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I grew up in the 90s where condoms were just the norm. I was also an escort in Chicago from '98-'02 where condoms were just required equipment. Once I figured out a brand that fit, I never looked back or changed the routine. As much as I like butts, I want a barrier between my dick any any possible stranger poo. I was surprised recently... in NYC, hired a very good looking Bel Ami looking guy, originally from the UK, for 2 hours at an eyewatering rate. Confirmed with him that I would want to top him for at least 45 minutes and that he was up for it. About 30 minutes into it, I was getting a truly excellent blow job from him and needed it to stop before I went over the edge. Flipped him over, rubbed his back and butt cheeks for a second, slipped a condom on my dick, slipped easily inside of him. Then he paused....'are you wearing a rubber?' Assuming he was concerned, I answered yes and offered to let him see it. With half of my dick inside of this guy, we got into an argument about me wearing the condom. He turned it into this weird thing and tried to guilt me into taking it off...I assumed he had a latex allergy and I told him it was latex free Skyn so no worries. He pretty much told me that I was not going to wear a condom and top him and tried to physically reach around and take it off. Clearly, I am not going to force anyone to let me top them but the entire thing was just weird. It's like a 180 form what I would occasionally encounter back in the 90s from positive guys.

That's silly; I would never hire a fellow under those conditions. Do you think it's because most folks want bb sex and this is his way of limiting that?

OK, so back around 2005ish I used to enjoy reading a blog, posted by a fellow who wrote about his adventures in Thailand and his Thai bar boyfriend named Noom. He ended up passing away, and they archived his writings somewhere. I guess he used to go toThailand to buy sterling silver jewelry, or something like that...and spent a lot of time with the bar boys. I think it was called Devil int he City of Angels, or something like that. Does anyone know where I might be able to read an archived copy? It was such a fun read.

Oh my god, I was thinking the same thing. Also, best to not order the same entree!

From what I understand, if you just relax and let the rip current take you where it wants to go they will actually bring you back to shore about 50% of the time....they go in big circles. The process is sort of fascinating. If they don't, you just have to go parallel to the shore fora bit then you can easily swim back to shore. That said, if something was sucking me away form shore I would definitely be freaking out.

There is a HUGE problem with african american folks not knowing how to swim. I do volunteer work with a group home for teen boys...it took me over a year to get approval from DCFS to enroll all of the boys in swimming classes at the local Y and I had to pay for it personally out of pocket. The first day they went, only 7 out of almost 60 kids could swim enough to keep from drowning if they fell into a pool. These kids were panicking to even put their head under water. Reading this article made me freak out about the 5 or 6 times I took groups of kids out to the beach and how easily that could have gone sideways.

I am assuming they have scaled back their work in the USA with the current situation going on, but I have donated to and helped sponsor two refugee's with the Rainbow Railroad. For me, it was an incredibly rewarding undertaking...these guys were from a pretty awful situation and they ended up getting to come to the USA / get legally married / become legal residents of the united states. These guys really did face potential death in the country there were leaving, which is something I still have trouble wrapping my head around. The organization is really good and makes an awesome unusual birthday fundraiser.

I went on the hunt and pulled out the 6 books I have (all of these, plus a few more) and it was interesting. In particular Aaron Lawrence. I am honestly surprised that he shared some of that info when he was still actively escorting; there are just some things that I would think you need to not say until you are done using them psychologically on clients. As I have been reading these day planners and also this journal of sorts it is bringing me back to my late teens / early 20s in ways I was not expecting. I had forgotten there that I had a listing on M4M Escort World and came across an email form that site from Jeffry Hurant, asking me to join his new website called Rentboy.com and offering up a free 6 months. The internet really was a different time back then. I had also honestly forgotten how much time I spent at 24 hour diners...all of these books have receipts stuck into them from the Melrose Diner and they are always at 3AM.

So I was a (pretty good and very active) escort during college, here in Chicago, between 1998 and 2003. Indeed, I look back at that period and the only regret is that I did not do it for a few years longer. Recently I moved and came across some shoe boxes of, well, crap that I had sealed up when moving form my college era studio flat. In it was a treasure trove of that time...4 day planners, an honest to god pager, and my journal which covered every experience I had in detail. Down to the position preferred and money paid. I have a month off this summer and have decided to give amazon self publishing a try. I am going to recount four years of my life, going into detail about the hectic world I lived. Nightclubs, clients, so many condoms....and at least 20 experiences that still stand out in my brain. Is there anything that forum folks would be particularly interested in reading about? Thanks for any ideas!

I am always sad when a guy smokes.

I don't think that was on offer...and honestly, I get plenty of that as it is. A vagina really is designed to take a dick; now having experienced it I now understand how much more difficult a butt is to penetrate. I really am glad that I got to experience it.

Posting an update. I did indeed meet with him. Without going into detail, I will say that he is a super attractive guy, very smart, has a nice apartment in a great part of town, and was great to talk with. I get the vibe that he is genuinely nice and friendly. His muscle definition is impressive. If you are interested in meeting a FTM provider I can't imagine it getting any better than this chap. I can also now say that I have had vaginal intercourse. Until today I had always been really curious about what time spent with a MTF person would be like. I am a 'relatively' well adjusted gay guy who just does not have a lot of interest in penises that are not my own. It made me wonder if sexual congress with a man who happens to have a vagina would be really fun for me. After doing it....well, it was an interesting experience; it just was not something I feel like I need to do again. He was a great instructor, which I really appreciated. I'll stick with butts 🙂

My rule of thumb; I don't treat what I say any differently with strangers on the internet than I do with people in line at the supermarket. I think we all have memories of people telling us that M/M relationships are gross and all sorts of horrible anecdotes. Also, keep in mind that it's really likely that someday this provider is going to end up reading your comments and continued mean statements, along with other trans folks wandering around this forum. Your opinions are going to be hurtful to them; are you allowed to have them...sure...but you should consider if you want to make people fell crappy about themselves. You could just say 'Check to see if they have had bottom surgery and do some research on that; FTM guys who have gone that route are not my cup of tea.'

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I just watched one of his men.com videos. he is so good looking and he has a great dick, but it's not even close to be 10" (let alone 13.5)...why in the world would you set yourself up to that expectation with your clients.