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I happen to know it was a decision based on profit. The refused to fund a respected research project that would have lead to BLOCKING HIV from spreading via your T cells.

I don't agree with that assessment. I understand your point about the DATA being skewed, but my point is not about numbers and data but just logic. We know that tops CAN be infected. MY point is that ANYONE who is infected, whether top or bottom, likely needs the same degree of protection, because an infection is an infection. Whether you have a huge load up your ass, or a few cells in your urethra.

That was indeed the narrative being promoted in the 80s. However. Its 40 years later and no funding has ever been found for that cure that would end the very profitable pills that thousands of homosexuals rely on.

Absolutely . I have always asked providers who I have an ongoing professional relationship with, if their name is their given name or a name chosen for business purposes. I am not, however insulted if they choose to continue to keep their real name private.

I call sloppy seconds. I agree....definitely a delicious ass.🍑

You need more hobbies other than jerking off to porn. Its summer time. Go hang gliding, parachuting or ride a roller coaster for thrills.

Well...when you're hooking up with ONE person, its not unusual to lay around after sex. When you're at a sex party, you fuck somebody, cum in their mouth or in their ass, pat them on the back, say thanks and you move on to the next. The room is full of gorgeous men, so there's lots of treats to get you going again.

Wow. You were definitely blessed. I grew up in the late 80s with condoms being absolutely mandatory for sex with anyone...and I wasnt even sleeping with men back then. You definitley dodged a lot of bullets there by being a top. But this reinforces my opinion. Maximium efficacy of PreP is the same for tops and bottoms. Its just that tops arent as in the same hi risk position as a bottom.

Well...thats my point. Its clear that risk is higher for a bottom than a top. BUT when it comes to the question - which is: How many days does a top need to take PreP v.s. a bottom. It seems to me that the dosage has nothing to do with your sexual position. The Russian Roulette quality of risk in a top barebacking, seems to be the only variable. Day of infection vs. efficacy of saturation in the blood stream is therefore the same for both.

I am confused by this question. WHY would efficacy be different for a top than a bottom ? 🤔 I 'get' that the bottom is taking a BIG load of virus, while the top is somewhat less likely to have virus sneak in, but it only takes ONE little virus to start an HIV infection ....so to me whether top or bottom, you need the same protection.

Guess who was the director of NIAID who needed to approved the research. Answer: Anthony Fauci. My friend said his lab had developed groundbreaking research demonstrating that B cell response to HIV can prevent the virus from attaching to your T cells. They had a mouse model where a single immunization tricked the body into always making a B cell response instead of a T cell response. This could have lead to the development of a vaccine in the early 90s. Fauci refused to further fund the research (it was a university lab that had some funding for initial foundation work). The letter of refusal specifically said that they are currently focused on TREATMENT (pharmaceuticals)..and although their proposal had merit, there was no immediate funding available for such an approach to preventing the spread of HIV. 😳

A good friend of mine is an expert in immunology. He said when he was younger there was a big rush of HIV research money. BUT - anyone who proposed a CURE was shot down and denied research funding. The ONLY projects ever funded were those that focused on TREATMENT (pharmaceuticals), not CURES.

The Leatherman on Christopher Street is always the best, most experienced place to buy a cock ring. They also do custom work if you can't find exactly what you want off-the-shelf.

When I was in my 30s my best friends were those who were around 10 years older. Now in my 50s those are the ones who are still around and all the "fabulous" people I've met over the years, my age and younger have since disappeared

Even worse position to be in. At least when the others were doing it they had already won their medals.

I second that opinion. I've been with him a few times. Very sweet boy-next-door vibe. Photos are very representational of his current looks. (Although they are a mix of newer and older). I have always left VERY happy. I suppose its possible that there was something that put him off. As @BrklynNYC said: Better to walk away than pay for a disappointing session. Kind of him to offer to reimburse your travel costs. Thats in line with the sweet personality that he has always exhibited with me.

I dont think this phenomenon is reserved to escorts. I've actually run across this with hook ups. Dudes that just lay there while you fuck 'em. One was a Calvin Klein model who I always remember as the hottest guy I ever slept with and also simultaneously, the worst hookup I've ever had. I always refer to these as a "dead lay".

Other Olympic athletes had OnlyFans accounts but none of them were jerking-off on camera. The other guys (mostly divers and swimmers) were posting butt shots, and peekaboo pubes pix. Nothing sexual.

He's cute...but I am baffled as to why anyone would pay money to see him.j/o. 🤔 SO much better porn out there, available for free.

I used to joke that I needed a pill to keep it DOWN ! ha. I have an extremely high testosterone level..so that would explain the ability to keep going without any "chemical assistance". Even now at 54 years old...when I do my annual physical, my doctor laughs when he reads through my bloodwork and gets to the testosterone chart.

If you're talking about a massage and a happy ending..I'm sure even a gay4pay provider can manage a proficient hand job. When it comes to actual SEX, I can confidently say that they need at least a little same sex attraction to make the session work. I do, personally find straight-acting men to be sexier...so bexasue of that, I have occasionally run into gay4pay providers. The session is always a bit awkward, no matter how ambitious they are to please. There is always a very obvious line-in-the-sand that gets in my way of truly having a good time.

I always had trouble holding off on my first orgasm...so I got in the habit of deliberately getting-off quickly on the first round, so I could savor the second. At a sex party, I would typically blow a load down somebody's throat with a quick blowjob and then look for someone else to fuck. I lasted MUCH longer during anal sex when I had launched that first load already. I think its easier to "get tired" if you're relaxing in bed after sex. Most of my extended ejaculation history was while wandering around at a sex party. Less inclined to lay atound and chill out after an orgasm/ far more visual stimuli to keep me constantly excited. Lots of "kid in a candy store" ambition to keep sampling the goods.

There was definitely a time when an attractive young man would utilize those spaces to meet supportive men discreetly. Today, there is less shame in being gay / less shame in publicly celebrating your sexual self / less shame in monetizing your sex life . ..so instead of relying on gay cruising spaces, they advertise their availability in a more public manner, and are well aware of where they stand in their visual merits. (Good looks / big dick / phat ass )

Cock rings turn me on and for me..actually contribute to me cumming too fast.

Some people seem to have this strange assumption that every person who goes into the business has some sort of "code of ethics" that they must subscribe to. There are plenty of young hot guys who think they can make a fast buck as an escort but they lack the most essential quality....and that is the ability to stay hard while performing sexual favors for someone you think is gross and unattractive. So they ask for photos to make sure the 'ick' factor is low enough that they can hold their nose and fuck your old fat ass. There's more than a few of these...so I am surprised by the righteous indignation. Fucking people who you find otherwise unappealing is a true art. You should all think about that when tipping your next handsome young companion when he makes you feel dssirable.