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ABSOLUTELY. 💯 If you're just at the gates of exploration, do yourself a favor and invest in some intimate CONVERSATION first. Never jump into bed with someone who you've never met and expect things to go as planned. Nothing worse than PAYING for a bad connection. Meet, chat, laugh, enjoy and THEN book a session of more physical pleasures once you've decided there was a passionate human being behind those sexy photos.

Too many photos from 2022 and 2023. I am never interested in people who "used to be" good looking. He needs to post some recent photos. A baker doesn’t leave a cake in the window for four years...so an escort shouldn't be marketing stale photos either.

As a top ? Probably true....But nothing beats a young fresh bubble-butt for bottoming. A skilled top will make good use of even the most inexperienced sub-boy bottom.

I had a good laugh when I saw his posted age. Tom is older than me and I'm 54.

Who is she ? 🤔

Agreed. I inquired about the services of a very handsome young man recently regarding erotic massage. He quoted me $400/hr. which i found to be (obviously) too high. So, out of curiosity I asked what his full escort rate was. (He was advertising on Rent.men and listed an array of sexual "interests" including massage.) He answered that his hourly rate was $400 for any time spent, no matter what service was being provided. All well and good... and everyone is free to run their business the way they choose. But personally I do prefer an "introductory" rate by hiring for a massage before I agree to reach SO deep into my wallet. I just don't have this ability to always know I want sex from someone I've never met. So I appreciate a lower rate for masage as a foot-in-the-door until I catch a vibe. $400 for a one-size-fits-all experience seems like money that could easily be wasted when I am not feeling the vibe.

Yes. I'm sure its because of the color of your skin 🙄🙄🙄 Do you ever go back and READ what you typed ? Because when I read your frequent ranting it always sounds ridiculous.

Lucky YOU !! Adam Avery is one of the few porn performers who really got me excited to see him in action. I find most porn to be fairly boring and the actors artificial. Adam was always an enthusiastic fuck machine, whether topping or taking it up the ass himself.

What "things" ? ...THAT is the question. We keep hearing vague accusations with ZERO evidence. That isnt fair to the provider.

Thank you @Tandy Newton It sounds like you are a reasonable mature adult who can agree to disagree. ClassicColt appears to be a handsome and masculine provider. Its unfortunate that some one member insists on disparaging him while refusing to explain what about him was so awful in his personal opinions. It sounds like YOU are aware of them and yet seem to have not been frightened away. So ..I'm gonna guess the previous allegations are overblown and unfair. No evidence of "hateful" personality will be presented, just vague accusation and others seem to have enjoyed his company. So seems like he should remain on the list of top BFE providers.

Multiple providers who I've browsed have their Twitter (X) links attached to their RM profile.

Absolutely 💯 The first rule of BDSM is NO DRUGS that blur your instincts. NEVER put yourself in a position where you're relying on someone under the influence, whether its driving a car or hanging, bound/gagged & suspended in a sling with your asshole ready for business.

Is that what I'm doing ? or am I merely taking a sample opinion while trying to understand why some gays get so emotionally triggered by a mere difference of opinion compared to other mainstream people's ability to agree to disagree.

Searching for bottoms.

I agree, two professionals with the same skill-set could be jealous. BUT when it comes to sex workers, every professional KNOWS that attraction is fickle. I rarely find couples who BOTH appeal to me. But there's rarely a problem with choosing one over the other. The MONEY still goes into the same household, so they usually don't care who took a load of cum to pay for dinner. 🤣

Charleston SC or Asheville NC are pretty much your only destinations in the Carolina's with any selection of handsome company (whether escort or massage). I end up in Greensboro, NC a couple times a year and it's really hit or miss and that's with guys driving all the way from Charlotte.

I mostly hire escorts only when I am traveling. Depending on the market, I may only find one or two people in my specific area who pique my interest. Miami, LA or London are normally the largest selection of the type of fit/athletic types who I enjoy. NYC is of course, the best selection. But generally speaking I am more inclined toward massage services when I am in my hometown. I DO like to browse, so I would say in the major markets including NYC I am interested in 10% to 15% of the choices. If I am really bored and horny, I will broaden my interests into a little older than I normally go for, or a little less muscle. In a smaller market, like the Carolinas I may only find ONE provider out of the entire county ( and sometime, I come up empty )

What "action" ? Street hustlers haven't been a thing since the 80s ! As far as where in NYC do you find most of the professionals living ? There's NO single neighborhood. Providers live in a dozen very different parts of NY..but they all are perfectly capable of traveling to you from wherever. Easiest transportation locale is always gonna be somewhere between 14th and 59th in Manhattan. Hells Kitchen is the "gayest" neighborhood now as far as concentration of venues catering to gay men.

Never underestimate the number of married men who hire but need to be considerate of their husband or wife back home who really isnt going to appreciate an STI from you fucking some rando.

Thats not true. I just checked. You DO need to be logged in for certain features to work, such as nudes and videos.

IF I were hiring an ESCORT, than YES. NOT if I am hiring a masseur. I realize there is SOME overlap and some escorts advertise as masseur, but the question asked at the beginning of the thread was about masseurs, not sex workers.

The word "hate" is grossly overused by people today. Every drop of disapproval seems to get expressed as "hate" in social media.

So....does that mean you can't explain yourself or you just won't? Your last response was cryptic. You surely cant expect everyone here to read into your subtext.

Can you explain ? I dont understand this comment.

"Exploiting" ? I find that allegation to be somewhat misguided, if you think THAT is the only motivation those providers have. I've definitely heard of straight providers who lure you in and take your money for next to nothing ...but there are also plenty of straight-identifying men out there who genuinely enjoy the physical company of gay and bisexual men.