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If you're talking about a massage and a happy ending..I'm sure even a gay4pay provider can manage a proficient hand job. When it comes to actual SEX, I can confidently say that they need at least a little same sex attraction to make the session work. I do, personally find straight-acting men to be sexier...so bexasue of that, I have occasionally run into gay4pay providers. The session is always a bit awkward, no matter how ambitious they are to please. There is always a very obvious line-in-the-sand that gets in my way of truly having a good time.

I always had trouble holding off on my first orgasm...so I got in the habit of deliberately getting-off quickly on the first round, so I could savor the second. At a sex party, I would typically blow a load down somebody's throat with a quick blowjob and then look for someone else to fuck. I lasted MUCH longer during anal sex when I had launched that first load already. I think its easier to "get tired" if you're relaxing in bed after sex. Most of my extended ejaculation history was while wandering around at a sex party. Less inclined to lay atound and chill out after an orgasm/ far more visual stimuli to keep me constantly excited. Lots of "kid in a candy store" ambition to keep sampling the goods.

There was definitely a time when an attractive young man would utilize those spaces to meet supportive men discreetly. Today, there is less shame in being gay / less shame in publicly celebrating your sexual self / less shame in monetizing your sex life . ..so instead of relying on gay cruising spaces, they advertise their availability in a more public manner, and are well aware of where they stand in their visual merits. (Good looks / big dick / phat ass )

Cock rings turn me on and for me..actually contribute to me cumming too fast.

Some people seem to have this strange assumption that every person who goes into the business has some sort of "code of ethics" that they must subscribe to. There are plenty of young hot guys who think they can make a fast buck as an escort but they lack the most essential quality....and that is the ability to stay hard while performing sexual favors for someone you think is gross and unattractive. So they ask for photos to make sure the 'ick' factor is low enough that they can hold their nose and fuck your old fat ass. There's more than a few of these...so I am surprised by the righteous indignation. Fucking people who you find otherwise unappealing is a true art. You should all think about that when tipping your next handsome young companion when he makes you feel dssirable.

The gays are already spreading STIs like candy at Halloween .

Thanks @BOZO T CLOWN I knew about the rest but George Tobias is news to me! Very interesting . Bernard Fox (Dr. Bombay) was married with children but often rumored to be bisexual.

I think THIS is the only substantive change. LOTS of pretty boys with Instagram physiques who have marketing campaigns that draw the "high roller" clientele of the world. Those of us with normal and even comfortable budgets can't reach the stratosphere of the new norm of Kardashian-world-style cock-commerce.

Quite the general question, dont you think? In the world of escorting there has certainly been more than ONE hairy chested couple who fucked old men for money.

Well....even as we age, personal grooming is still something that helps take the edge off the 'ick' factor. The lazy eye can be fabulous if you make it your own. I Loved Marty Feldman.

Maybe you need better photos. Most escorts arent expecting George Clooney to be texting them.

I haven't set foot in a gay bar since the 90s. I get hit-on all the time in NYC. Nobody seems to rely on "gay physical spaces" here. I don't doubt those are still important in small towns or states like Kentucky or Arkansas....but I have never felt unsafe cruising guys in public, while standing in most any of the major cities in the US. The rule of thumb has always been that straight guys may look at you once, but if hes looking back again...he ain't straight..

I have the same opinion. Nice fellow. nice looking . .but the experience was not worth repeating.

Everyone I know who's young and single and gay living in NYC says dating is near impossible here. Most blame it on the hook-up culture, which has grown exponentially with the ease of meeting from apps. "Anonymity" is now a desirable feature of online hook ups that wraps the whole experience into an immediate environment of emotional emptiness. Share two photos / meet / fuck / leave. Most guys don't even share their name anymore, let alone open up their souls to a vulnerability that begs to see if their partner is nurturing enough to hang on to... None of these young guys ever wants someone to see who they really are. It disrupts the glamor of their Instagram feed.

Same. Tried many people who claim to provide edging, yet haven't met anyone who's actually good for many YEARS.

His interests include Bondage, fisting and piss play....the photos are of a young man who's beyond handsome. The TGTBT vibe is heavy here.

One of the most recommended providers on this site. Definitely a gem, but hardly "hidden".

If youre in a high risk group, you should not skip the Covid shot. Although it doesn't prevent you from catching Covid, it does accelerate the body's natural immune response. They have yet to find a human who doesn't make an immune response to Covid. Just that many people made the response too slowly and the virus replicated too quickly.

Its called dark humor. Some people don't have enough joy in their life to laugh at the absurdity of the world and others do.

Todd is straight?? 🤔

Might I inquire....what is in this "mix" ? ..and ...what is your cultural background as opposed to ethnic background ?

Sometimes what we seek in a relationship are too specific and too multifaceted.

You may be surprised to discover how shallow many gay male relationships really are in NYC. Many of the young guys who I know are constantly in rent-not-buy mode. Always one foot out the door and emotionally detachable in case of emergency. Gay marriage is now as common as gay divorce. Boredom is an emotion that young gay men struggle with, and have little patience for. (Yes, I am generalizing)..but the generalization is not uncommon.

Seems to be making the rounds for rich gay men with a fetish for the Kardashians.