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Nobody, no matter how sexy, looks THE SAME after 10 years.

He's a sexy man. The videos of him face-fucking the participants would make the price of admission worth it, if that were a guaranteed part of the session. 🍆

Being an architect. I have made one (related)observation about high school gyms. SOME high schools have a separate shower for the coach inside his office and most do NOT. In my observations about sports - SOME coaches stand on the sidelines and yell direction while others are out there actually showing you how its done. Those who are in the mud or sweating on the gym floor need to shower somewhere. In the 1950s to the 1980s it would seem that nobody really gave much thought to a gym teacher being a pedophile.

Yes. Not ALL the gym teachers all at once, but if we were out playing football and the gym teacher was on the field working with us, he jumped in the shower to rinse off before his next class. Wrestling is a particularly sweaty sport for a gym teacher as he really does need to get down with us and participate. So that one also would rinse off after every class. There was just one big room with about 20 shower heads. The wrestling coach was a fairly young(ish) man. Italian with slightly reddish hair. Great thick body and meaty ass. Also a very nice man. Never thought much about it at the time. It was all fairly normal, but in hind-sight it does seem highly sexualized.

Yes. My gym teachers all showered in the same large shower room as the students throughout Junior High and High School ( 1980s ) But as @Pensant mentioned in HIS high school. We were an 85% Palantine German ancestry community.

You still need to be specific with your own into's. Escorts aren't mind readers. Some are better than others at "reading the room".

Escorts are hired for SEX not to be your boyfriend. So...YES if kissing is important than you should absolutely ask. Alternatively, I notice that many providers list BFE ( Boy Friend Experience ) I would assume that THIS service would have kissing as an assumption. SO it's a good starting point.

I am more attracted to the opposite. I prefer a provider who advertises as "safe only" as that indicates a more conservative approach to their health so it gives me ( a false ) sense of security about catching diseases. Completely an illusion, but it's there in my head, nonetheless. I only fuck with condoms.

Well he looked damn good in 2018. Great body. I love a good six pak.

Exactly. Everything gets interconnected now. If anyone has privacy concerns of any kind its lost when you give a provider your primary mobile number. I have META making friends suggestions of people I fucked YEARS ago. Obviously they receive the same...and therefore have my social media contacts. Any sense of anonymity that I may have wanted is gone.

Absolutely, but I would say even more so from the top. For the bottom, there’s much less friction, and it feels a lot better. Then, of course, this is the psychological thrill of taking a man’s cum inside your body. In my opinion the difference is far more psychological than physical. Lots of guys lose the moment while struggling to slip on a condom..and as far as having someone unload in your ass...yeah thats a whole pile of psychology. Intimacy, naughtiness, and danger.

I think you have the firmest grasp of the subject. The people who are declaring it "wrong" and "unprofessional" to ask.for a photo are the ones who are lost.

I have always been happy to provide a photo of myself. I know I sure as hell wouldn't meet with anyone sight unseen. Can't imagine asking someone else to do so.

Wow. Haven't seen him since 2019. He was always a cutie. but that new lead photo shows a serious glow-up-moment. Good for him. He's a sweetheart.

With THAT ass I'd hardly be looking for him to top ! 😉

FYI - masseur = male masseuse = female

THIS is an often discussed issue of which there are opposing viewpoints. From MY side of that conversation - I fully respect a providers right to ask for photos with the understanding that you prefer to (as you stated) "get a visual". Some of the gentlemen here feel that a provider MUST be able to fuck anything that moves. But in reality, there is always gonna be a line in the sand for most people. Perfectly reasonable and should be understood (albeit disappointing) to those who are unfortunate in the looks department. Sadly, for such gentlemen escorts are their ONLY opportunity to have sex, so when the moment fails to launch, there is always going to be great disappointment. At some point, however they SHOULD understand that they present a challenge and be more thankful of those who DO manage to perform and be more understanding of those who got stuck at the borderline of their personal "ick" factor.

Looks like his "fiance" has reported his passing on his Twitter page too. What a damn shame. Rest in Peace.

Thanks for taking the time to check in and refute the "bad reviews". But if someone hires a top, they do probably expect to get fucked up the ass during an escort session.....And there is more than one comment about your inability to provide either top or bottom services. If that is a challenge for you then you may want to discuss with future clients that such connection is on a case by case basis and not guaranteed. I know I cant just fuck anything that moves, and neither should you be expected to either. Just perhaps you need to make that clear up front.

Not sure how these kids think they are going to be successful marketing themselves if they only post a single public photo of a headless torso in their profile.

I was being facetious. I see nothing inherently "immature" about his support. I would say your response to it, would be more indicative of immaturity than his right to display his allegiances.

Children wear military t's ? 🤔 Nothing more sexy than a military man.

Well...keep in mind that a "perfect" relationship is someone very likely different from your perfect fuck. I have had many wonderful evenings of incredible sex with people who I would never even go on a date with...and I have dated people who weren't the hottest lay I've ever had. But when I am plunking down $ 300+ to get my dick, wet you better believe I am going to be searching for someone who I find to be young, fit and handsome. ALL the "conventions" of which you speak.

Sorry...but escorting is a business. If any business misrepresents what they are selling, and am NOT buying. Even on Grindr. I had someone ( many years ago) show up, having sent me photos of this gorgeous ballet dancer, who I was totally rock-hard for. The man shows up looking 10 years older and totally pear shaped instead of the tight six pak, and bubble butted self, he once was. I don't like that I am getting older, and that I'm not in the same physical condition I once was. But I am NOT gonna send pictures of myself to some potential hook up from ten years prior and expect them to not notice the gray hair and dad bod where a six pak used to be.

9 Well...in HIS case he posted photos of himself already plump....so the goods were already mostly in the window. But as @56harrisond mentions he is even fatter in his photos on X. So there is still a misrepresented situation here. Personally, I HAVE in--fact encountered more than one situation where I met up with someone from Grindr or Rent.men/masseur....and they show up 20 pounds heavier than their photos. I will and DO tell them to their face : that "this isnt-gonna-work". I think that misrepresentation of facts on hook-up/escort sites is problematic, when you're attracted to the aesthetics, and not necessarily their personality as @KensingtonHomo claims to be. I have zero interest in paying to fuck someone who's let themselves go. No matter what the driving factors in sexual attraction, the factors exist and form our viewpoints on what we deem attractive. Those social conditionings DO create normatives and because of that that is a common baseline in qualities that MOST people find attractive. Beyond that we are all aware of the fact that people form fetishes for various stimuli that are outside of these standards of beauty. So when we start discussing "perfection" the assumption is that MOST people are going to share in your declaration of attractiveness, not question whether or not someone has posted the wrong link.