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What a coincidence. 🤣 It's always the people who "just signed up" who are quick to refute significant amounts of information surrounding the providers with bad reputations.

I don't blame you. We always leave town for the day. The "ghetto" behavior tends to be at night, when we return and it's primarily the Lesbians making the worst impression on the people who live here. Much of the most outrageous behavior coincides with screaming IN SPANISH. Thus my opinion that the "ghetto" behavior at Pride is heavily concentrated in the Lesbian Latina community.

"Nico" in New York, is delicious. Is he really 38 in those photos ? It's rare for me to find a man in his late thirties to be attractive to me. (Not that I wouldn't agree that they were an attractive person). Just not MY thing. I wonder if Nico's photography choices were from his younger modeling days.

Part of the confusion lies in THIS fact: The category of "erotic" massage has been eliminated. It was commonly understood by most clients, that an "erotic" session INCLUDED a happy-ending hand job. (Most of the time). The move toward "sensual" being the only other category is that "sensual "does NOT guarantee a happy ending. (Not that "erotic" was a 100% guarantee either). Since providers DID typically charge more for erotic over sensual, what happens now is that when you book a sensual session, you pay for the sensual lead up, but the a la carte hand job becomes a separate charge. Different providers approach this in different ways. Some will tell you there's a menu BEFORE. Some will offer a menu IN THE MIDDLE and others will bring dessert to the table without asking. THAT is typically understood as a treat offered in exchange for a generous tip. There have been numerous massage providers over the years, who I hired, approached the happy ending as a treat and I tipped VERY generously. The next session always included additional treats, and many more ended up with full blown sexual services that were never discussed as a menu item. Just accepted my generosity. But one need to be sensitive to what generous means.

I've lived in NYC for nearly 30 years. THAT has never been MY perception. New Yorkers are VERY much sensitive to behavior...BECAUSE skin color is so diverse in every social circle, that you could never accurately define a person by their melanin alone. Only at the upper-upper reaches of monied society, does the ballroom become bright white, with guests while the brown people serve caviar. MY understanding of "ghetto" is behavior. I have enough friends who are people of color to know that they dont mean "black" when they say "ghetto". Secondly: my observation of this ghetto behavior during gay pride would be that its predominantly seen in the Latina Lesbians, not black people. I am a total snob about behavior. But that doesnt make me a racist. I grew up where the majority of trash were white hillbillies.

I suggest you STOP fooling yourself. THAT is the problem, here.

We had it last night with a filet of sole San Carlo. Delicious. 😋

I dont. I have zero interest in men my own age. In my late 20s..yes I dated men my age. Now..I am not dating and not attracted to anything over 30.

NYC is a frying pan 99 degrees Fahrenheit . Haven't left the house in two days, except to get a coffee on the corner.

www.calvinklein.us Too many people shop outlets believing they are getting the same clothing for half price. They arent. Outlets license the name and sell second quality goods with the brand stitched into it. I buy mine at Bloomingdales (when they go on sale).

Is that true ? "MOST" ? I've met a fair number of sides and oral-only men over my many years playing the field.

Eggs and bacon. They aren't the same...but you often see them on the same plate. Just a reality of poverty in America.

This is true. I just find it hard to understand why you'd PAY to have sex with someone over 50. I could walk out my door and get laid within five minutes by a 50 year old for FREE.

I just turned 54. Maybe I should start escorting. 🙄

Catch him in his last year before he starts collecting Social Security. 🤣

I had a good laugh when I peeked at his profile still indicating that he's 25. I remember him from 10 years ago...and he was 25 then.

I still wear Calvin Klein briefs and t shirts. You just have to know where to get the real stuff. So many companies, today sell inferior quality goods at outlet malls under the same branding. Calvin Klein included. Most clothing is made in China now. Thats nearly unavoidable .

This is very true. However, my comment was about VOICES, not music. I mentioned Stefani because she can sing without all the technology. I don't particularly like any of her music. I grew up listening to some of my parents music (the Beatles, Mamas and the Poppas) and I thought these people have great voices. Whether of not I like the music, I dont hear anyone in today's scene who I feel is a talented singer. It's all stage performance, not vocalists that are important. I guess its the Madonna Ciccone effect. VERY successful performer in spite of the fact she took voice lessons for years and still embarrassed herself during the filming of Evita.

Dude. if you dont like opinions, then dont join conversations. No..you dont have to share opinions, but you do. Then others share THEIR opinion. Thats how conversations work. A valued member of the forum had a very different viewpoint: ("Bad news: studio only in Miami, so it was on a hotel bed, massage C-, extras B-. it was all over in 30 minutes, MT, HE".) So its really all a matter of YMMV on this fellow. No one is discounting your opinions. Just saying its all perspective. MY opinions are just that...opinions. Yours are the same. Others share different perspective and the reality of the matter lies somewhere in the middle of all the comments. If you want to continue join in and participate, I suggest you grow a little appreciation for the fact that in life, two people can have the very same experience and still portray it as very different in their mind.

Are there any "great singers" out there today ? Ive heard that Stefani Germanotta does actually know how to sing...but who else ? Can't think of anyone. Meanwhile I would totally fuck Benson Boone whether or not he can sing.

Last photo looks like hes put on quite a bit of weight compared to his other pix.

Ive seen him on Grindr many times. But we have a professional relationship already. So I dont try to get a freebie from Grindr.

I actually DID like him. I never watched his porn (I dont watch a lot of porn to begin with). But I used to hire his husband on a regular basis. Justin was often there. Always a pleasant and upbeat kind of fellow. So.... unlike all the gentlemen here who have nothing but disgust for the fellow ..I do recall the HUMAN BEING who I spent several joyful conversations with and who SEEMED a perfectly nice fellow. For me it only sad to discover his demons led him down some unfortunate pathways that were morally questionable and definitely illegal. I feel bad for him.

Rhubarb is quite a large plant...so needs time to grow. Late spring just before summer is its prime. Strawberry-Rhubarb pie always was a dish that preceded the summer picnic season when I was a child.

I should have included the sentence: "without the acrobatics".