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I have always been happy to provide a photo of myself. I know I sure as hell wouldn't meet with anyone sight unseen. Can't imagine asking someone else to do so.

Wow. Haven't seen him since 2019. He was always a cutie. but that new lead photo shows a serious glow-up-moment. Good for him. He's a sweetheart.

With THAT ass I'd hardly be looking for him to top ! 😉

FYI - masseur = male masseuse = female

THIS is an often discussed issue of which there are opposing viewpoints. From MY side of that conversation - I fully respect a providers right to ask for photos with the understanding that you prefer to (as you stated) "get a visual". Some of the gentlemen here feel that a provider MUST be able to fuck anything that moves. But in reality, there is always gonna be a line in the sand for most people. Perfectly reasonable and should be understood (albeit disappointing) to those who are unfortunate in the looks department. Sadly, for such gentlemen escorts are their ONLY opportunity to have sex, so when the moment fails to launch, there is always going to be great disappointment. At some point, however they SHOULD understand that they present a challenge and be more thankful of those who DO manage to perform and be more understanding of those who got stuck at the borderline of their personal "ick" factor.

Looks like his "fiance" has reported his passing on his Twitter page too. What a damn shame. Rest in Peace.

Thanks for taking the time to check in and refute the "bad reviews". But if someone hires a top, they do probably expect to get fucked up the ass during an escort session.....And there is more than one comment about your inability to provide either top or bottom services. If that is a challenge for you then you may want to discuss with future clients that such connection is on a case by case basis and not guaranteed. I know I cant just fuck anything that moves, and neither should you be expected to either. Just perhaps you need to make that clear up front.

Not sure how these kids think they are going to be successful marketing themselves if they only post a single public photo of a headless torso in their profile.

I was being facetious. I see nothing inherently "immature" about his support. I would say your response to it, would be more indicative of immaturity than his right to display his allegiances.

Children wear military t's ? 🤔 Nothing more sexy than a military man.

Well...keep in mind that a "perfect" relationship is someone very likely different from your perfect fuck. I have had many wonderful evenings of incredible sex with people who I would never even go on a date with...and I have dated people who weren't the hottest lay I've ever had. But when I am plunking down $ 300+ to get my dick, wet you better believe I am going to be searching for someone who I find to be young, fit and handsome. ALL the "conventions" of which you speak.

Sorry...but escorting is a business. If any business misrepresents what they are selling, and am NOT buying. Even on Grindr. I had someone ( many years ago) show up, having sent me photos of this gorgeous ballet dancer, who I was totally rock-hard for. The man shows up looking 10 years older and totally pear shaped instead of the tight six pak, and bubble butted self, he once was. I don't like that I am getting older, and that I'm not in the same physical condition I once was. But I am NOT gonna send pictures of myself to some potential hook up from ten years prior and expect them to not notice the gray hair and dad bod where a six pak used to be.

9 Well...in HIS case he posted photos of himself already plump....so the goods were already mostly in the window. But as @56harrisond mentions he is even fatter in his photos on X. So there is still a misrepresented situation here. Personally, I HAVE in--fact encountered more than one situation where I met up with someone from Grindr or Rent.men/masseur....and they show up 20 pounds heavier than their photos. I will and DO tell them to their face : that "this isnt-gonna-work". I think that misrepresentation of facts on hook-up/escort sites is problematic, when you're attracted to the aesthetics, and not necessarily their personality as @KensingtonHomo claims to be. I have zero interest in paying to fuck someone who's let themselves go. No matter what the driving factors in sexual attraction, the factors exist and form our viewpoints on what we deem attractive. Those social conditionings DO create normatives and because of that that is a common baseline in qualities that MOST people find attractive. Beyond that we are all aware of the fact that people form fetishes for various stimuli that are outside of these standards of beauty. So when we start discussing "perfection" the assumption is that MOST people are going to share in your declaration of attractiveness, not question whether or not someone has posted the wrong link.

Correct. There is no shame in what he does for a living. He is openly bisexual and busy providing for his family while bringing joy to his customer's day. What could be more positive and healthy ? Anyone who sees it otherwise is dragging their own fucked up insecurities to the table.

Lost in translation... thats actually a YIDDISH word. Zaftig in German means juicy.

Same here. We met in college /fucked a couple times ...did the gay thing in our 20's and early thirties. Then after not meeting someone we really felt we could see growing old with, decided to marry and have a family together. 20 years later we are still very happy and healthy and unburdened by jealousy because we are honest about our sexual attractions (and daliances).

Maybe in the depths of Middle America's diabetes epidemic this might be considered normal(ish). But the guy is marketing himself as an ESCORT. I know you've made your point MULTIPLE times @KensingtonHomo that you and your partner will fuck anything that moves...but for the rest of us we get confused when someone declares they found "perfection" and then posts a plump-a-saurus like this.

I do the same, all the time for dramatic effect. Unfortunately the tone doesnt always come across clearly to some of the cast of characters here. I also am very blessed to have a wife who understands my occasional obsessions of the flesh. CLEARLY..we aren't actually swapping our wife for an escort !!

You didn't. I wasnt referencing your commentary. The title of this thread is "Discovering the most perfect guy".

I was referencing his Rent.men profile

I would ask the same of you, if you think he's not. "Thick" I get....THIS.. I dont understand . But I do get that people have various fetishes that affect their sexual attractions....so you do you. But at least precede your comment with that knowledge before you declare someone "perfection".

Within the same hour, you shit on people for "yucking someone's yum" and then you turn around and do the same.....is today National Hypocrite Day ? Make up your mind.

Seriously ? I thought people had mistakenly posted the wrong guy. Yes. Everyone has their own type...but c'mon at least warn us you are into some weird shit !

Are you guys posting the same Jarred ? This video is from some ordinary looking chubbyly-wubbly.

Maybe he only meets up with people who also have suffered the results of really badly botched plastic surgery ? 🤔