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I actually DID like him. I never watched his porn (I dont watch a lot of porn to begin with). But I used to hire his husband on a regular basis. Justin was often there. Always a pleasant and upbeat kind of fellow. So.... unlike all the gentlemen here who have nothing but disgust for the fellow ..I do recall the HUMAN BEING who I spent several joyful conversations with and who SEEMED a perfectly nice fellow. For me it only sad to discover his demons led him down some unfortunate pathways that were morally questionable and definitely illegal. I feel bad for him.

Rhubarb is quite a large plant...so needs time to grow. Late spring just before summer is its prime. Strawberry-Rhubarb pie always was a dish that preceded the summer picnic season when I was a child.

I should have included the sentence: "without the acrobatics".

I do enjoy that feeling. Its exciting to be able to enjoy the frontal penetration position with a masculine presenting trans person. I dont have any clear preferences between sex with biological men or women but it is nice to be able to face my partner during intecourse.

I wish there was more of that in general going on. I miss the days of meeting someone out, having a drink, chatting a bit before going home to fuck their brains out. Probably why I prefer meeting providers for a massage on a first meet. The encounter is more low key/ fewer expectations and more conducive to a little conversation. Wham*bam*thank*you*Ma'am isn't always what I am looking for.

Maybe I haven't followed this subject as carefully as you. ( Since I'm not "seeking" ) But my understanding was that the majority of the guys (/gals) on seeking are looking for immediate financial support. Are there actually people who DO agree to "date" to seek connection ?

Kinderhook ? wow. Things have definitley changed in Upstate New York ! Used to be so conservative up that way ! The number of gays and lesbians buying farm houses seems to have reached critical mass.

You dodged a bullet. There is definitley something "off" about this person's constant demands to move to a different platform. In my experience when a young man wants to switch to a private communication its to discuss pay4play in a space where he cant be identified and found later if your experiences are problematic .

Wow. so..NOT true in MY case. I grew up in a predominantly white community surrounded by predominantly white communities. The Majority of my sexual exploits in my 20s (after I left my hometown) were with people who looked very different from me. Many of my relationships were with people of color. (Both men and women). I do agree that long term relationships require enough overlap of viewpoint that cultural commonality is important, but ethics, morals and priorities can span various geo-locations that included people of various races. Its often a matter of balance between the familiar to feel "at home" with someone but enough difference to feel challenged to grow as a person.

Its also a matter of individual expectations. You speak of this provider as your dream man, while others report a very mediocre experience. As far as the photos its fairly common to post images of themselves at their peak training with a beautiful six pak and exciting muscularity. Once you meet them, you discover that those photos were from six months to six years ago. At least this fellow posted his own and did in-fact have some glory days at one time regarding his looks.

That was my initial thought when I tried dating men. Eventually I learned that it's merely the frequency of dramatic communication that I avoided, not the drama itself. Interesting to note you found a relationship that wasnt merely transactional, on that site. Its been mentioned here on C.o.M. several times and the discussions are always about the costs. Some have said that housing and a little cash in their pocket was adequate and others have chosen guys who demand luxury lifestyles including travel in exchange for their companionship. In the end, we all want SOMETHING from a relationship. Its at least quid-pro-quo if its not transactional. Unconditional love is something your grandma gave you. Everything else has terms.

I just looked at their site. Its $109 per month or $290 for three months. You most likely misunderstood the offer. I seriously doubt that ANY membership that's normally $109 per month is going to offer 75% off unless they're going out of business.

Not that doing drag means you're gay....but honestly I always assume they are. Granted Flip Wilson did hysterical drag back in the 70's and he always claimed to be straight. As far as Tyler Perry, he was always on my gaydar as a DL bisexual. Sounds like he wasn't so down-low if he was that aggressive in hitting on pretty boys.

Beautiful guy. Is he worthy of sexual misconduct charges, though ? 🤔 Harvey Weinstein's fate should teach everyone in Hollywood to know where the line in the sand is. Leave a contract by the bedside to agree to sexual activity before the lawyers show up at your door.

Apparently his husband is still running a porn business (without underage content we can assume).

Derrick Dixon is hot. I can see the road to thirsty behavior.

Great ass. 🍑 I'd definitely go for it...but he seems to be gone already.

I am not debating you. Let it go. You have no reason to be here if you arent into race play and cant share any experiences.

Back when I was a young pup, I used to participate in a "frottage" group, as an alternative for people who were afraid of catching HIV. Physical sexual activity that was about as low risk as you're gonna get, by avoiding actual penetration. That said...over the years ive been pretty sexually active and attended dozens of sex parties (safe sex) and am fortunate to say I have never had an STI. (Although I DO test positive for hepatitis B without ever having had a reaction).

No I dont. You are interfering with a conversation about race play and trying to apply social justice ideologies that ignore the very core principles of race play. Stop being a Karen and move on. You keep taking the conversation off the subject to attack me personally. If you find race play morally repugnant, than this conversation is not for you.

The subject is "race play". Did you not understand what race play is ? 🤔

sub/DOM fetish is "race play" when you wrap stereotypes into the encounter for emotional pain and suffering. Think of it like riding a roller coaster. The more frightened you are...the more intense the fun. Yes, a black man "using you" COULD be orchestrated in such a way. The stereotype of black men being sexually aggressive and dangerous is a common theme in race play. Particularly when combined with cuckholding. A white couple encounters a muscular/masculine black man. He attacks the husband - restrains him and forces himnto watch while he has his way with the white woman. This was a popular theme at the swinger clubs when I was younger. In your case, he attacks you, holds you down and uses your body to pleasure himself while denying you any. Punishes you for having a hard-on and humiliated you for being gay. (Claiming that he is not).

OK Karen. Feel better now ? 🤣🤣🤣 Back to the subject. Blacks and Asians sometimes like to face their inferiority by having sex with a superior white person. It simultaneously makes them confront their shame and excites their senses to know a good looking white person had an orgasm in their company. That momentary reward makes them question their inferior status and makes them feel valuable. It's a fetish that isnt for everyone and it makes a lot of emotionally triggered white people uncomfortable in confronting these harsh realities.

NYC PRIDE is far from a "white" event. As a matter of fact, white people are the minority. I'm sure predominantly white communities have predominantly white Pride marches

Does anyone know if hes still with his husband ?