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THAT was MY experience with him. Nothing happened. I also, like to book an erotic massage and see where things go. I don't like micromanaging a session. I ended up with a mediocre massage and NO happy ending. SO for all of that it was a waste of money. Nice looking fellow and very polite and pleasant. So I won't BASH him. It was really on ME, in the end...I didn't SAY I wanted a handjob or wanted him to rub his dick in my face. But I DID ask for an erotic massage so I would say I am a little blurry about WHAT this fellow thought was erotic about the session he provided me. Perhaps a more direct approach works better with him.

That's actually very insightful, @Jamie21. Very clever analysis.

I think after you offer a dozen good suggestions to someone and they keep rejecting them, it's time to give up. If no one is available for $ 400. Then @Boheme13 has two choices: Shop in a less expensive city, OR increase his budget to get what he wants.

I came here to say that. @mike carey

That was some VERY expensive paint on that crosswalk !!

I completely agree. Especially the ones who WERE naturally very hairy. They end up all stubbly like fucking a porcupine. 🦔

*wow* Talk about tone-deaf ! Although . .I'm sure his personality alone rubs people the wrong way even without his making antisemitic commentary or pretending that the black community is suffering increased bigotry and being forced into ovens.

$200 is indeed the new normal for an erotic (happy ending) massage.

I think we are starting to go down the path of discussing RELIGION instead of discussing proselytizing providers. Obviously it's difficult to NOT go there when discussing providers with a salvation mission. But I am throwing out a reminder that religion is a heated subject that is banned on the forum.

Someone buy that kid a sandwich !!

I assume you mean "couldn't" and there-in lies the problem. People SHOULD be more aware of these types and what they believe. Its a growing threat.

Exactly. Its perfectly REASONABLE that a provider should be forewarned that he is being tasked with fucking a hideous cadaver. The entitlement of some people here is astounding when they say that to be a good escort, you must fuck anythjng that moves and it's NONE of their business to know that I'm 100 pounds overweight and only bathe on Thursdays. Obviously we ALL dislike rejection and HIRING is supposed to be the escape from that. However, there ARE limits to what anyone can accept as do-able. A provider has every right to know who/what he's meeting at the door. Doesn't mean he's treating you like a Grindr hook up and ghosting you because you're not a ripped Brazilian model.

I will take that one step further to say for me - it's a HUGE turn OFF. NO pubes = kiddie porn. *Gross* OK - Trim your bush, but don't remove the entire forest.

Is it ? They paint these for every gay pride parade. I hardly think a joyful expression of pride is appropriate as a memorial for a hate filled massacre. I am happy to see it leave. Its embarrassing to discover this was what they came up with as a so-called "memorial'. Perhaps losing it will inspire the local gay community to do better.

Thats all they did as a memorial for a terrible massacre ? Paint some colors in a cross walk nearby ? Perhaps its time for a more meaningful expression of remorse and solidarity.

Even if I would assume the "who" is the same....If they're coming in with an additional 10 years and 40 pounds over the photos they posted, I am not paying. Too many providers with an array of photos from a ten year spread. Not interested in a "This-is-your-life" album. I want the current situation posted, not "oh look how cute I USED TO BE ! " Present company not included 😉

I just checked out some of his porn. He seems to be a good bottom...but for $1200 I'd expect him to be bringing along one of his muscular top buddies too.

I am assuming you mean you want a hot daddy to fund YOUR fitness lifestyle.... Have you considered posting an ad on Seeking.com ? Several people have mentioned this as a place to meet a sugar daddy.

His R.M. ad is showing as being in NYC again.

I've been in the Tropics a few times over Christmas Holiday. (Having visited my family before or after Christmas day). Its always comical as a NorthEasterner to see Santa suits, Pine trees and Fake snow around Plastic reindeer..all adjacent to palm trees and 90 degree weather. On one hand, it was pleasant to know I was avoiding the cold weather, but on the other the holiday didnt feel "real". A move to Canada for most people in the Northern US would feel familiar since most Canadian cities are WAY south in Canada and many arent even as far north as Maine in the US.

There are several massage businesses in that building "3F-Studios" rents out spaces to "masseurs" 😉 as does "MMX"

Masseur_Lance has very different body art and a very different body from LanceStrong.

He's marketing himself as a "masculine bro" so the baseball hat tracks as a symbol of rednecky masculine "bro" energy. I don't personally see any signs that he's a member of The-Hair-Club-for-Men. Quoted me $450 for erotic massage. Thats a hard-NO. He's a hottie..but so are lots of others who have a more realistic grasp of what a massage and handy-J is worth.

Quite a few years (and pounds) between photo #1 and pix #6 & #7. I always question this trip down memory lane when you're looking to hire a pro. I really dont care what they looked like 10 years ago....I want to see a few shots of the CURRENT situation, so I have a clear picture of what is showing up at my door.

I have two friends who are straight but did a little hustling of gay men, when they were young. They both admitted that there was zero physical attraction to their "Johns". They were excited by the thought of being PAID to cum (in somebody's mouth).