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Definitely not a problem to find a provider who will do a three-way. . .but YES the rate will typically change.

I know there's cans of stuff in my pantry that I bought during the pandemic when people started hoarding food. I wouldn't normally even use canned vegetables, but it seemed the best strategy at the time. Like @Charlie said...never actually needed them...so they're still sitting there. I know canned food often has an actual shelf life longer than the label indicates. I hate wasting food ..but I am likely never going to use it before the next pandemic lockdown.

What's his technique like ? I see he lists Thai massage. I've been looking for someone who knows how to really get in there deep and pull me apart. Too many "relaxing massage" masseurs listed who spend the whole session doing efflurage and never get in deep enough to execute any therapy. I like a happy ending like most guys but I actually want a real massage first.

Definitely my type...Rentmen profile expired. Wish I would have caught him while in NYC. I haven't been to Atlanta for years. Maybe he will hit the road again soon.

Clearly he's got a floating scale with a hot-daddy-discount...and a premium for ugly bastards.

Thats always a huge turn off... if the person who I am with needs "coaxing" to get an erection, I feel like I'm at the wrong party and I want to move on. I've been to enough orgies over the years to know when I'm not vibing...and I just move on to the next person. To hire someone and have them so obviously NOT into it, would be disappointing to me. I dont care if its genuine or they're good at faking it...I expect them to appear to be turned on. Nothing more unappealing than playing with a limp noodle.

Frottage is an under-appreciated sensual activity. When I was young, I used to volunteer for a workshop that taught young gay men to enjoy sexual encounters that didn't involve penetration as a way of reducing the spread of HIV. When you grow up in a religious community like I did, you learn to engage in a variety of sexual activity that doesn't involve actually fucking your girlfriend. Most girls wanted an expression of love and commitment before they would go there...so you learned to be satisfied without, if you werent yet serious with a partner. (Unless you went out with one of the sluttier girls)....who I eventually learned were more fun.

I love Polenta. Dont like grits at all. Just a matter of taste...and/or sometimes what people grow up with. Growing up we didnt eat either...so it was up to me to decide what tasted better. There's a lot of terrible food put there that people love simply because it brings fond memories of home.

I do love tossing around a short cutie.

For me, it used to be one of two characteristics that got you in bed with me. Cute face / or hot body. Both together is the jackpot. but i can make either work

I used to love pounding cute boys with puppy dog eyes. Not everyone is shopping for a "boyfriend", no matter HOW sexy.

Truly beautiful man. We should thank our lucky stars that someone THIS gorgeous is making himself available to the general public for a memorable experience in the bedroom. I agree with @Viking Would be difficult to not cum immediately for the mere excitement of getting naked with this hottie.

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Well...no. I am ACCEPTING the fact that the privilege I've enjoyed for many years is slipping away as I age. I don't fear that. I choose to work around it. I fail to see your logic in declaring an embrace of life's realities is a matter of ME being cruel. Life can be cruel. Life often IS cruel. You speak of people "deserving what they want"...well I want a 10 inch dick and my ripped six pak back. I want to look like I did when I was 30 and I want a Ferrari. That kind of mentality is a sure-fired way to be unhappy. You don't "deserve" anything but what's obtainable. I don't go to a seafood restaurant and order a steak. The same way you shouldn't hit up an Instagram model and expect him to not reject you for being 300 pounds, old and ugly. Embrace reality. stay in your lane and you wont be disappointed.

It seems to me that if obese clients would hire equally obese providers then the provider is far less likely to demand a photo, since their own standards are already low. How many old/overweight people seek the company of young/fit/attractive people vs. other overweight people ? How many providers can hold their nose and fuck anythjng that moves vs. those who have some line-in-the-sand about a clients appearance ? 🤔 As I get older and out-of-shape, the number of young/hot men who will fuck me for free will diminish. I accept that fact. Even though MY looks will diminish, my taste for handsome/athletic men will not change. So if I need to navigate some gatekeeping to get what I want, so be it. Even at my peak there was no guarantee that everyone I wanted, wanted me in return. I dont expect the offer of $300 to $400 will always tip the scale with an Instagram model if I were seriously ugly. The solution here to avoid providers rejecting you, is to stay in your lane even when you hire.

I didn't. He did. Maybe youre right...and maybe he was ALL those other things. But he always said this: "Everybody loves to hang with the jolly fat guy, but nobody wants to fuck him". He said he was often the life of the party (he was a professional comedian . .you would likely recognize him) but he always went home alone.

Maybe gays were thinner before AIDS but gay PORN still idolized fit/masculine men. Every bit of "old" gay porn (pre AIDS) was focused on fit looking men (sometimes banging a twink). Maybe the focus was not AS muscular as today's fitness obsessed culture . ..but I have never seen any porn from the 70s or 80s featuring overweight men getting-it-on. THAT was and still is a subculture fetish, not a norm.

Everyone here knows I have a dark sense of humor. (Except the few hair-trigger members who keep insisting I am just a terrible person). 🤣

I remember going to an adult bookstore with some ( drunken ) friends one night. We all got blowjobs through a glory hole. On the drive home, we all said that was the best B.J. ever. Then one of my friends said..."I don't think that guy had any teeth"!!!

You and I are wired the same way.

Well....at least you were scammed by someone worth trying for. 😂 Lesson learned. Thinking with your dick always ends badly. JUST SAY NO

The NYC Pride Parade attracts people from the entire Country and some foreigners. It most definitely does NOT represent who lives here. The point made by @marylander1940 is accurate. New Yorkers walk everywhere....we also exercise more and eat better than Middle America. I rarely see anyone who's grossly overweight who lives here. I live in Greenwich Village which has several gay bars and I don't see a lot of big oversized men going in and out of those bars. So this hypothesis that the village is just full of these happy overweight gay couples is just pure fantasy on the part of @KensingtonHomo. Anyway ...ALL of this is a distraction from the subject at hand. Which is PROVIDERS REQUIRING A PHOTO. @marylander1940 was kind enough to take the time and create a poll on an associated conversation thread. Let's all click on it and see how deep the split is on the subject. I have no problem sending a photo. But then I'm not at the point in my life where I am so grotesque that no one will fuck me. Hopefully I never get to that point. Escorts deserve our deepest respect for taking on people who otherwise would never have sex.

You are mixing up sexual preferences with "disdain". Again...projecting you own emotional insecurities. My first girlfriend is now quite chubby but I still adore her. Sexually I prefer FIT men or women. So obviously someone whos very overweight is the exact opposite of "fitness".

You comment doesnt make any sense. I just said my neighbor was a nice fellow and I enjoyed his company. How is that "hatred" ? You are projecting.