having effectively played the role of a villain..and people get mixed up in their head thinking its really the character.

Not in NYC.

He's a paid performer. Clearly a good one.