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José needs a refresh on his photos. We've been seeing those same pix for several years now.

I wish there were better quality masseurs at the local Spas in NYC. Shangrila on 44th used to have a few guys who were skilled at edging you during a table massage & scrub..but that was pre-Covid. The new crop of providers at many M4M spas all seem to rush through the happy ending in a very mechanical manner, and then expect a big tip. I would be interested, myself to hear if anyone with edging skill has appeared on the scene lately.

I can tell some of you guys don't travel in and out of NYC much. As someone who LIVES here and travels frequently, you NEVER use a CAR to get to and from JFK unless its late at night, or you have tons of luggage. ALWAYS takes the Airtrain to Jamaica TRAIN station (NOT the subway) and arrive at Penn Station or Grand Central in midtown Manhattan. The cost is about 1/8 of a car service and avoids the risk of getting stuck in traffic (which is pretty much guaranteed).

It seems that a big dick gives you a pass with gay men. I have seen multiple posts where some of the gentlemen here are enamored with some horse-cocked man who was otherwise so mediocre, that he would need to pay ME (a lot) to fuck him. To each his own....but the obsession on dick size over everything else always baffles me. Its rare when a young man also spends time keeping himself well groomed and fit while possessed of that oversized appendage.

Only once. Otherwise I've always aimed high enough that I would have needed to work very hard to have gotten what I was able to land by simply pulling out my wallet.

Isn't "out of my league" the whole point of PAYING someone ? 🤔

Beware of AirBnB listings. They are now illegal in NYC, yet people continue to market them.

The videos here include quite a bit of ass fucking, which in MY experience is the general dividing line between actual gay4pay and bisexual men. There are plenty of straight identifying men, who enjoy a good blow job, no matter what gender their submissive partner brings to the table. ASS FUCKING, however is not something that straight guys generally get into. THAT "makes them gay", so these are bisexuals who are gender blind when it comes to sex, but perhaps have no ROMANTIC connection to men. Either way he's a sexy man and seems to have no problem staying hard throughout all his expert ass fucking, so definitely knows what he's doing.

What do YOU consider to be a "hard drug" ? Heroin ?? MY personal experience aligns (mostly) with the definition provided by @MikeBiDude. PNP is referring to T, G and E. I have, in my youth, used each of the above during evenings of extended sex play at sex clubs, private orgies and/or bathhouses. Crystal Meth was always my favorite, but to avoid addiction, I only used it once a year (on my birthday). All of these chemicals become far less fun and increasingly dangerous when consumption is on a regular basis.

One that resembled our not-so-distant history.

Truly. Matt should call Joey (since they are friends) and tell Joey to make his own account here to tell his side of this soap opera. Also...please post more ass pics

I never hire for BFE service, but I agree with @Rudynate. THIS has always been MY understanding of the differences in repertoire. Tender, romantic and connected as opposed to my usual prefernce. Which is down-n-dirty animal sex.

SUCH an enthusiastic review !! Its almost like @Mattyfresh19 was working for Joeytheboi. (Or maybe its an unpaid postion since they are one-in-the-same). 🤔 Nice try, Joey. But we see through these. I will say, however that your pix, if authentic show a definitely desirable provider with a truly delicious ass. So no need for false advertising.

You know what else is painful ? Cost of living for a young person. I've found that certain young "straight" men, in their twenties to be rather flexible in their sexuality when the rent is due, and your wallet is open.

Absolutely. After seeing your ass pic, I was delighted to discover that you're a power bottom. 😋

Which is why you NEVER offer to pay ANYONE for sex over text, email, phone etc. It's a game of *wink*wink* where you discuss sexual interests in common. Then simply agree to meet up and agree to PAY FOR THEIR TIME. Yes, no one is dumb enough to think you're inviting them to tea, but in terms of criminality, you have limited the evidence to nothing written. SPECULATING about whether or not you were INTENDING to pay for sex is not evidence enough to convict someone. You were certainly not the first to fall for this scam. Learn from your mistake.

I think it's more nuanced than that. I agree with @Coloradoguy, that such vehement denial of drug use, while posting that one of your "interests" is drug use, is CERTAINLY suspect, while not necessarily rising to the level of "gaslighting". The young man is wise to end the discussion by removing the reference of partying from his advertisement. As @maninsoma mentions, we have ALL knows those people who suffer from addiction, that are the first to deny that their drug use "isn't a problem".

This is why I prefer to hire for a massage session before ever considering hiring anyone for an escort session. Some people just aren't going to click, and younger providers are often unprepared to fuck anything that moves. Escorting is a skill, that every cute boy doesnt necessarily have.

Good move. PNP on a profile is a definite RED FLAG for many. I would immediately pass on anyone who lists it. (Even with the very desirable description of "hungry power bottom". 🍑 ) In every business, where reviews are part of the formula, you encounter the occasional client who didn't get quite the experience, they wanted and will choose to blame the provider and exaggerate the situation. The answer to your question of how to prevent being slandered, is that you can only work to make sure the rest of your reviews stand in stark contrast. For examole: most mature adults can see through the random restaurant review, where someone complained about bad food and bad service, when multiple others said the opposite. We all know about these types of sad-sacks who are never happy with anything. You can't make them disappear, but you can give us a reason to look the other way. I agree with the comment above, that you "doth protest too much". A simple explanation of a customer who is bitter and lashing out, would have been adequate. We all know that this happens. Keep your head up, and stay above the fray.

"Party Friendly" = a hard pass for me.

Not unpopular with me. I completely agree. I love a combination session of skilled massage with an erotic finish...but I do expect THAT to cost more (usually double) what a standard therapeutic session would cost. Even if the erotic portion is 10% of the hour.

Nobody, no matter how sexy, looks THE SAME after 10 years.

He's a sexy man. The videos of him face-fucking the participants would make the price of admission worth it, if that were a guaranteed part of the session. 🍆