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I rarely hit up escorts. When I do its when they are spectacular . Most of them ask for a photo. I have no problem providing one. (Tight t shirt torso + face / no nudity)

When I was younger, I had quite a few ballet dancers in my "little black book" of regulars. Their bottoming abilities were superior to every other human being I've ever met. 🍑 To this day when I meet a young man at a party and he tells me he's a dancer, I am working desperately to get a phone number (or at least their Insta)

Be careful asking directly on Twitter about "escort". These websites screen for terminology that can be caught up in sex trafficking charges. Always inquire about hiring for a "collaboration". Then discuss in private that you didnt want to film it for distribution.

I generally meet people through massage services. Not escort. Because of that, most of my initial sexual encounters with those providers have been NON-penetrative. Perhaps you should consider taking some courses in massage and focus on erotic massage services instead of traditional escorting. The expectations of fucking are much lower (to non-existent) with masseurs.

No first hand experience, but I would point out that ive seen many of these photos in years past. I am thinking SEVERAL years ago. Might be a good idea to ask for more current images before taking the plunge.

Sex isn't always about equity. sub/DOM fetish is a common interest group. Passive bottoms are highly regarded by dominant tops.

I think this issue is being regarded as WAY too binary: "Either you can fuck everything that moves or you shouldn't be a provider." 🙄 I completely disagree...and I repeat: EVERYONE has a right to run their business they way they deem appropriate. Don't like it/ don't shop there. To say I am: 60, fat and bald, certainly doesn't mean that everyone in that category is the SAME. People age differently, look differently, and the term "fat" is VERY general. I think that I AM "fat", when i dont work out regularly. To me, even a beer belly is "fat". To another person 300 pounds and a 48 inch waist is "fat". The description is only part of the picture and there have been multiple conversations here where providers hit a wall with a client who was particularly unappealing in appearance, even though they generally had a come-one-come-all attitude.

Well...according to some of the gentlemen here...its a new ask...but the providers have always had a right to run their business as they see fit. Same with deposits. Just say no. (If you dont like it).

Well...for the purpose of this conversation: Its the person who youre asking to have sex with you ! Everyone can take ONE good photo. One of my childhood girlfriends is now very fat. I still love her and am overjoyed when I see here. I don't think I could fuck her..but I still think she's sweet.She has some nice face.pix that she uses for her job. (LinkedIN) etc

Is that true ? I can't be THAT much of an outlier. I understand that some people only use escorts services because they are so unattractive that nobody would fuck them for free...so being rejected by their last chance at getting laid would be humiliating and sad. But the guys who I seek are good looking enough that they can pick and choose the clients they want. So I dont mind the momentary gatekeeping if it gets me what I want.

I have NO problem providing a photo. I dont send nudes to escorts. I send face/clothed body shots. Its not Grindr, but they do have a right to see who they are meeting.

We were talking about people flaking. I am not casting doubt on people coming and going in DC. THAT happens after every change of administration. I am saying that I dont think that many people are losing their job simultaneous to having contacted an escort so that they need to suddenly cancel.

He reached out to me recently and said hes on his way back to New York.

That doesnt make ANY sense. Does eveyone in DC get fired hours after contacting an escort ? 🤔

No one is in the city July 4th Weekend. Thats why.

There are a lot of closeted gay men who contact masseurs and escorts and follow through a booking up to a point, but then get cold feet (or they finished jerking off thinking about it). then disappear. Its an unfortunate risk of the trade. Always try to foster as many regulars as possible.

"Kia"...good misdirect, Kai. Pretend you cant spell your own name. Our respect for you would be higher if you'd come here honestly instead of pretending to be someone else and failing miserably at the deception.

Impossible to get a weekend reservation if you dont book months in advance.

I would agree that escort prices are more commonly understood as one price including anything from their "list of toppings". But masseurs are not escorts and their base rate isnt necessarily going to be worth licking your balls while you jerk off in their face. So the a la carte menu brings more clarity to some providers' willingness to go beyond the standard business model of a rub & tug.

I hope the gentlemen you hire are not actually treated as such. NO. its NOT the same.

I concur with that analysis about Kai. My "bad reputation" comment was more geared toward the issue in general where people suddenly pop in to comment on a thread where SOME (& sometimes all) the contributors had a negative experience. In this case the mood swings, bad temper, and awkward communications style are definitely red flags for some people to be cautious when considering taking the plunge. He's an attractive fellow. I personally wish the comments supported a more consistently pleasant experience.

It's been frequently discussed here. I have rarely run into it myself. But I have even had actual menus with prices texted to me by providers. Handjob+50. Blowjob+100 Fuck +200 💰

What a coincidence. 🤣 It's always the people who "just signed up" who are quick to refute significant amounts of information surrounding the providers with bad reputations.

I don't blame you. We always leave town for the day. The "ghetto" behavior tends to be at night, when we return and it's primarily the Lesbians making the worst impression on the people who live here. Much of the most outrageous behavior coincides with screaming IN SPANISH. Thus my opinion that the "ghetto" behavior at Pride is heavily concentrated in the Lesbian Latina community.

"Nico" in New York, is delicious. Is he really 38 in those photos ? It's rare for me to find a man in his late thirties to be attractive to me. (Not that I wouldn't agree that they were an attractive person). Just not MY thing. I wonder if Nico's photography choices were from his younger modeling days.